Eh - not so much. Sounds like a royal pain in the ass to me. Maintaining secrets and lies is hard fucking work, and that is one big secret.

Truth be told, I don't do a thing that I am ashamed of. I do things that OTHER people might not approve of, but I don't really give a fuck what they think.

Sorry, but no double life for me.

fucking slut lol

come to think of it, I am a HUGE slut myself lol

You ARE NOT a male volunteer for the Big Sisters program are you mister?

So it is more accurately the "Little Sisters" program in my case. lol

I’ve partaken of several lovely providers that maintain a very different civvie-life apart from the provider scene.  To one degree or another, they strive to maintain their anonymity.  In all but one case of my experience, this involves doctoring of pictures, primarily to obscure the face.  The only exception I speak of actually works different cities far away from her residence.  I take it to understand that these providers often have outside jobs and families, kids in many cases, and sometimes even husbands or other SOs.

  I only post this, because I find it interesting to consider what it must be like to lead this type of double life.  I rather imagine it is somewhat exciting and that it perhaps adds significantly to the allure of this type of life-style.  I wonder how many, if any, of their friends or confidants they let in on their secret.

but I told her 'if that were the case, why aren't those girls going to your house in uniform. And why is there never more than one or two at a time.

"Something's fishy" I told Gladys.

A double life? I think every1 has a double life you fool. Some may be professional working men and snort some coke in the process. And in this process, they have to go through drug dealers to get the product. And in this journey, excitement, thrill, and satisfaction may occur due to this type of double life. Also, misery, resentment, and other negative consequences may result in this type of behavior.

Every1 lives a double life you fool. We are all professionals by trade since we have to make a living to pay off bills. Every1 is not immune to temptation, and no1 is perfect. The deadly sins such as lust, envy, greed, and gluttony are the results of these double lives. Lets take away the hobbyist agenda, and move on to other professionals. You can quote me on this, no1 is perfect, despite their outer experience and professionalism due to their career, they have dirty and filthy desires that participate in, and why do they do it, because of the reasons mentioned.

Very well said. I agree with the guy with a million aliases that all look the same.

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It would probably be overkill lol

Living a double life is hell. It is not fun and exciting. Only an idiot or a psychopath would find lying to everyone alluring. Yes, many providers do live this double life, and it costs them.

Many slowly begin to isolate themselves from their friends and family as the lies get to be to much. Many live in fear that someone may find out and their little secret may just ruin their life. When things go wrong in the secret life they have no one to vent with, and when things go well they have no one to share it with. If they have not anyone they are fully honest it eats at them. What about that sounds fun?

I know I lived that life for about six months or so. I kept my wife's providing secret, and my hobbying as well. I have friends and family that are highly religious and/or worked in LE, some in vice. All my friends at the time fell into those two groups. My cousin who hates me worked vice and would love to bust my wife or myself.

I was really afraid of being outed, even though I acted otherwise.Add that to that At the time I didn't trust my wife. I was alone living a lie. I hated it.

Now my cousin who hated me found out I hobbyed. The nature of my wife's job came out later for a different reason. We was outed. And now I don't live that double life and have a don't ask don't tell, but they know thing with my friends and family things are much better. We'll that and now things are good again with my wife, and I have hobby friends. Being outed was a good thing.

I didn't live a double life as much as many provider's do. Those that don't have those they confide in have it rough. The double life thing is never fun. The excitement quickly fades into work. Isolation and loneliness is often the result. This is why they get paid so much, as not every lady can handle the double life even with someone to share it with.

Every provider needs those they can share their whole life with or they will become jaded and bitter over time. Those that can be honest to those they are closest to are the ones that do better in the long run. I doubt a single provider will list the double life as a plus. Ladies please correct me if I am wrong but I doubt I am.

My preference is a slut, especially one that is willing to tell me she is a slut. So, in my opinion slut = good.

I'm always respectful with a provider and ask if it's OK to talk nasty with them, explaining to them that I don't mean anything I say it's just a fantasy thing. But I also ask them to talk dirty and I haven't found one yet that will just let go and talk nasty.

I will admit I'm quite new to the hobby and I've read some reviews of providers I will spend time with for that very reason.

I know a few ladies personally and very well, and their constant attention to maintaining the 'double life' paradigm makes them nothing short of miserable.  Especially when it comes to their family (parents, etc.), whom they are often forced to decieve.  As a result, they feel awful and less than honorable at times about a profession that find perfectly acceptable.
Your remarks are right on scoed.  The OP has not thought this through at all.

And all this time, I thought I had a lot of aliases. Looks like I got some catching up to do.  

Hi there PanAmlong!  Great Topic!

Yes, I am one of those mystery anonymity and low profile women to whom you refer and am very happy being like this.  It is truly very exciting leading this type of double/triple parallel life which can challenge you at times because you have to be always alert, focused, and on top of your game to know which lady you are being at any particular moment- like being an actress with many roles and being the best and genuine at each.  I feel I have a more interesting persona because of my many fascinating sides with the more conservative in control lifestyle during the day and my lusty and naughty wild lifestyle at night.  I love it and thrive on it!! It definitely gets my adrenalin going and makes me better at everything I do and especially heightens things erotically. Yes, I am able to keep all my worlds straight because I have to in order to be able to succeed to my utmost in all of them and be able to continue to please my wonderful gents the way that they deserve.  By the way, only 2 people know of my sexy secret and it will stay that way!!

Lust & Hugs,

Your Very SexyCassie XO  (Your pleasure is my desire and pure blissful passion is my specialty)

Living low profile double life.

I've noticed that men are more intrigued by women who lead "normal" lives.