So there's a provider who "retired" a couple of years ago and decided to make a UTR comeback. She sends me a TER private message asking if I'd like to catch up. I am more than excited to do that but just a little worried that she would use the TER pm to inform me about this an not my email or didn't text me for that matter. The messages on pm are very small and sporadic. I want to see her and am very eager but worried if this is an LE trap. Am I being paranoid? Or is this a possibility? If so, how do I make sure I don't fall into the trap? Would appreciate any inputs.

Turn about is fair play, after all.

If you are wondering if LE is trying to get you, meet her in a public place, if it's her, you're good to go. If you think she is working with LE, that gets a little trickier. I would ask her to send TER handles of other guys she has recently seen and check with them.

If she had deleted all contact info, and tossed her work phone, then TER would be the easiest way to get a hold of past client. It seems easier for LE to use email for a sting, than to hack into a TER account. Also if a TER account was hacked, then it might be harder to use gathered info in court? Just my thoughts.

unless she has gone over to the dark side, you can bail out if it's not her at the door before any transaction takes place.

but my first thought was a tie between agreeing that YES he is most definitely paranoid and thinking "what a dumb fucking question" to myself. I think the two thoughts entered my mind almost simultaneously.

Why would you think that TER PMs may be coming from LE, but emails and texts wouldn't be?
Why would LE use a retired provider's account to catch a John? If LE was using TER to catch john's wouldn't they try to flip an active lady rather than a retired one?

Maybe he's just stupid???

I'd go with stupid. I'll probably change my alias to captain_stupid. How's that .

Thanks for the inputs guys. They were helpful.

At least it appears you realize it wasn't your brightest moment AND you can laugh about it, maybe there is hope for you after all?

a good sport about the ribbing, I will not add another "rude" two cents worth.

but when they have no sense of humor, get all defensive and start whining about us being "mean" to them, like Scoed or Scoed Jr, I tend to act like a shark who smells blood in the water.

Some do, but not all.