Maybe she felt that she was at a point in life where she ought to quit while she was a bit ahead. You know, leave while it's still good so you remember the good times. Maybe she saw a house in the country where she could live, or found a job she liked in a provincial town, and just eased herself into a different life. That would be a happy possibility I think.
I don't want to rehash the previous general issues of provider retirement and being with a provider. Instead, I want to broach a specific scenario.
A well known decades-long provider in her 40's with 9-10's scores just delisted quietly. Let's assume it is her retirement rather than something else.
So, a bro suggested that it would be a battle royale over who would become her SD/SO. I'm skeptical, given her age and other issues, but I could be wrong. Presumably, she had made a good living having worked for decades at $400+/h. But it is very conceivable that there were money issues because of certain realities.
What do people think about this question? The default answer is that it would be like any other relationship/ expensive negotiation - in other words, a few interested parties perhaps but how many would show at the final table?
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Already had an insurance policy before delisting
Most likely a relationship... Presumably with someone who isn't broke. After all, money is important lol
But it doesn't interest me much at all. If it works for her then great.
Hope that she found happiness and I wish her well in all her future endeavors
All the others do not have any impact on the decision.
Having a sugar daddy, still classifies you as a whore. I retired because of the work I did to set MYSELF and my child up, not because of what some guy could do for me. I will never be the woman who has to depend on a man to live... that's rather pathetic and lazy. Then again, gold diggers are in abundance and for some, the very reason they get into escorting.
What happens when he leaves her ass for a younger model, and in that time she did nothing to better herself to get a job? She's right back here begging for clients. I am sorry, but I would shoot myself before I ever went out that way. It's another thing to really think you've found the love of your life and it does not work out, but even still... rather than sit at home and do nothing but cook and give blowjobs for him to take care of you, go out and get a fkin degree, or a higher degree! Don't spend 5 years doing nothing but being one man's whore, because when he up and leaves, starts abusing and controlling you, not much of a leg to stand on by yourself with no job skills or education.
Women today need, more than ever, to believe in themselves regardless of what their past dictates. They need to use these easy times in life to further themselves career and education wise, vs. blowing thousands on dumb shit that never adds to their net worth. One of my best provider friends had a sugar daddy for the 3 years she provided. Within that time she got her MBA from Loyola, and put 150k down on a business that he is a silent partner of. She is now earning legit income on a regular basis, owns a home, and her son will never need to worry, because she did not look at the temporary, she looked at the FUTURE. She did not just get 'stuff' from that SD, but she set herself up from him.
She also got his respect for doing something WITH her life, because now she no longer has to fk him, yet they are in business together... a LEGIT one.
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Sugar mama either... 
my mom was supporting me when I was a kid but she doesn't count as a sugar mama. Lol
we'll see about that. Odds will have to rely on Court and BCG for that one if and when it does go down LOL.
And yes, I will post this once only because of the matter at hand and because of whom I'm replying to. End of discussion. So those of you ready to jump on the train, the tickets are sold out.
Now on this matter...all I can say is.....
Word up woman. Speak it and preach it. We do what we need to do for us, present and future and for those around us that we 'need' to provide for, and nothing else. We 'try' and make the best decisions for us that are presented at the time, but nothing and no scenario is perfect. Bottomline, no one else is going to 'take care' of us but us, that's complete bullshit for anyone who thinks otherwise. If you think I'm not here with a goddamn plan you're fucking crazy. I don't f*** to get fucked and I get pissed when I do get fucked. Trust me.
Now...........
On that note...I'd like to make an announcement...since my Marketing 101 worked out a lil too well this past year and I have become the ultimate magnet for the 'mangina'...I have had to move onto Marketing 102. Marketing 102 states that from this point on, I kindly request that NOT one more mangina contact me without following these 5 simple lil steps successfully.....please read them a couple times so you can get the full jist, go ahead, don't be scared............
