11+ years doing reviews, I think I have given maybe three 10-10 reviews. Maybe I have a new life every 3 or 4 years but the ladies deserved the scores I gave them.  

Besides, high scores only get a hobbyist to the review. The truth is in the verbiege which is why you need VIP to be able to read the details.

This is a dead, too often discussed topic.

Try to understand reality and stop taking "once in a lifetime" literally.

Use the reviews (if they are so inaccurate DON'T use them) as a guide as to what to expect and stop whining about it.

Early on in my hobby, I saw some really awesome women who were way above and beyond what I had ever experienced in my life, I was one of those guys that Robinn referenced who had such a crappy sex life that I was blown away by these beautiful sexy talented women.My third provider was by far my ATF, truly Once in a Lifetime both beauty, sexy talented and one of the most awesome persons I have ever met. She didn't do anal and that's perfectly fine with me as anal is not important to me. My first review of her I gave 10/10 because she is the most beautiful woman I've ever met in person and it was undoubtedly the very best sex I had had in my life. I was informed that because she doesn't do anal that I had to change my scoring, which I did. Each and every time I saw her the performance was a 10 in my book, but because of the limitations I could only give her a 9. I have been coerced from a provider since to give her a 10, she did do anal although I didn't partake for as long as I could have because it just doesn't interest me that much. You know what shame on me for allowing her to coerce me, she was a 9/9 but not 10/10. I have since vowed not to allow a provider to dictate the score but I've always been forthcoming with the details in the review. So now my ATF is gone she was a touring lady with the agency that had to close down earlier this year. She rocked my world 8 times, and I'm not sure I'll ever find a lady that will make me feel that good but I'm site going to try.

give 10/10 to most providers he sees the 10 score do not count..you are right 10/10 should come about one or two times

love making  skills, brains and social status  .. you said that those  who  
"more money than brains, or who mainly seek trophies are the target of such aforementioned manipulations"
 the  fact that those men have money is an evident that those men have brains ...  
 any escort woman would confirm that - those who can  book ahead , plan,  knows schedule, respect her time  those  have money and brains  and those  who  do not know own time more then few hours  as a rule - normally with no money  
 you said " those are target of manipulation " what kind of manipulations ? rates  9 and 10 fin to those women just  indicative - just are flags to for those who do not want go to prostitute  on high volume that all .. men say - I gave 10 in performance when I do not feel I  do pay her  as to looks  as long as he is happy he just loves her and love is blind you can not blame him.
I am of course 9  some see me as 10  some  see me as 8  some never will see me
and I stoped take pics  byt those famous  to photoshop photographers for over paid money  

..what I want to say that there are not manipulations or disappointment from both sides or ladies or men  who gave them  9 10 .. simply they do not need and would see a beauty in fishnets  or   let say with ( sorry..) tattoo
   using such words  as "piss off" ( i know I know I know we all love talk dirty in the  bedroom and I do have filthy mouth  to  wishper you all  I want to do in your ear but ..BUT if I do not like something and am upset .. I would not say  
 "Piss off"
  or   any of use of vulgar dictionary on  the level of high school  
..as you know those men
 do not need a woman over 40 dressed as  school  college girl with cigarette on treadmill ..and if they would meet such she be not 9 or 10 so I guess it is women;s choice  whom to be
 how to act  
 WHOM TO SEE  
WHOM TO SEE IS THE KEY  
 to 9 and 10  
 but yes ..  those who would see me if those would see  woman who comes in fishnets short skit red lipstick and  vulgar language?
 No  
I already am ellegant.. yet I have clients who just feel soooo safer .. take me to store and dress as he wants - boots no hills  longer coat  ( and I already have longer coat .. but sometime want dress any way in normal to knee coat - yet he thinks it is too much and prefers me better to shop with him to black  voat no hills no red lipstick and will clothe coat tied when enter building ...
 such men or not write reviews or when  they do   those are 9 and 10 ... but I think .. I have  proved myself and many hobbyists who saw many women from here any way gave me 9 and 10 "0 I think they just  in LOVE with me .. H ha ha ha  
 or  a I am I really one life time?
 I never believed it myself .. till men started tell  me that .. and I am B breasts and no fake tan nor fake hair nor fake nails.. no botox  just a  woman over 35  how about that ? ha ha ha  am  I 7? 8 ? ( ? 10 ?
 wh cares .. we will have it as you never had .. - I just would love you  and you would love me  

 

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Some may say that a perfect 10 in looks must the most beautiful woman in the planet - a Victoria Secret model perhaps. The reality is those types of women are few and far between in this business. True 10s in looks in this business are most likely UTR, if they exist at all. True 10s can make millions of dollars as supermodels, so why the fuck would they be escorting?  Thus, a 10 rating for appearance in the hobby world is all relative in the first place.

I have seen 3 girls who are currently in the TER top 10 nationwide list.  I must say that performance wise, for me...they really were 10s and very much deserving of those performance scores. Sure, perhaps some of these reviews are fake, some may have been coerced, some lower scores were perhaps removed...but generally, those girls deserve to be where they are as far as performance.  

As far as appearance, I would not say any of them were 10s. Maybe 8s or 9s at best. One provider looks 15 years older than her stated age. But the performance is so good, hobbyists get in a situation where they had such a good time, they don't want to give a 10 for performance, and then hurt a providers feelings (and rating) by giving her a lower appearance score. Two of these providers have a "no review" policy, as they are comfortable where they are with their perfect 10/10s (though not surprisingly, they are open to reviews if you promise them a 10/10.)

