If I am out with a woman, I don't want her to have to "fake" her enjoyment of our non BCD time together.

Of course I enjoy both wild, drunken party nights as well as a night on the couch with a bottle of wine and a pizza almost equally, it just depends on my mood at the time.

I don't like to drag "down home" girls into fancy restaurants anymore than I am going to "force" a lady with "champagne" tastes to go slumming with me at the local pool hall, unless of course she wants to go slumming that is

Personally I find it a bit sad to see some old guy in his sixties desperately trying to relive his youth by showing up at a rave with a twenty something. I try not to judge, but I think going to those kind extremes is a bit pathetic to witness. but hey, each to his own

It's fun for a while, but I pay for it the next day.

Oh, the wages of sin.

Why doesn't the government tax them for a change?

my various debaucheries.  I'd love to see the government take a share of them away from me.

I'm acutely aware that the government takes a big cut from all the various legal sinning going on, especially gambling.

They manage to even take a cut from the sex trade by way of bribes and fines in most major cities.

Question for both parties.  

They do!!

Not by clubbing or "night on the town" stuff.  I have no interest in it, since I didn't miss much in my mis-spent youth.  I do enjoy OTC time with several of my provider friends but it's more in the line of dinner, just the two of us or another couple.  The only clubbing I've done is to take two insanely hot Canadian stripper/hookers to The Spearmint Rhino on my birthday.  But that did not make me feel young.  What made me feel young was taking them back to the hotel later for a doubles session.
PS: I did not pay them for their time at the club, but bought them drinks and lap dances.  My motto on that is, "I will happily pay you for sex.  I will happily pay for your dinner.  But I will not pay to watch you eat it."

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You always pay for it, one way or another.

I am 31, so don't get those requests but I do find I have a lot of younger guys who listen to my music (Death Punch, Breaking Benjamin, Volbeat, Halestorm, etc.) and I do get invited to a lot of concerts by guys in their 50s, which is NOT my style of music. I don't go, because rarely are these men wiling to compensate me for the 3 plus hours I would have to endure of crappy music and utter boredom. For full pay, sure why not lol. I would be more willing to go to a rave than some swinger's club though. It's simply not my idea of fun, and in my six years as a hooker, I have never went to one of those places with a client. I just can't risk being seen. People talk, form judgments, etc. and the very same men who are there as well, will tell BOB (Your boss) where he saw you, and rumors will fly at work. I don't need the extra hassle. A rave...they would just call me a grandma lol.  

I can go out in public with show stoppingly hot 20 year old, and the only eyebrows that will be raised will be by other guys checking her out. I feel perfectly comfortable with being seen in public with women less than half my age. It doesn't necessarily make me feel "younger" but it doesn't bother me a bit.

Also for the record I have a FWB former provider that was an actual GF for a while that I go "out" with all the time. We have been around each other for so long that we don't even get raised eyebrows when we check into hotels together as a couple, We just look like a couple despite the age difference. So I just don't see it as a big deal

but yes, in most of Latin America there are very few hangups about older men and younger women.

i'll pay for a lady's time while we eat dinner, on the condition that she's feeling my crotch under the table, whispering dirty things in my ear all night and generally making me feel like she can't wait to jump my bones...maybe we will inthe bathroom.

and I am not exactly comfortable being out in public with hookers either. If I am seeing a hooker half my age I would prefer something a little quieter or low key like a dead dark bar with a CD machine.  

Got pubes?

how old are you? And still provide?

So a George Strait concert is out of the question?

my attitude and opinion would be different. In a place like that where it is obvious that mongering is going on and it is much more acceptable, I don't think I would have any hangups.

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and I become the recipient then absolutely. 420, hide it from me.

You promised to take me to dinner tonight, even if I won't put out

So no need for footsie, just laughter and good conversation.

A nice "V" or landing strip above your business is fine.  More than that is not good for me.  Love a short skirt that barely covers her ass, etc.  You should see how the chicas down here in Costa Rica rock that.

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Why as soon as get my new prosthetic hip fixed and my botox shot and my new toupee I intend to step out on the town with a pair of 22 year old providers. And they've assured me that they really REALLY want to go. Though I'm not sure why they were laughing as they said it.  Anyway got to go get a new onion for my belt.
Wait. Where was I again?

I'm in Costa Rica right now and I"m not taking anyone out to dinner.  Actually, it's back in the states that I do that.  Took one 21 year old to a fine NY steakhouse with another monger/provider couple and was ready for some old biddy to say, "Shame on you!  Don't you know that girl is young enough to be your daughter?"
I would have smiled and replied, "No, ma'am, this girl is far too young to me my daughter."

Unless you have two Chicas to join you that is. Give Nicky the bottom bunk though. Seniority applies.

If you think I'm buying lobster for some chica you're nuckin' futs!  The plan is to drink some more, eat lobster and wait for the primo chicas to show up after 8.  It's worked before.  Eat your fuckin' heart out.

Yep. You got me there. It's fucking 37 degrees here and I am not to happy about that. Enjoy the nice weather (and chicas) while you can because it is snowing in your neck of the woods.

nudest resort. Only time I have ever been to one. It was strange to hear her being called by her real name while wondering if the others knew I was "John" for the evening.  While she was talented in many ways, we never did get together again.

Pube skirt?  ROFLMAO!   I've always been told you should floss after every meal!!!

идти ебать себя, придурок.  

Dear P:  This evening's dinner was at a place right on the beach.  Ceviche followed by a mixed grill of Langustine, Dorado and Shrimp, washed down with a better than average Chardonnay.  Desert was a Columbiana.  I know, I know, I'm such a prick for reveling in this so blatantly.  But if you can get your ass to the Cocal in Jaco, you will thank me.  Moonlight now glistening off the Pacific.  I may move here.

I only bought a one way ticket, but planned on popping back to the states a week or two ago to take care of some business, but every time I would think about booking a return ticket,  i would check the weather back in the states and end up saying to myself "Fuck That"  Oh well, I have to go back eventually, but I am not looking forward to it.

The guys would call up the first agency that popped up on google (which is also how I found the agency, too...I didn't know any more than they did about B&S or TER). They'd want someone to basically stay up till 4AM and 'bring the party' lolol. Some of my most interesting stories (and both of my client-bfs) were from that early part of my career - but I am no 'party girl' in any sense of the word.  

It's actually a bit warm today, some might even call it hot. lmao

Salt, meet wound. Both of you two will be getting a bucket of ice from me.  

I wasn't born in Manhattan..but neither was I raided in cow-tipping regions.