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hotplants 319 reads
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Everyone gets to determine the level of risk they're comfortable with.

I believe that a man who is fucking women outside of his marriage, when his wife does not know about this, AND he is continuing to have sex with her, is the perfect candidate to choose a CBJ.

Take all the risk YOU like. But, it is not your place to determine what that risk level is for someone with whom you are in a committed relationship---not without their direct input.

There. That's at least one good argument for why someone would pay for a CBJ...



lungman1704 reads

3/4 of providers do it and i take it you've had no health problems?
If that is the case, why would other ladies not follow suit. ( if indeed the CBJ ladies are doing it to prevent STD's)

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serpius353 reads

Hey Lungman,

It's a personal preference with every provider. There is a decreased chance of getting STDs through oral sex. (NOTE: I didn't say ZERO chance, just a decreased chance of getting STDs)

For us hobbyists who love to do DATY are in the same risk category. So, you can pose the question to us hobbyist is what are WE doing to protect ourselves against STD when we do the DATY?

Again... this comes down to personal preference.

sunrosc

Posted By: lungman
3/4 of providers do it and i take it you've had no health problems?
If that is the case, why would other ladies not follow suit. ( if indeed the CBJ ladies are doing it to prevent STD's)

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hotplants320 reads

Everyone gets to determine the level of risk they're comfortable with.

I believe that a man who is fucking women outside of his marriage, when his wife does not know about this, AND he is continuing to have sex with her, is the perfect candidate to choose a CBJ.

Take all the risk YOU like. But, it is not your place to determine what that risk level is for someone with whom you are in a committed relationship---not without their direct input.

There. That's at least one good argument for why someone would pay for a CBJ...



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Circling-Buzzard305 reads

I suppose you use dental dams for your pussy licking.

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hotplants223 reads

And, if I did, my pussy licking would be with her. Unless, of course, we mutually agreed on a different arrangement. And, if we did agree on another arrangement, part of that discussion would be safety rules. And, whatever those rules were, I would abide by them.

See how that works?

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London Rayne463 reads

with less enjoyment. I have never contracted anything via oral, so here's hoping it stays that way. It is a choice and I applaud the ladies who can make a living doing cbj...I never could.

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OhCharlie369 reads

Take a thumb in the ass? Plenty of others do it. Plenty of others also enjoy being chocked, spit on, told about our other clients, or having a nice little cry afterwards.

The good providers allow you to be your own person and make your own decisions about where your boundaries are and what kind of session you want to have. And if you're actually interested in having a good experience, rather than a "mechanical" one as you so often hear about, you should also respect her decisions and her boundaries.

Treat her well and go to actually experience the lady, and a CBJ won't be a problem. Decide to let that one thing put a damper on the whole session, and it will be. Your choice darlin :)

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SinCitySinner305 reads

...a lot of guys associate anything in ass as an equivalent of gay sex.

When I first told my buddies about how good it felt when this one girl (actually a provider, but they don't know I hobby) gave me a prostate massage, they laughed their asses off.  I couldn't friggin' believe them, and see anything worth mocking in that.  They asked me if I was experimenting with my sexuality, and if I had any intentions of gay sex?

I realized at that time that they were at a complete different level (sexually) than I was.

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lungman238 reads

Sorry, but i don't see the CBJ ladies!!
It's bad enough having to cover up to fuck!
For the bucks we are paying, don't we deserve a little skin to skin contact. (bbbj)
BTW, i'm seeing a lady who is neither mechanical and she gives "awesome head"
Just brought the question up, because IMHO, CBJ is overkill.

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OhCharlie215 reads

For the bucks you're paying, you deserve her time and to be treated like a person. Anything else that happens is up to you guys. Just like out in the real world, you don't "deserve" anything more than what a lady is comfortable with.

If condoms are such a pain, get real girlfriend, fix your relationship with your wife, see a provider who's willing to do that... there are enough options for everyone that providers who don't offer what you want shouldn't get any more thought than "huh, seems like a nice girl" and a click on the next ad.

STD's are very real, and can be transmitted orally. These girls are just going a step further than others to protect themselves, and their clients, and no one should fault them for that, let alone think that they "deserve" for boundaries to be compromised because of a donation.

Posted By: lungman
Sorry, but i don't see the CBJ ladies!!
It's bad enough having to cover up to fuck!
For the bucks we are paying, don't we deserve a little skin to skin contact. (bbbj)
BTW, i'm seeing a lady who is neither mechanical and she gives "awesome head"
Just brought the question up, because IMHO, CBJ is overkill.

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nahtynikkey249 reads

Exactly. I do so for both protection & personal preference. Sorry, I am just not comfortable putting a strangers di** in my mouth uncovered... I don't know anything about him, or who else he is seeing, or what he does in his spare time. My health & well-being is more important than being able to charge another $50-$100 per hour.

Posted By: OhCharlie
For the bucks you're paying, you deserve her time and to be treated like a person. Anything else that happens is up to you guys. Just like out in the real world, you don't "deserve" anything more than what a lady is comfortable with.

If condoms are such a pain, get real girlfriend, fix your relationship with your wife, see a provider who's willing to do that... there are enough options for everyone that providers who don't offer what you want shouldn't get any more thought than "huh, seems like a nice girl" and a click on the next ad.

STD's are very real, and can be transmitted orally. These girls are just going a step further than others to protect themselves, and their clients, and no one should fault them for that, let alone think that they "deserve" for boundaries to be compromised because of a donation.
Posted By: lungman
Sorry, but i don't see the CBJ ladies!!
It's bad enough having to cover up to fuck!
For the bucks we are paying, don't we deserve a little skin to skin contact. (bbbj)
BTW, i'm seeing a lady who is neither mechanical and she gives "awesome head"
Just brought the question up, because IMHO, CBJ is overkill.

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