Where did she come from all of a sudden? I hope she is not using a alias here and I book her by her other name. What a cynical attitude! It's all fun boys and girls and I would hate to think I looked at providers like she looks at us.

you are delusional. She is simply pointing out the obvious fact that these women will not see you unless you pay them. That is the bottom line. Some provider at some point may like the occasional client but 999 times out of 1,000 she just wants you to finish and go.

Wow, you are sensitive. I'm just being honest and most providers feel the same. Do you really think we fall head over heels for you??? I have a good time with my clients (and they with me) but like I said, I would NOT be with them for free. If you were so desireable you would not have to pay, pal.

I suspect that lots of providers feel exactly the way Kathy does.  She's just being honest.  There are lots of providers with the same moral hang-ups that lots of average people have. So having to make your living and being saddled with moral baggage has to take a toll on one's soul.  
I'm not saying that's Kathy.  I don't know her.  My basic feeling is if a provider can send me on the way feeling like a million bucks because she either gave an Academy award-winning performance - while  secretly despising the whole experience -  OR NOT, I don't care how she really feels.  She controls that as much as I do my own.

Then I did a search of her name on this board for the last 180 days: 10 posts, and wow are they all negative.

That is, I think, about the shittiest attitude that I've seen as far as a providers view of her clients. I guess I'm lucky that the women that I've met in this 'Hobby' do not share her disdain for men.

I don't know where the fuck 48th St is, but, thank god it's not near me.

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I've read her posts also.  What a horrible attitude she has about what she does and toward the people who provide her with income.  She's just your basic hooker...not provider or escort....no humanity whatsoever.  Yes we all know this hobby is driven by the exchange of $$$ but in my opinion the real professional ladies must somewhat enjoy what they do as well, and appreciate their good clients.  Anytime you enjoy what you do, life is better.  Obviously
Kathy hates what she does but she has to do it cause she needs the $$$.  It's kinda obvious by her username that she's just a hooker, a streetwalker on 48th street.  Someone dared her to provide a link to her website....guys do you really think so???  How does she even have internet access?  From her pimp!

She could very well be a provider near you and you would never know. Many times it is an act that the providers put on for the clients. The act the woman puts on keeps you coming back and spending more money. How do you know that the women you've met do not share her disdain for men? I think that some egos have really been hurt on this board but keep in mind the providers have to be nice to get the money.

It is easy to find providers with attitudes like Kathy's (If she is in fact a provider at all, I suspect that 'she' could easily be a male using an alias just to stir up shyte and spew a little bitterness).....

To find providers just like Kathy though, one has simply to search reviews looking only for reviews ranked between 2-should have stayed home, and 4-she just laid there. When reading those reviews, you find scores and scores of women who hate the men who pay them, wish they could do something else but lack the brains and/or talent to do so, and just want to get their hands on a few bucks - quite likely to take care of a hefty drug habit. Sad but true.

I simply do not believe that the ladies who consistently receive 8's or higher could possibly be that consistent about putting on an act. I could be wrong of course, that does happen from time to time.....but if a woman is that burned out, turned off, or dissatisfied with her choice of earning income, there is simply no way that attitude won't sneak out at least once in a while to screw up even the best acting performance.

Kathy is an example of the ugly side of this hobby, but she is by no means a picture of the majority of providers. Notice Kathy provides no link to a website, nor is there a "check out my TER reviews" by her name. If she is in fact a provider, I would be willing to wager next month's income that any reviews she has recieved at best average no more than a 5 or 6 for performance, if that. Despite what women like Kathy may believe, men are not quite that gullible all the time. Just well, some of the time

I'd noticed Kathy's post history, too. I seriously doubt she's a provider, with an attitude like that, and I'd give 8 to 5 she's a he.

If "Kathy" was really that burned and bummed, she wouldn't be hanging out on TER. Just a little maliciousness to stir everyone's passions, I'd bet.

If I'm wrong, I wish her the best and recommend night courses in accounting. A couple of years straightening out some small business' bookkeeping might well make those "fat bellies" seem like sweet memories, LOL.

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I have unfortunately gone over the deep end in repsonding to this "person" in the past couple of days.  Now that is in quotes because it was pointed out if this is even a women, but mainly because the vile negativity this "person" spews hardly makes her qualify as a person.

