You just burst my bubble, ruined my fantasy!!!!!   UGH!!  I know what you said was true....I just want to believe it anyway......She looks at me and says....YOU have the nicest cock I have ever seen.  Of course I do....and 400 other guys you saw today.  You are killing me over here.   When she says....I only let you Cum in my mouth....of course she allows 400 other guys CUM in her mouth....I just want to keep living that fantasty and thanks to you.....ITS OVER!!!!!!!!!!!!   :       UGH   :  8

Gals do you perfer regular clients or to see different guys all the time.  Now don't be confused with the money....if you were going to get paid the same and have the same appt schedule would you rather see a guy that you have seen before (a reg) or a new guy?  DO you develop a connection the more you see a reg?  I ask because when I find a women that I like I tend to see them about 10 times in a row.  I develop a connection with them and each time the session gets better and better.  THoughts?  Is this the norm in the industry or not the norm?  I know...very interesting....hummmm

Me personally I like having my regulars. It does get better and better over time as you get to know each others likes and dislikes and form a comfort level for new experiences.

I would much rather see people I know, preferably gents that have been meeting with me longer than one year whom I have built a relationship with. In fact, that would be my ideal...to only see those gents.

I like making new friends and meeting new people but ideally I would like to see mostly regulars with an occasional new guy thrown in the mix.

It has been too long.

and prefer seeing them over a new person. I like the idea of getting to know someones likes and dislikes and likewise feel the same about the men I see. When a man remembers things we have talked about it shows interest in me as a person more than just an activity person you share sex with. The personal relationship you gain by seeing someone over again becomes much more intimate and of course makes the time you spend more fulfilling.

Klsses Haley

I enjoy the excitement level I get with my regulars and always trying to see what else we can cum up with. But I love seeing new faces..The excitement of meeting someone new and engaging in something  unknown is always engaging. BUT I hate the fear of LE..With regulars you don't have that.

I think for me it goes both ways..

It takes the whole stress level away of not knowing what you're going to be walking into when you go to visit a new provider.

The sex starts to get better, because you both start to learn each of other bodies better. Which also goes along with being comfortable around each other. It's starts to not feel so much so, like a session, but a friend with benefits.

I always enjoy meeting new friends, and men from all "walks of life," however the nerves are a little high upon meeting for the first time (but hopefully it doesn't show). I definitely enjoy seeing familiar friends, learning more about what he likes and catering each session to him as time goes on.  I am more relaxed with my regulars, definitely!  However one cannot become a regular until we have met for the first time, lol!  I love to spoil my regulars and reward them for their loyalty in numerous, and creative ways.

In my 20's, all I wanted were new guys, one-time encounters, and I never remembered their names.
Back in the biz and in my mid 30's, I appreciate a man I can look forward to seeing and get hot about before our date.  We are both much more relaxed, then the first meet, and of course enjoy each others company.  The level of eroticism expands as we tease our way to the anticipated encounter and linger in its aftermath.
I naturally prefer giving myself fully to a select amount of men, rather than a trillion.  Though "new" again to the hobby, I find myself too busy to say I'm low volume.  But given the choice, I'd rather see just a handful of really great gentlemen (regulars) anyday...Xoxo's

I have friends that I've seen for years and I'm so grateful to have them in my life as they've become much more to me than just a "client". At the same time, those people were strangers to me once so there's something to be said for first dates and the magic that can happen when the meeting is still anonymous.

That's exactly why I like to see the same women over and over again.  If I like them and I'm attracted to them...I never get sick of them or loose interest.  If I ever get married, it will be with some that I'm very attracted to and I will never cheat because I don't loose interest as long as she like sex as much as I do  :     I think that is the key!  I love my reg girls....they always treat me great and do things that they don't do with other guys like (CIM) or DFK....All the reviews say they don't.....but she does with me  :  

but the reason you're here is because you are seeking that "variety" that you won't find with just ONE woman.  But...hopefully if you ever do indeed find a gal to settle down with she will prove to be that exception and keep you mesmerized with her skills.

And the reviews that "say they don't"...yea...that's written by guys who only saw your gal one time (probably).  The reality (and I really hate to burst your fantasy) is if she does it with you...she does it with plenty of others.

But that is why this is such a "fantasy" world.  She will make you believe it is just "for you".

Enjoy

It's only a dream....click your heels three times together...and you're back in

the OLD TER where flames were abundant...and men were men!