1. Find your balls
2. 'IF' you can successfully find your balls, give them a good tug
3. Tug them hard enough to hurt to make sure they are there
4. After the 'wince', convince yourself you can handle what it is you are doing and if you are CERTAIN you can answer yes.....
5. THEN and ONLY then contact me with a brief 2 sentences or less (less can mean more if you choose your words wisely)
My sanity sincerely thanks you in moving forward.
As far as who this woman is in question...who the FUCK cares, it's none of anyone's business nor is it anyone's business to 'dissect' just what it is she is doing or why. Perhaps that's why she left duh. Find something else to entertain yourself about already than the ongoings of the women in this business. I mean really.
Carry on people, I thank you.
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Well stated, my NYC friend. Oh, and it's Marketing Management-MBA-615, not 102 lol.
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here...but ok, I'll give you that. I try to keep things 'simple'. Anyhow, Nick did play along splendidly. That was fun. They can get their rocks off however they like.........as shall I. Oh how they know 'not' of me whatsoever. (if that makes any funny sense)
Toodles woman.
Here's hoping you've acquired some game on the Newbie and NY Boards. Or gotten on some meds. All the best, honeybunch.
and I say that in me Irish accent. You bought it and I played it.......hook, line, sinkaaaaaaa my friend. Thank you, that was fun indeed.
Hoping "I've" acquired? LOL I'll use your words Nick..."now that's fucking funny." I'm not here to play lil children's games, I'm here to talk to those who know how to 'talk', not 'play' Nick. That'll cost ya. Sorry. And we've already established you can't afford me.
But let's get one thing straight, I'm not here to stop you from playing your lil childish games. Of course you may continue on, it's quite entertaining to say the least. And it's also quite clear now that's what gets 'your' panties in a bunch, not mine. I do hope you're wearing a thong to prevent the bunching however.
Feel free to take after your buddy as he once stated "I have no reason to post under her any longer"....you can take his words as your own too, only if you can handle it of course.
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The silence. Oh well.
It's kinda late now but this was for my next post about you.
can stick to your words to someone I believe you said and 'not' post below me 'ever again'...or is that too impossible for you to keep true to your very own words? You seem to be a man who takes his words very seriously. Hmm, we shall see, I guess time is the only answer.
It is interesting to see you just can't stay away, can you? At least when I post. The minute I throw something anywhere on the board, there you are...right below me. Intentional or completely coincidental...don't know, don't care but there you are like a moth to a flame. Are you drawn to me or something? No matter the reason, you as well can go on your merry way as you promised unless you can't stay true to your word. I have nothing more to say to you, I'm sorry. I won't be watching any of your links either, I know disappointing.
This is a forum with tons of interesting people with whom I am looking forward to speaking with. No need to be in each other's face. I'm sure we can agree on that point only. Anyway, Nick's a big boy, he can fend for himself. I'm quite certain of it.
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I would have thought that you'd have learned that boards are the way they are...and if you don't like how this one operates there are many that operate differently. I gave you a link to a nice quiet board that seemed to fit your niche...but then it seems you do like the atmosphere here better.
And if ADJ is bothering you, why not just put the handle on ignore rather than continuing to reply to a handle that you claim "bothers you". It's a fairly infantile way to ignore a bothersome handle I must admit...but it is an option if you simply can't handle words written by a poster.
If you want to play here...great. Another poster that adds some value to a board. But to attempt to dictate how and when a poster may reply to you will generally be made fun of...and you know that.
Balls back in your court.
It is interesting to see you just can't stay away, can you? At least when I post. The minute I throw something anywhere on the board, there you are...right below me. Intentional or completely coincidental...don't know, don't care but there you are like a moth to a flame. Are you drawn to me or something? No matter the reason, you as well can go on your merry way as you promised unless you can't stay true to your word. I have nothing more to say to you, I'm sorry. I won't be watching any of your links either, I know disappointing.
This is a forum with tons of interesting people with whom I am looking forward to speaking with. No need to be in each other's face. I'm sure we can agree on that point only. Anyway, Nick's a big boy, he can fend for himself. I'm quite certain of it.
