I would post this on the newbie board, but I wanted to get a laugh as well as advice.
So I am about to set up my first role play session.
I don't really know what to do when I walk in.
I mean. Is it on as soon as I walk in? Or do we.,. I don't know rehearse?
What I'm trying to ask is.
During a role play date. Is it normal to sit down first and, kinda plan it out?
I don't want to text her details before. That would be stupid.
Even if I know the girl, I am not going to talk about that stuff through text/phone.
Is she just going to lead?
I got the butterfly's in my tummy!
BTW It's okay to make fun of me.
I won't tell.
But it is a serious question.

... starting off your topic title with a gross misspelling is very comical.

It's spelled 'etiquette'. You might want to use the online dictionary if your spell check (your brain) isn't working.

The rest of your posting... I'll leave that to someone else to answer.

Serpius

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin

I would post this on the newbie board, but I wanted to get a laugh as well as advice.
So I am about to set up my first role play session.
I don't really know what to do when I walk in.
I mean. Is it on as soon as I walk in? Or do we.,. I don't know rehearse?
What I'm trying to ask is.
During a role play date. Is it normal to sit down first and, kinda plan it out?
I don't want to text her details before. That would be stupid.
Even if I know the girl, I am not going to talk about that stuff through text/phone.
Is she just going to lead?
I got the butterfly's in my tummy!
BTW It's okay to make fun of me.
I won't tell.
But it is a serious question.

When I come, can we talk about the role play before the fun starts?  If she is an experienced provider and if you have been screened before, I don't think there would be much to worry.

Alternatively, you can also have a regular session with the provider and talk to her during the session as to what you would like to do in your next session. But that will cost you a session. Just sayin'

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That's good advice. I just hate to bring anything up like that in text.
But your wording is slick.

Now, let me guess what it is

You want a lipstick in your butt hole, don't you !!!!

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Usually I rely on spellcheck.
Did you understand what I was asking?
That is all that really matters.
You got me though. And I won't edit it.
Good for you.
I still give you the be idiot of a doubt. Oops, Benifit of the doubt.
Damn spell hack . Spellcheck

But you can't just say. "Hey make sure you got our little buddy!"
Well I guess I could say that.

If she's doing an outcall there's always the greet time followed by her visiting the restroom to freshen up and collect the donation. So, here's what I do, after the greet and before she slips away go over the role play and explain to her you'd like her and you to be in character when she comes out. So now there's time for the both of you to get comfortable with your roles.

It works for me. Happy role playing.

Hound...email (or text) the gal and give her the details of the type of session you want.  No need to discuss anything sexual...but certainly she can know the type of scene you are looking for.

That way if she needs any toys or props that she has, she will be prepared.  And if you have toys...let her know as well.

Assuming this isn't her first rodeo...she'll be OK with leading.  And once she's got you hanging upside down from your ankles....well, trust me you'll just roll with the "punches"...if that's also part of the scene.

Enjoy...and relax.  If you've got a ProDomme to play with...all will be well  

Just for shits and giggles...have her play "Spelling Bee" with you.  I trust that either you'll get better, or sitting down won't be comfortable for a week  

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin

I would post this on the newbie board, but I wanted to get a laugh as well as advice.
So I am about to set up my first role play session.
I don't really know what to do when I walk in.
I mean. Is it on as soon as I walk in? Or do we.,. I don't know rehearse?
What I'm trying to ask is.
During a role play date. Is it normal to sit down first and, kinda plan it out?
I don't want to text her details before. That would be stupid.
Even if I know the girl, I am not going to talk about that stuff through text/phone.
Is she just going to lead?
I got the butterfly's in my tummy!
BTW It's okay to make fun of me.
I won't tell.
But it is a serious question.

Spelling Bee!

I would be a dead man! LMAO

-- Modified on 1/5/2013 8:27:57 PM

It's all for fun and games.

Enjoy  

I'm a submissive provider, and as long as you don't mention any money, I actually require my gents to tell me what they're looking for. We usually have elaborate roleplay activities already worked out before we even meet.

I have a gent I'm not seeing till the 17th, but we're both already crazy horny from all our back and forth.