In this life, you are guarantted of NOTHING.  Not everyone can be a lawyer, doctor, famous athlete, they just font have what it takes.  Now this "person" is obviously not cut out as a provider. So if she wants to learn a new trade, Ill pony up $10 for a Delta flight out of here.


Delta is Ready when You are!

Its very possible to get an 8/9/10 in performance and share her attitude. It doesn't take much effort to be nice and perform especially when you're getting paid. In addition because she only indulges in this lifestyle for money it would detrimental to her income to put up a link, let's be serious. Some providers may like their jobs but many of them feel just as she does.

Pillow talk about your personal life and desires. I know when I meet providers they tell me everything. They also tell me that I make them feel very comfortable to do things that they would not do with other clients.

There must be at least one client or two that you would give up for free if they did not meet you in an escort setting ?

Certainly its possible to put on enough of an act to get an 8 or 9. I'm saying though that no matter how hard a woman tries, she's not going to fool every many every time, and that for that reason, the reviews rated at 8 or 9 would also be peppered with a liberal dose of 5's and 6's for the times when the provider's veneer slipped, and the cynical jaded side accidentally peeked through.

is she giving it to you for free? I bet she told the client before you the same thing. Every client thinks they are our favorite. LOL! Of course, there are some really cool guys. I don't know why the guys in here are getting so bent out of shape. Please start asking providers for a free session and see what happens before you all get pissed at me.

Why are you taking this personal?? Like I said, I'm very popular and make my clients feel amazing. I am just telling it like it is in here. Is anyone offering their services for free to you?

Wrong!! I work at a very Upscale agency on 48th St. All providers are in it for the $$$. We are not here for Moethebully. It's so funny how some of you are getting so angry. The truth hurts, I guess.

I agree with Sins.  If a lady is that good an actress, she's bound to be using that talent in another field.  

I participate in this lifestyle for more than the obvious reason- getting off.  I like to feel welcome when I'm with a lady, and relate to her more like a boyfriend.  Instead of a GFE, I look for a BFE.  I've been generally successful in finding that experience.  Now if the lady is doing a good job of acting, I suppose that it makes no difference.  However, I'm a sensitive person, and if I feel cynicism or contempt, I won't return.

I'd guess that the population of providers is made up of Kathys and Sins, and all variations in between.  Let the buyer beware.

It is interesting that the first replys to my post were critical of what I said, but then when some of you read these posts of hers from the last few days it was obvious what I was trying to say. Her attitude is something to be avoided whether you are dealing with an escort, a boss at work, a clerk in the store or a whore like her.

Sins,
You sound like a real SweetHeart.Wish you were around New Orleans.

If you are good looking and shapely, I will pay your price to do you. That is just a fact of my life and desires.
You assume that most men at this site have to pay to get laid. Nothing is farther from the truth. Many of us pay to insure that the lady will go away after we are finished.
Your honesty is good. You are in it for the many. The bare reality for me is that if you are beautiful, drug free, sane and hot, I could care less why you do this while I pop my rocks off with you. If you do not have the qualities that I mentioned, I would not take a second look at your ad.

She is cynical, but makes some correct observations. When I pay for sex, I care nothing about how a woman feels about me as long as she bring me like a whale. My fantasy is sex with a woman that is as massively beautiful as the hot, but insecure civvy head cases that I attract. Paying money allows me to get off without tolerating bullshit, that in itself is why I don't mind meeting a 48th Street type provider that can get me off.

Sorry for the late reply, whoever you are. I don't think I'm taking anything personal, just making an observation about someone who appears to be jaded by her occupation or otherwise burned out. You may be telling it like it is from your perspective, but, I don't live in a world that is only black and white, there is plenty of gray area out there.  

You may be very talented and popular, but, on this board you have come off as callous, if not arrogant in the way that you portray this business almost as an us-against-them world. Obviously, we are talking about sex for money here, but, I think there is so much more to it than that on both sides of the fence.

Yes, I pay for the date, but, more often than not it leads into going 'overtime' hanging out, having lunch/dinner or just talking. I guess I'm lucky that I've met some good friends through this hobby and have yet to have a bad experience.

Good luck,
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