You are not entirely correct with this.  I guess when a lady is very low volume by choice, she has the pleasure and luxury of having something unique with each gentleman.
Why fib? Why BS a guy?! That sounds like a lot of extra hard work to me!  Unless you're in the bedrooms of all the ladies, it's probably best to not assume that you know what's going on.

Posted By: ChgoCPA

but the reason you're here is because you are seeking that "variety" that you won't find with just ONE woman.  But...hopefully if you ever do indeed find a gal to settle down with she will prove to be that exception and keep you mesmerized with her skills.

And the reviews that "say they don't"...yea...that's written by guys who only saw your gal one time (probably).  The reality (and I really hate to burst your fantasy) is if she does it with you...she does it with plenty of others.

But that is why this is such a "fantasy" world.  She will make you believe it is just "for you".

Enjoy

I'm not assuming here....

There's quite a few of us that have a really...I mean really good idea how this is played.

But feel free to keep on telling your clients "that it's really for them...and only them".

And how it's "extra hard work" telling Johnny what he wants to hear...really!

is she asks you not to, so that new guys seeing her will not expect things she won't do with just anybody.  Because I always read reviews extensively before seeing a gal for the first time, so when she goes "above and beyond" I'll usually tell her I write reviews but assume I shouldn't say we did whatever seems not to be on her menu.  YMMV!

But you ARE assuming. Clearly there are things that will take place with each meeting but personally, I don't give false compliments or pretend. Each person is unique which therefore makes each experience unique. Why is that so hard for you to believe? Why be such a pessimist and assume that every lady is the same with every guy?!  No cookie cutter meetings here for me..I feel sorry for anyone who has to endure that!

are so naive to buy the "it's only for you" story.

I'm thrilled for you that YOUR clients like how you deliver your "performances".  And that is why most of the guys are indeed playing..myself included.

But as I said...some fellas have been playing a while...seen many ladies...and clearly understand the nature of the transactions.

And if you think that most (not all) sessions are indeed not a cookie cutter session...you need to talk with some of the ladies to understand how sessions go on out here.  If you are indeed "unique"..great.  But based on your reviews...you're NOT

Hmm..why are you getting so upset? I simply clarified something for you. Not everyone is the same and not everyone does things the same way. As for my reviews, there are 5! Most clients prefer to stay away from this site and don't feel the need to share our intimate details so again, you're assuming a lot about someone based on 5 reviews.  Oh well, so much for having an intelligent conversation based of facts rather than opinions and assumptions..without people getting nasty because "they've been doing this for a while". I guess that makes you a know-it-all.  Yes, we'll go with that.

While NOT every client is her for variety, I would think it is safe to say that "the vast majority" have seen more (or plan on) than one gal.  That would suggest that most (not necessarily all) seek variety.  Many fellas find a lady(s) that they are content with seeing more often than others, but the reasons guys are in P4P is to try and seek what they enjoy the most.

While every provider is different, most (at least those I have seen and those of every fella I've talked to and PM'd) all discuss a gal's routine.  Everyone has a comfort level in how they will act.  Generally we humans are creatures of habit, and I see nothing in P4P to alter that perception.  While the activities you enjoy may not be what any other provider will enjoy, the fact is that you will perform simiilarly with each fella.  And generally the same goes with the fellas that see you...they will tend to become routine and predictable.

So if you feel I am assuming all of this..so be it.  The ONLY way to prove this out is for each of us to conduct interviews of everyone here, past present and future.  And that is not likely to happen anytime soon.

Why any of my comments would be considered to make ANY provider look bad is puzzliing to me.  Let alone why clients would be made to look rude or assuming is equally as puzzling.  As you spend more time learning and understanding the nature of P4P I would expect that you will, at least to yourself in those quiet moments, understand why I make these comments.  

Until you can really see why guys are here, and why gals are here, you will ask the questions that you have.  The reality is this is a fun experience for guys, and a job for the ladies.  To make it out to be more is folly.  But if you read the boards (and go back and do so) you will see many posts from guys "who have fallen for a provider".  And that was indeed the thrust of my comments...nothing more!