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin

I would post this on the newbie board, but I wanted to get a laugh as well as advice.
So I am about to set up my first role play session.
I don't really know what to do when I walk in.
I mean. Is it on as soon as I walk in? Or do we.,. I don't know rehearse?
What I'm trying to ask is.
During a role play date. Is it normal to sit down first and, kinda plan it out?
I don't want to text her details before. That would be stupid.
Even if I know the girl, I am not going to talk about that stuff through text/phone.
Is she just going to lead?
I got the butterfly's in my tummy!
BTW It's okay to make fun of me.
I won't tell.
But it is a serious question.

What if Hound is looking for financial domination?

I don't know...maybe he is  

But as you and I both have posted to him....I've always laid out the scene for my subbie gals.  

Even better when it's been two  

Posted By: ChinaRose

I'm a submissive provider, and as long as you don't mention any money, I actually require my gents to tell me what they're looking for. We usually have elaborate roleplay activities already worked out before we even meet.

I have a gent I'm not seeing till the 17th, but we're both already crazy horny from all our back and forth.

Posted By: TheHoundOfCullin

I would post this on the newbie board, but I wanted to get a laugh as well as advice.
So I am about to set up my first role play session.
I don't really know what to do when I walk in.
I mean. Is it on as soon as I walk in? Or do we.,. I don't know rehearse?
What I'm trying to ask is.
During a role play date. Is it normal to sit down first and, kinda plan it out?
I don't want to text her details before. That would be stupid.
Even if I know the girl, I am not going to talk about that stuff through text/phone.
Is she just going to lead?
I got the butterfly's in my tummy!
BTW It's okay to make fun of me.
I won't tell.
But it is a serious question.

I always thought it was a no no to text explicit stuff.
Any details of a date. For that matter. Flirting is one thing.
That's completely different.
Am I tripping?

I said I like to fix ceilings and clean toilets.
Remember?
Got my tools in the trunk.

You'll have a great time if you let the ProDomme know what type of session you are seeking.  There's NO need to get sexually explicit, as in many instances there is NO sex with ProDommes anyhow  

But I am assuming for this exercise that you have a particular interest...tell her what it is sans the HE.

Trust me she has heard it all  

Am I going to have to come over there and slap the shit out of you?  Better yet, maybe Lina will do it for  me  LOL

She has you go fix the overflowing toilet that she pissed in...you do that and she has to then find other household chores for you while she is drinking Martinis.

Plenty of gals would be thrilled with that scene  LOL

And sex is involved (I hope).
My point is getting lost here.
It's a yes or no question.
Do you spend a few min out of character first?

And you can let her know in an email that you are looking for a T&D.  Rarely will a ProDomme have an issue with that language.  Also I would suggest that the review(s) should clarify that as well.  If she doesn't have a review...then you need to confirm that it will indeed be a HE.

We're all a bit different on how we want that (inital) meeting to go as well.  I've done it both ways, as chatting a bit first and looking over the equipment to be used.  That is also a good time to see what else may tickle your fancy...and let her know then.  Other times the gal had my scene before I arrived...and once I walk in...she's in charge (or else)

So without knowing how well versed this gal is...either route is fine.  Whatever YOU'RE most comfortable with is really all that is important.  Just make sure you fully (and she will make sure) discuss limits...and how far you want to explore those limits.  Many ProDommes will want to know via phone (or email) before you get there what your experience and limits are.

If you're really a braveheart (William Wallace...like in that last torture scene)...suggest that you don't want to "finish" until the very last second.  Amazing how long an hour can seem  

Establish certain safe words so that you can know when you are getting out of character.

I think for old school ladies, and paranoid ones.

But if you have already been screened, and are a client of mine, you better damn well be specific about what you want to do. I'm not a mind reader, and if it's something I don't like I need to be able to decline beforehand.

Same goes with dates. I'm not going to be "surprised" about where you're taking me to eat...We need to talk about that first.

I talk about everything. Inn explicit detail. no surprises or misunderstandings.

Or if you can let her know what you want without coming straight out and requesting it.

Example:

I've been a very bad boy, I know I will need to be punished.  Oh please don't strap on that purple dildo and pound my ass, even though we both know I deserve it...

Hi HOC,

I hope I didn't lose the proper use of grammar  edge!! I need to go back & watch School House Rock!

Then you end up texting back and forth in character on your way over, and the minute you walk in the door it's on.

FYI.  This works far better with someone you've seen before.  If it's the first time then you have to be careful that stuff doesn't get lost in email/text translation.