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read into it like you always do about everything. Geezk. I'm a big girl, I'm pretty sure I've proven I can handle myself all along despite the thoughts of those who repeatedly beat things like a dead bush around here. I've said my peace to those and it's done. But the ball is actually in his court, question is, is he going to play it or put it down. Really up to him, not me. My odds say he's gonna play it but I hope he can step up his game and be the 'better' man and leave it be. We shall see, won't we?
For the record, no one 'bothers' me here, don't kid yourself. That's just silly. I enjoy the posters for the most part except when they're acting like 5yo children. I think most would agree that trash talking to the lowest of levels, especially degrading women here is not very becoming. I'm sorry, that's just how I see it. I personally don't think I post any different than anyone else here but for some odd reason it 'seems' to get taken on a whole other level. It's interesting to watch how when the 'Taylor Steele' handle pops up, it not only brings some folks out of the woodworks, it evokes and strikes a chord both positively and negatively with a few here. I've done the 'test'. The name has become a target, for whatever reason, not sure why. It is interesting in any event. And I know you see it too. Hell I'm your first post for the evening I see
Need I remind most, 'TaylorSteele' is a stage 'name'.....and she may or may not be 'me'. No one really knows, not even the gentlemen I have met. Take it for what it is. And yes, I will post freely where and whenever I like no matter what kind of 'reaction' I may ensue. And in the words of my wise grandmother when I didn't get my way..."well that's just tough titty doll"...words to live by in my book lol.
Don't need the Dad talk again, but thank you oh heavenly father. I got it.
What may look like 'defeat' to some, is indeed 'victory' to another. Just takes a different way of looking at things, nothing more.
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Where's your netnanny friend alias? Maybe got a computer virus. More likely he only censored the threads he's allied with.
You seem to have gotten wordier although it looks like you're taking corporate sensitivity classes... or drunk driving classes.
For the record, no one 'bothers' me here, don't kid yourself. That's just silly. I enjoy the posters for the most part except when they're acting like 5yo children. I think most would agree that trash talking to the lowest of levels, especially degrading women here is not very becoming. I'm sorry, that's just how I see it. I personally don't think I post any different than anyone else here but for some odd reason it 'seems' to get taken on a whole other level. It's interesting to watch how when the 'Taylor Steele' handle pops up, it not only brings some folks out of the woodworks, it evokes and strikes a chord both positively and negatively with a few here. I've done the 'test'. The name has become a target, for whatever reason, not sure why. It is interesting in any event. And I know you see it too. Hell I'm your first post for the evening I see
Need I remind most, 'TaylorSteele' is a stage 'name'.....and she may or may not be 'me'. No one really knows, not even the gentlemen I have met. Take it for what it is. And yes, I will post freely where and whenever I like no matter what kind of 'reaction' I may ensue. And in the words of my wise grandmother when I didn't get my way..."well that's just tough titty doll"...words to live by in my book lol.
Don't need the Dad talk again, but thank you oh heavenly father. I got it.
What may look like 'defeat' to some, is indeed 'victory' to another. Just takes a different way of looking at things, nothing more.
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She didn't get any game.
She's clearly not on her meds.
She's back, but somewhat more demented.
This might not be pretty
Pretty simple concept. Try it....
Give respect, get respect. It's really just that simple.
And you're how old? Yes, I know how old you are which makes this even more pathetic.
Try the adult side of the pool instead of the kiddie side, you'd be amazed at what fun happens on this end.
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Because it makes you judgmental and humorless. You do realize you''re worse than ever, don't you? That's a rhetorical question. Of course you don't get it. I guess you never will. Kinda sad. Pathetic, too.
This is directed to the 2 of you. You judge me, I will judge you. You both are nothing shy of repulsive excuses for men and human beings. And the saddest thing about all of this, is you two will still be here doing the same damn thing in another 20 years because you are incapable of anything else. Clearly incapable. And the saddest piece about that is YOU'RE ok with it. If that's not pathetic, I honestly don't know what is then. I know all too well who I am which is why you are correct, I will never ever wrap my brain around the mentality here. Ever. And I can live with that.