There's a lot more on the menu for my regular as opposed to someone that isn't a regular...most girls are this way.
of you like we can test this theory and send ChgoCPA over for a visit and see how far he gets...hehe...bet its not as far as you get with her...yay

I hear you. I certainly realize that most men enjoy variety and that is why they're here. I get that. However, there are some that don't want to see a lot of ladies and they especially don't want to see ladies who have seen a long list of men. Some actually seek someone and something different than what you read in reviews. "Different" IS available if you look hard enough. We both agree that intimacy involves many things that will indeed take place with all meetings..however, each lady has their own personality, and approach and intention.  Some men look for a uniqueness..it's not always just about getting laid or getting a good BJ!  I've gotten much feedback from clients all expressing, in one way or another, their surprise at how "unique" from the norm I , and our time, was. These experiences have shown me that although there may be a lot of "routine" or "unoriginal" options available, not ALL the ladies are this way and not ALL men want to settle for it. When someone (a client of mine) drives over 2 hrs every 2 weeks to see a lady, it's not for some run of the mill "routine" of BS.
You've seen, I'm sure, many beautiful, sexy and intelligent ladies that gave you what you wanted and that's great.  .  But without rambling on anymore here, I simply wanted to make the point that you should not  assume that it's all the same out there.

Clearly you think that being a "newbie"  makes me ignorant and nieve, but from the outlook that you've accepted as reality, it appears as though you have quite a bit of learning to do yourself

 Thanks for the conversation.

Very well said Chloe! Thank you!

Posted By: chloeboulez

1. not every client is here for variety, don't assume
2. every provider is different, don't assume

You say you're not assuming, but when you blatantly state something as fact when you are not a fly on the wall, you ARE assuming

I know you're not trying to be an asshole, but your inflammatory way of stating the high possibility of certain truths as widespread fact when you obviously have no way of knowing for certain, you're simply creating drama.

You make all the good providers look bad when you say things like that, and you make clients look rude, assuming, and generally like someone we would never want to see.  There's no reason for that, unless that's your goal, in which case please let me know so I can ignore you in the future :P

ROFLMAO!!!! Exactly!!

Every regular I have is a distinct individual and none of my sessions with them even remotely resembles a session with anyone else...and you believe not...well, lets explain the human condition to you...lets say, Client 1 is all about taking his time, stopping and relaxing, having a drink, massaging my feet then enjoying other aspects of me. Client 2 wants to watch me take off each piece of clothing slowly and take my time where he can enjoy the view, he likes to receive a nuru body slide after that...Client 3 loves to climb in the shower the minute he gets here and us spend about 20 minutes washing each other and getting all sudsy then he puts baby oil on me from head to toe.... I could go on and on how no individual has the same exact wants and needs but maybe you get the sampling of why each and everyone of our regulars knows that they are receiving what is distinctly for them only.

But its ok, these are just facts....not assumptions....those of us who have been doing this awhile know what our clients need and its not a robot.

they back channel and talk about who, what and why is happening.

And telling my pal FIDCUOF that he is special....that just solidifies the reason for my posts.  

Now...if you are seeing him with NO compensation just because he is such a great guy...then PM him and offer him that session.

I'm sure he'll thank me later on

Thanks for clarifying all that up.  BTW...tell your future reviewers to get a tad more innovative when reviewing you.  The stories are all fairly predictable and routine!

Your facts are documented where?

Seems like more rhetoric from another "companion"....thanks for the chuckle.

BTW...do you offer your regulars more than others as well?  I'm sure you do...and they are all indeed special.  Please make sure that you tell them just how "special" they are...or perhaps they may not return??  PS...the guys LOVE to hear that "it is all for you...just you".  That works really well...but it seems most of you already know that!

That's what makes this whole board what it used to be.  I honestly wish it could go back, but it does seem that when folks want to debate, discuss or entertain with embellishments some "puritanical goody two shoes" will file a "problem report".  

Hopefully others will jump in and "chat"...as the gals POV is so predictable that it is boring.

And that is indeed a FACT!  (Or maybe an assumption?)

that actually can elicit some interesting responses and thoughts.

You being new here has nothing to do with how you handle yourself in session...how you treat your customers.,.how you conduct yourself outside of this business.

The comments posted by a number of the gals is so predictable that any fella that has perused the boards for more than a month could virtualy write their responses.  That's how the gals portray themselves for their marketing and PR personas.  And I absolutely "get it".

But when a gal is ready to actually expose her real feelings on the how and why she does what she does is more mature...than any of the silly replies of "we don't get it" crap!

Keep on learning, as there is a whole world of really intellingent folks out here...on both sides.  Ask questions, challenge people...that's how we learn.  To simply accept anything else is just "following the crowd"...and most folks find that the easiest path in life.

Hopefully some of the gals who posted here will follow your example and "take a hard look" at how the guys perceive the sessions.  And those that just want to believe their own contrived "facts"...I would bet they will be long gone from here within the year.  All they need do is look at the gals who were before them, and how long they are here.  

Good luck msamy...truly!

