If i'm going to give a reference then a white list would be equal. He is a gentleman, felt safe with him, no problem with donation or manners. I have given and taken away a white list because I felt the person in question did not follow my reference rules.

A white list stands out for other ladies to see and will contact her for a reference many times. It's up to the man to be sure you have a heads up on this lady first.

Kisses Haley

For a client to earn a whitelisting for me they need to have seen me at least 3 times, been on time, clean, respectful and overall a good guy.

If I have not seen them within the last year then I take it away.  Again it is earned and lasts for a year....just like the honor roll.

Each gal has their own standards since TER does not set them. So each gal has their own views but I believe certain standards should be set as it my reputation that goes along with the whitelisting.

if the gentleman asks me and he was very respectful during our time together.Every gentleman I  see doesn't get a whitelist some gents might be someone i wouldn't want to see again.If the gentleman is someone I would like to see again I would whitelist but some gents I would love to see again,but never request a whitelist.

Polite, kind, respectful.

Provided any information I wanted without putting up a fight.

Was forth coming of his own free will providing me with screening information BEFORE I had to ask.

Setting a time, getting  a confirmation and the day of meeting went smoothly.

Was hygienic, pleasurable and interested in my sense of dignity.

Ladies who saw him AFTER I did, wrote back to ensure me he continues to be a good companion to share time with.

There are some gentlemen who write women asking to be white listed  even though they have never met - and apparently some women accept.  Please be conscious about not depending ONLY on the white list as a reference. As long as behavior like that can continue, white lists can't be blindly trusted.