I just want to know why... Why do we fill out the online forms for a lady and get no response back? Why do we leave voicemails with the same non-results? I have great references and TWICE this trip home this happened. WTF!!??

There are a lot of possible reasons. Just take it as a signal to move on to someone else. You have seen some top notch providers and written excellent reviews. You will do fine in this sport. Do not become fixated on seeing any particular provider. Play the field - there are plenty of excellent providers out there who will treat you more courteously, or simply tell you up front if there is some reason that they do not want to see you.

All the best in 2009

Gregory

Good point Gregory - thanks. Too many to focus on any one in particular huh?

It seems like if they advertise, or have a website, the message is they want to make new friends.  However, it seems like over 50% I get no reply back.

On rare occasions I've seen a lady note in CV ad, or website that she's not meeting new friends, only "established" ones, the that is the exception.

Equally rare is when they update their ad to say they are on vacation.  Recently made the call, and the message said, "I'm out of the country for a few months".  In this case, it would have been nice had she updated her CV ad.

There could be alot of possibilites to your question. Personally, I do not return messages unless there's SPECIFIC directions on when to call. My reasoning for not returning messages- I had to cancel an appointment once, instead of getting a dreaded NCNS-I called. I left what I was thinking was a generic message, WRONG! It was put up on a board not naming names BUT OMG the reaction....did she know it was a secure line? Of course I knew he was traveling away from home so I figured it was  safe. After that I avoid returning or making calls without proper directions in doing so.

Did you send all your info or a simple note and they need to respond back to you to get what they need.

I had a few of those while I was away..My cell phone didn't work in the mountains so I had to drive 5 miles to check my messages..My family was always close at hand so very little privacy..

There are many ladies who are available so keep trying..

I wish more gentlemen made it easier for us ladies and just used the PM system...That gets my attention quickly

Kisses Haley

Yes - I always fill out all the info for the ladies. If I send an e-mail, all my contact numbers are on my signature so there is no reason not to contact me either way. Simple yes or no is not too much to ask. BTW - I am a welder with not alot of computer knowledge.... what's the PM system??

Ladies who post no "new friends" - why even advertise? Just teasing the rest of us?