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Your latest iteration is really just sad. Not to mention judgmental. I do believe you are right, however, when you say you can never wrap your brain around the mentality here. And that has been your problem from the beginning. And now you're worse than ever and totally don't get it. Feel sad if you want. That's not my problem. I'm living a great life and loving every minute of it. Tomorrow I'll drive across Costa Rica from Pacific to the Caribbean. Even a prune like you couldn't put me in a bad mood.
Is she being auctioned off
It's like when a subject is brought up in conversation. I'm basically continuing the debate, as posed and phrased by another guy. But since you mention it, you might as well question the hypocrisy of selling your body in the first place. And why do SD/SB relationships exist? It isn't a one sided market. Have you been on a SA or SDFM site? They do work more like auctions than dating sites. (Hello, McFly?...)
You were on such a roll on the NY board. Please try to stay focused- don't regress intellectually now and bring your baggage.
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You asking if a woman who just retired quietly did so by having her choice of SD's is a statement, it's not asking for an opinion.
If she did it quietly, I would think it's just as much of a probability that she made enough as it is that she found someone to take care of her, me having faith in women I'd hope for the former.
Me no understand.
dehumanizing analysis arising from too much immersion in hobby-think.
So I'm not sure I agree with your statement that she's bringing her baggage. Unless we have the same baggage, which could be kinda interesting.
Mine's more like an overnight duffel. So I guess we're NOT carrying the same baggage. Whaddayaknow.
But in the scenario you describe, a well known and reviewed long term provider retires, why would you assume that she NEEDS a SD? I would think she would be perfectly capable of supporting herself on her own like most adults in their 40s.
Perhaps there is specific knowledge about the provider's situation that didn't make it into the scenario?
After 5 years of providing and making even 80k a year in the south, one is generally set to retire with no ties remaining for extra income... that is IF you have good financial sense, but many do not. I laugh every time I see someone admit they are in a rent control area or section 8, and are making 500 plus an hour as a hooker. Then, you see where their money goes... shoes lol. Um, gee hope those shoes help you out at 60.
If you're freaking 20, no problem... we all pissed away money when we were younger, but I am talking about 40 year olds who still do not own a home, a car, nada, and have been here forever! WTF do they do with the so called '2k a week' they claim to have made for the last 10 years? Hmmm....
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To include the provider having saved none of her money and being completely unable to support herself by any means other than providing. Guess at that point it makes more sense.
And first class flights.
But then mongers are the same so I shouldn't be talking lol
I blew away so much money in the hobby. I could prolly buy a nice vacation home or two, maybe three, in full cash, if I didn't spend it on escorts over the years.
Pussy is the greenest purchase one can make. Pussy is organic, and recyclable.
I shop at walmart and dollar stores cuz I'm friggin cheap
I like building robots and gadgets though, been my hobby for a long time. Bots costs a lot of money, especially if it can walk and talk. Getting it to be more human like costs ×exponentially× more. This is why I feel an android escort won't replace humans anytime soon lol
Maybe in a 100 years it may become much cheaper to own a very life like android escort. But right now, I'd rather see variety of real ones at 1/10000th the cost
reiterates that you have it to blow. You are probably already at a point in your life where your needs are being met, and you can blow that kind of money. I am talking about people who do not own shit, have less than 5k in savings, and are still renting whilst making a ton of money. It's sad
But like you said it seems many blow it all away on material things.
Former favorite of mine was extremely good with money though,
she got her graduate degree and paid for it in full with the money she made from escorting. She is now retired and pursuing career in a big name company. last I heard from her she was promoted again to a higher level manager and doing very well. Maybe I'll ask her to be my sugar mama. :
...But even so, we can generally assume that in this hypothetical scenario has another 40 years of life, substantial living expenses, and some assets but significant debts/liabilities (so modest positive net worth), and does not want to work too hard in a second career.