As a result, they rack up 10 after 10 in appearance. Any 9 is seen as a death wish  and career ruiner and is often mysteriously deleted by TER. My experience is that  providers with nothing but 10/10 ratings aren't necessarily "one in a lifetime" for appearance (though they may be for some) but they generally got those ratings because of their performance.

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Here's the thing, I don't think anyone has gotten to the Top 100 by ripping people off or writing themselves fake reviews. At some point, they kind of have to have given good service, right? No one can get 50 bad reviews removed to leave the 20 with only 10/10s, TER would catch on, or someone would notify them. At least, they should.

That being said, I can see why the guys are weary. I mean, who gets exactly 20 reviews over the course of a couple of years, and they're all magically 10/10s? Especially when it's well known that some girls use other means of persuasion to get them.

While I wouldn't totally discredit a string of 10/10's, I would definitely give more respect, as a fellow worker, to a girl with reviews that are more realistic, even if she was further down on the list. Lots of reviews with a consistently high score mean more than a few that all claim she's "perfect", and a little swing in the scoring shows that she's probably not being a huge looney after the review is written.

Great topic! Never been covered here before. Isn't it about time for the BBFS thread?

Well, what is average anyways? Are we comparing them to the average escort? The average civvie? The average porn you can find online? And since TER requires the lady to perform certain services in order to reach a 10 for performance, is a 10 reeeally a "once in a lifetime", or a "she does all the things"? Are the numbers there just to go along with a checklist of activities, or are they there for how you felt the time went?  

The numbers are just a baseline part of the puzzle it seems, used to help search more than anything. The actual content of the reviews are what add meaning to that number. From the written part, you can figure out if this guy is just an easy reviewer, if he gave her a 10 because she did every thing in the book, or if he gave her a 10 because of the way she made him feel while they were together. Yes, the numbers are important, but I think the words behind the number are what mean the most, when making a selection. At least, that's how a lot of us ladies seem to look at it when we are looking at reviews of ourselves and of others.  

Me personally, I see a lot more 7's than anything else, when I look at the "new reviews" section (in the carolinas), and honestly, that seems about right? I mean, obviously there are the ones who are way off in the terrible or awesome direction, but if you consider that this is kind of our job, so we have to do it better than the average civvie girl, then a 7 wouldn't seem that far off, would it?  

And honestly, how bad can she really be, if she made an attempt to do something other than starfish or steal your car? I'm not a guy, so maybe there's a lot more to it, but y'all just don't seem that hard to please, as long as we show up on time and put a little effort into it?

Well you would think we are easy to please but we all looking for something different so I guess that makes your job more difficult.  Since I'm a bit older now and a "7" or average in the performance category is just not what one who is paying for a service should expect.  I would expect more from a provider in her performance not just if she can check off a list of things that she does just to get a 10. I agree that reading content of a review is how you disern if a provider is right for you.

I want to share  on my example - when man open the  door he goes wow  
he is very impressed how I do look  
.. when he writes reviews - he did not mention my look almost never
I was hurt at first ..
 jst few say - she does look as celebrity, Italian movie star .. ONLY few ..  
 my performance over powered  and raised from his memory how he saw me when I did open the  door ..
I  woould not say I am dead drop gorgeous for everybody  "dead drop" expression already sound VERY wrong and hurts ear .. and feelings of intelligent men  
 see .. many men love different things ..
 some  just do not  think that Hollywood CA type women are  the best looking .. not all love blonds  
not all love big breasts ..not many love strng smell of perfume and red lipsticks with red  super long fake nails   it is  all media standards which beauty pageants pushed on men and women back then  now and on pageants Indian girls are crowned  who are not blond and not DDD.. some love naturally warm charming women European type .. and beauty  should not be dead drop gorgeous .. do you hear those words ?? for me it is already over the top ..
so MY 10 s are from relaxed real life men .. who want real charming   touchy woman when you just forgat she is"dead drop: whatever .. is it fan to be with an  Icon ??
 you do donate here your hardworking roses to  make YOU feel better  
not a take a pics with her .. any way you would be not able to share with freinds ha ha a
by the way  some man ask me take pic for memory just standing together I do it  .. why not ?? I am single


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We all use base 10 for counting. If we had 8 toes and 10 fingers who knows what base we;d use?

Just remember 0 is NOT a number, it is a place holder--count 1 through 9, insert a 0 and repeat counting again.

try this, look at the numbers, look at the pixs and then read the reviews to see if what is offered is what you want.
Deprived

To some guys, any provider who will lick his ass, swallow, and do anal is a 10...others expect things besides acronyms to rate a lady a 10. Could be anything from a luxury resort vs a hotel room, his favorite scotch, or her hiring a real massage therapist in her dime. If all a guy is grading on is a fk, then I don't care to be a 10. I give more, and do more than simply spread my legs and run around like a monkey with a check list.

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Just for my own edification, is there typically an extra charge for monkey running?

Well said London! Obviously the main event is important to the gent, but in my opinion a 10 should be the result of an unforgettable experience that he cant stop thinking about and wanting more! Conversing with the client and finding out what he likes/dislikes is beneficial so that he can enjoy his time with you! instead rushing to the main event to complete your checklist...