You said:  most (if not all) providers have a routine, and anything one of them might say, or do with a regular client is just so much BS. A couple of ladies called you on that and said: not every session, or every interaction with a provider is “cookie-cutter”.

And, somehow, you manage to extrapolate that into more commentary about  what this board “used to be”, and that “when folks want to debate, discuss or entertain with embellishments some "puritanical goody two shoes" will file a "problem report"?

Did someone actually file a “problem report”...lol…

And then….hopefully, others will jump in and "chat"...as the gals POV is so predictable that it is boring? Ummm...and you think the  ‘guys’ POV around here is not predictable ?

Well how about this? I’m a “gal”. And, I don’t need years and years of experience, and hundreds of provider notches on my belt. This ‘ain’t rocket science.

Some providers run a cookie cutter session, and BS  guys into thinking "they" are getting something no one else does. I doubt anyone is so naive as to believe this never happens.  OTOH, some providers are adept at adjusting their interaction based on individual likes/dislikes/preferences, and are exceptionally good at this with regular clients; especially as they learn more about them. This happens too.

not hard to understand.

there is something to be said for all you hott foxes coming out to play.  Keep it up.

And you just summed up the posts that I have made in this thread.

This is supposed to be FUN...not something that anyone should take all that seriously.  I certainly don't

But it is, and has been, entertaining to see gals throw out the "usual hooker babble" and then not be able to substantiate any of it (nor have I ever expected anyone to verify any of this babble).  Fortunately you and msamy saw what I was provoking...replied to the issues concisely and without the babble that has consistently permeated the boards.

And no question the fellas are from from innocent on posting their drivel.  Consider since TER has revoked the formats that many had come to love, that all the boards are now left with seems to be the topics that were, time and again, run off the boards.

So assuming this is the "new order" going forward this type of thread has become a dinosaur.  And indeed, as you might be aware, some "righteous" hooker or John will be offended by the banter here...what an oxymoron!

The “hooker babble” to be wrong. To be fair, you didn’t exactly prove much either.

I saw nothing here other than people expressing an opinion. One really cannot wrap facts around the personal details of what might happen BCD’s in any session.

And, really? You think it’s only NOW....since TER has ‘revoked formats’ and implemented a “new order” (yes…I_have_heard!…over and over and over and over…TER has put a stop to unprovoked personal alias attacks. Those bastards!….lol….) that there is an increase in unsubstantiated drivel?

Scratching head…..

And *if* some "righteous hooker or John” gets offended by this banter? Who cares? There is nothing in this thread to be offended by. But I guess the true test will be to see if that actually happens.

How exciting!

Hmmm, yes - I can feel your anger, it gives you focus.... It makes you stronger!

I have no belief that I am "special" or get any unique services, but I strongly agree with Chloe.  Not everyone is the same and not all "relationships" are the same.  Different people interact differently, and it would not surprise me if different providers treat different people differently.  Many of these ladies are great actresses, but they are not robots (or not all of them anyway.)

My question is why this contention seems to bother so many people.  Before you start on about suckers, illusions or cons, please reread my first sentence.

I do think that my favorite ladies treat me like a person and not only like an ATM. That's one reason they are my favorites.  And I treat providers like people, not "commodities", because that is what they are, at least to me.  Others have different approaches, but is mine so delusional as to cause people to act like I believe in Santa Claus?  Nah.

Posted By: chloeboulez

1. not every client is here for variety, don't assume
2. every provider is different, don't assume

You say you're not assuming, but when you blatantly state something as fact when you are not a fly on the wall, you ARE assuming

I know you're not trying to be an asshole, but your inflammatory way of stating the high possibility of certain truths as widespread fact when you obviously have no way of knowing for certain, you're simply creating drama.

You make all the good providers look bad when you say things like that, and you make clients look rude, assuming, and generally like someone we would never want to see.  There's no reason for that, unless that's your goal, in which case please let me know so I can ignore you in the future :P

Or which one dresses nicer. Or smells better. Or is funnier. Or funner to be with. Or kisses the best. Or makes me forget it's a session.

I went to an outcall a week or so ago and the guy had to meet me outside his gate so he could escort me in. Very tight security there. He rolled down his window to his SUV... oh my god... so handsome! He looked like Ryan Reynolds... but 6'6'! I thought this was going to be such a hot time! NOT! He was an uptight germ-a-phobe and nothing about the session was fun at all. I would not be excited about seeing him again even though he booked me for two hours.

Meanwhile, I have an appointment in a week with a very attractive regular I wish I could stop time in the middle of the session so it never ends!