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What the fuck is wrong with you morons. She may have retired or became a nun or a Buddhist monk. Why is it anyone's business to know or speculate?
He is not prying in her private life... He is just discussing the issue in general terms.
Do you even know who he is talking about? He didn't name anyone did he?
P.S. Always PM me before opening mouth..
Regardless, who it is, why do you want pry
The question general as well
Do you even know who he is talking about? He didn't name anyone did he?
P.S. Always PM me before opening mouth..
But I can't speak for ADJ. His choice...
Every Girl that I've seen has never had a Great Retirement from this Business. These Girls don't save their Money. Most live from Session to Session. I know of two Girls I've seen that died of Drug Overdoses. Two moved out of state. I keep in contact with one of them. She is living with a Friend and looking for her own place. She's not living in Luxury after her years working in this Business. In her working days she could easily get $300 an hour. Right now she is living on $1000 a month through a family state agency program. The Girl I'm currently seeing is struggling just to makes ends meet. She's in her 30's. She's a Sweet Gal. I see her as much as i can. But her Future after she gets out of the Business doesn't look great.
Plenty of women who do this who are not what you describe.
Maybe she felt that she was at a point in life where she ought to quit while she was a bit ahead. You know, leave while it's still good so you remember the good times. Maybe she saw a house in the country where she could live, or found a job she liked in a provincial town, and just eased herself into a different life. That would be a happy possibility I think.
Sometimes it seems as though the clients feel as if they are entitled to aspects of our real lives.
I say you're not.
wish her well and move on with your life. Shea a big girl she'll be fine
eom
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This is why we wouldn't share further blackmail stories with you. Geez.
Lacking the ability to even fake you're on the side of men once and awhile.
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and to top if off you also wrote "Lmao". Look, my point is that the very fact that anyone is mulling over that bizarre scenario is scary. Take a walk outside once in a while, buy something at 7-Eleven and say something nice to the clerk just to interact with humans in a way that isn't imbued with cash-for-cunt.
But next time you ask men to assuage your fears about blackmail, I presume you'll take a different tone, newbie.
Or is it Sweetnicole1. Lol.
In "real life," this topic is being discussed for fun behind the wall.
Again, keep pretending you understand how this world works.
But try to relax and not hurt yourself with words like "demented." Lol.
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In the first line of your last paragraph, you asked "What do people think about this question?". What question did you ask?
First of all, we all know what happens when someone "ASSUMES" things and you have just proven that adage true with your post here. At least on the DC board you posted an actual question.
So how about some questions for you?
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What business is it of yours? This is between her and TER. If she wanted others to know the why's and wherefor's, she would have let that be known herself.
SIDE NOTE: Way to bring attention to someone who OBVIOUSLY doesn't want anymore. Sarcasm coming ----> here it is ----> I'm sure that really helped.
To continue with your nosey sceanrio questions:
What makes you think she doesn't already have a SD or SO?
Maybe she has one (or more) and just decided to get out of the spotlight?
Maybe she has a customer base large and loyal enough to carry her through the next few years?
If she has been providing for "decades" as you said, maybe she just had enough money saved for her to retire from this?
Last question is:
What business is it of yours?
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Sometimes by wanting to be "in the know", you just make things worse.
There will be all kinds of rumors going around now. Some you may have started here, some will grow a life of their own. It has happened before and will happen again, not much we can do about that except not flame the fires and pass along speculation.
The bottom line is only she knows the real reasons and if she was comfortable doing so, good for her, more power to her. I know of whom you speak and I can only wish her well in whatever her future endeavors bring.
his post was not ABOUT that one case. It was about what happens to providers in general, and he gave her as a mere EXAMPLE... not the damn rule. He did not even say where this person was from. Do you know how many providers in the average range of 3-400 fall off the map every day? He hardly gave away who she was.
Check out his post on the DC board if it is still there.....he named her there.
TER rules dictate not mentioning a delisted provider by name.
