I think my ED is caused by porn addiction. I simply see it every night for the past 15 years ( I am 36). So I am trying to reduce watching it . Any one else have tips to suggest? I know you folks are going to say , "see a doctor", but it's embarrassing to discuss this. Plus I am 90% sure there is nothing physiologically wrong with me.

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Try going a month or so without porn.

I never masturbate to porn. You can play over the old sexual experiences you have had in your mind, or fantasize new ones.

Mind is a powerful thing...

that might be part of the ED prob.

Try avoiding porn & masturbation for a few days before you book a hot babe and see what happens.

BTW....you really should discuss this with a Dr.  There is nothing to be embarassed about and trust me, they've heard it all.

When I am trying to prolong my pleasure and not ejaculate to soon I find myself thinking about London yapping and chewing bubble gum. I find it more effective than thinking about baseball stats.

I guess the ladies won't be calling 1-800-HOT-STUD any time soon  LOL !!

I don't have to have it, I have a great visual memory so I I can work off any of the great experiences I have had. The best part of using my memory is I don't need a remote to pause or rewind. I like jumping back and forth to different memories and using them all in my one masturbatory fantasy.

The best porn is the ones I have in my mind.

MM

What is your On Base Percentage when batting from the right side of the plate?

Instead of breaking your balls. (I am tempted)
Today I am going to try to be constructive.

First off. Obviously..Try watching less porn.

I'm no doctor.. But try a tantric massage.
They can really charge you up.
It's a blood flow thing. No....
Not just to your dick. It's all intertwined..
It's also about relaxation and a clear mind.
Find an experienced Tantrica, and take the spiritual part seriously. It works..
If you let them.. They can enhance your senses to a point you never thought possible.

Maybe that will help you!

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Blonde with a great rack and an in your face attitude.   Plus a sense of humor.  What's not to lust after?

She reminds me of Katielady2006.

I am not addicted to porn and dont watch it every night but without the visual stimulation no I can't.

And I think she knows playful teasing from hurtful ridicule. I mean she is , after all, a master at both!  However, I am pretty miffed t that she won't tour DC. I take these offences very personally.
One of these days I might send the black helicopters to snatch her up and fetch her to me. I rather she come voluntarily , but if we have to do this the hard way, well , I suppose that is her decision.

Maybe using the phrase "the hard way" isn't the most considerate in a thread about ED.

Sorry

but she never seems to do well in the bigger cities, nor do I ha ha. I will send out a mass mailer when she comes to D.C.

DC, have "katielady" email me lol. I would love to meet another female, much like myself.

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I will start by saying that I use porn too!!! Nothing embarrassing about it, but it is a bad addiction.
In porn, a man can have any woman do anything he wants, sounds cool, huh?

Anyway the time I have wasted on porn can make what is natural, look unnatural, and vice versa. I have seen my taste in porn, well, devolve..... Many of us move from more mainstream porn, to porn that I think is just really out there(With my imagination, I am guilty of this, I have even asked providers on occasion to try some out there stuff)

Porn corrupts our perception of what is healthy for us. We wear blinders and miss out on all the healthier, truley beautiful things that are all around us.

I think this world attacks men and manhood on several different levels. Porn is a hideaway for some guys who need to feel in control. Using porn as a crutch is a defeat. You are men,remember? And you will always be men. So get the hey out there!!

I believe all of this.... I have experienced this too. As men and women mature, we can either become, bitter, or compassionate. Compassion heals you and toughes everyone around you!

It took me a while to learn this guys, but women want us.... And they want us bad!!!! We need to step up, out of our computers and be men! For ourselves AND for everyone else...

BTW, ladies, it goes without saying that we want you bad too... Not just the sex either.

This is a pivotal time in my life too... I will take the no porn challenge, I don't look often anymore, so I do not anticipate much of a problem, but we shall see.

Good luck and great vibes to all,
See you all at KingBuffet

you may be onto something. When I was 18 I had a BF who was 34. He introduced me to so many things sexually, that it was unreal. We always used toys in our playtime, and guess what...when those toys, cameras, and other people were not around, he suddenly became rather boring to me as a lover, and I had a hard time enjoying 'just him.'

It took me a while to program my body and mind again, to be stimulated by just a partner without all the hardware. So yes, I think you've just found your issue. Stop watching the shit and start practicing without it. It will take some time, but eventually, your body and mind will come around.

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Indeed I can!  When I am excited... All I need is a few batteries and my extensive imagination...

I also have something that helps achieve an "O" faster and love it, there are times I do not even need the batteries.. (this is more for my benefit than others)

Dude, you don't have ED, you have a Sex Addiction. If you're rubbing one out every night to the detriment of normal sex, then yes, you are an addict. And like any addiction, you might need some kind of help to quit. Some can do it "cold turkey," others need to go to an counselor or a SA organization. Major cities will have SA-type organizations that can help you with attending meetings, etc.

You rub one out every day, then your mind and d!ck get used to that sensation, and no mouth or pussy can match it. Especially with a condom.