There is the thrill of the "new guy" - you just don't know what you will get or who you will meet. Then there are the regulars that you click with, that like you a lot, that pay you compliments, that you've gotten to know really well, that you enjoy seeing again, or that you laugh a lot with. They both have their own appeal... like meat and potatoes. I want both.

OK, you're new, so I'll attempt to edify you because perhaps you just misunderstood.  There is no "con."  The gals I see all have ads or web sites.  They also are all reviewed, so anyone booking them has plenty of opportunities to see what their standard menu is.  If I get extras because she likes me and she asks me not to write about them, that's between her and me.  She gets to offer them to anyone else she chooses.  But others who book her will get only her standard, public, menu.  No disappointment.  No con.  So what's your problem, aggie?

Eh, we're wasting out energy getting through his thick skull. He knows everything! Quite honestly, he seems like a very bitter man. He seems to love the pussy but hates the woman! I've seen several posts here referring to his pessimistic tone so I take his diluted opinions with a grain of salt.  Perhaps he's used to robots. Perhaps they are robotic because they're just not into him so they say and do what they need to say and do and this is all he has to base his attitude on. Whatever! He's miserable..we can simply wish him well and move on!

Wow. Seems some people's facts or assumptions don't agree with your facts or assumptions, and that seems to bother you. I wonder. If a provider, courtesan, companion senses something, anything while with a client a figures he wants something in particular done a certain way, and it might actually be different than the majority of her clients and she does it, or does it "that way" for him, then I guess telling him that it was for him and just for hm isn't completely a lie or a line on HER part, but more like flexibility on her part. Do you think that is possible?
Now I'm thinking about something else. I wonder if a guy whom she has seen before comes back for more but performs differently. I wonder if she performs differently too? I bet the answer is yes. Of course, that's just based on human nature. Oh! I'm sorry. You probably are a man of habit. You do everything the exact same way every time, therefore you get the same results every time. Or maybe you cant imagine that these ladies have individual personalities. Or that they actually know what theyre doing. Or that hey try to give what they think their clients want. Of course, if you did believe that about these women, then you wouldn't Brecht so much to what they're saying.
Many people here have something to prove to somebody for some reason. That said, what's your story?

So THAT'S your story! You just like to provoke! Now I get it/you. Whatever.

Forgive my consistent posting on your posts, but I have another question.
So. You can't actually bring yourself to think/believe/understand that SOME of the ladies here simply love sex? Love the variety? Love the sex and variety without the hassles of a committed relationship? Love the travel? Love being their own boss? And loving the fact that, with t
All that, they MAKE MONEY, too? You can't believe that some, maybe more than we know, enjoy ALL this lifestyle has to offer THEM?
Do you think that these women are simply preying on us horny, ignorant, shallow minded men and taking advantage of us? Do you think some of these women in this lifestyle actually think hard about what goes into an on their websites? Or, do you "know"(assumption or factually)that NONE of these women, not one single woman, has any idea about the art of advertising?
You really think(or think you know)that some of these women aren't here for(besides the cash)fun, too? And I bet you think that people who work on phone boards are doing so because they can't find another job.
I realize that everybody has their own opinions, and you're obviously no exception, but for you, or anybody else for that matter, thinks their opinion/POV is he friggin gospel, is complete arrogance. It's almost like you're here telling people why they are here or why they are in this lifestyle as if they don't already know.

I am relatively new to the hobby, a little more than 2 years, and only hobby when I travel away from home on business trips, 2 or 3 times each year. In each city Where i have hobbied, my intention is to return to visit a provider with whom I have really clicked, even if it is infrequently, and not seek "new talent". In each instance, where first time was wonderful, subsequent dates have been even better. I am appreciative that my "friends" understand my situation, probaly not unique. Not quite a "regular" but the best I can do in the circumstances.

First of all I don't have "regulars." I've seen only a few providers more than once. Also, most of them don't know I review until the session is over, so they never spontaneously ask me not to share certain off-menu acts.  Only if I mention at the end of a session that I'll write a review and not mention certain things does the situation get discussed.
In fact, sometimes it works the other way.  In my recent review of Brenda Boobies I at first omitted she permitted FIA and asked for Greek.  She later contact me and said she didn't care if I mentioned it because she'd did not feel she needed to be totally consistent in her offerings depending on the individual.
I really don't know why I bother trying to educate you, aggie.  You're a noob with no reviews but a major know-it-all attitude, who mainly posts snarky criticisms that aren't useful to anyone.  I suggest you pipe down for a while and start posting again when you know what you're talking about.