However, I saw it as had 99 other people before it got taken down.
Sorry you're THE Lewis guy who didn't know what's going on in the market (he had a four letter nickname). And please stop taking writing classes from HoC. Maybe just go back to ISOs for providers who are convicted felons.
Let me field some questions:
What question? Listen to HTG, who tried to explain it to you.
What business is it? As much as it's TMZ's right to bother people. Let me put it to you this way. Obviously, I knew the story...And so did at least one other who posted. And now you know the person because you can read. Like our own Hooktard, she is one of the few ladies the board will broadly care about when they retire. There are a few others. So, this is not unlike when a pseudo-reality star does something that doesn't happen everyday. This is a f-ckboard and people will care when popular ladies stop effing fans (oftheo. balls. Nailed it archer.). Sorry that you disagree that it is newsworthy. Certainly more IMO than fukking felons. But I'm not going to care much more than idle gossip and fun. So, just move on if you can. Some of the responses you'll get from ladies not on the popular list sound like "who cares?/leave-them-alones" but they're really " why dont they care about me?" cries for attention.
The lady in question doesn't want attention now? You really don't know who she is. Lol. I do give her credit for making the exit quietly. But there's fanfare sure to come because of why she did it.. Your other questions would have been worth debating (toward the point of the post) if you had stayed on point. Lol.
I don't argue with "special" people.
And you have shown yourself to be VERY "special", "short bus special".
Btw look around. I have a knack for finding the truncated bus people on here.
Feel free to try again because I'm done with you until the next time you say something questionable, which we know will be very soon.
If you're still looking for a girl with a felony, I know one in the bighouse right now. Conjugal sex is better than fugitive sex and makeup sex. Lol.
At least your post this time was short and sweet. Geez.
And you have shown yourself to be VERY "special", "short bus special".
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Fatwhine, Lilstinkyboy, and F-ckNorris to show up here.
I suggest you try to say something clever..just once?
NAH, just resume the regularly scheduled spew. lol.
blah blah, asswpe... ADJ is smarter than I am, but damn him to HELL. Blah blah.
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I suggest you try to say something clever..just once?
NAH, just resume the regularly scheduled spew. lol.
blah blah, asswpe... ADJ is smarter than I am, but damn him to HELL. Blah blah.
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I just thought the post was in the general sense, not a target on one provider, but even if it was, so what. When I retired there was a lot of speculation on what I was doing too... I did not cry about it, but laughed at the many suggestions on what might have caused me to do so. It was actually pretty damn simple, but those who knew the real ME, knew exactly what I was planning for years.
...happily ever after. The civvie world is a lot bigger than "this thing of ours."
my ATF retired last year. had seen her on regular basis for many years. she retired and moved away when she reached her financial goals. closed down her escorting by simply not seeing new customers then slowly reducing the clients that she would see. finally got down to just a couple of guys that she would entertain once or twice a month. I think I was her last as she closed out her career and faded away, leaving no trail
True story... gal in nola posts a threAD about her new photos AND the fact she is retiring that same day... she was back in less than a month.
Maybe she just got tired of the cold weather, flew south, and is wintering on Marco Island laughing at all the fuss we're making on this board. Not trying to pry I to anyone's life, not assuming anything, just wondering what the big deal is. Yesterday she was here; today she's somewhere else. So-o-o-o.......?
I used to not post for a week and a thread would pop up about what happened. I would think a provider totally disappearing is a bigger deal, so people are wondering is all. There is no conspiracy theory, just wonder and concern. There are serveral women who are 'known' to more than just a home town and one board... everyone has heard of them, so if they fall off the map speculation often occurs. Some are making it sound like ADJ is stalking the girl.. um, last I checked, he has an SO.
1. I know what happened to her. It was a broader question;
2. There are a few providers this board and others (non-TERd) care about like HTG and the lady in question.
HTG is correct. I have an SO from this world and she wouldn't allow me to have another SO/SB unless it's HTG. But we know HTG is off the market.
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