Recently, I have been asked how I feel about a gentleman writing myself reviews and I often say "I don't care either way. Just that they not be too expilcit."

Well, in a conversation with a gentleman, seems on more than one instance girls have told him that he had better give them good reviews.

So I wonder, is the way to raving reviews just a matter of twisting a guys nipples? Has this happened to any of you gentlemen out there? Any ladies guilty of this?

I also wonder what else girls are bullying (persuading) gentlemen to do.

-- Modified on 7/5/2006 3:47:00 PM

I know that I've never been bullied into giving a good review.Most ladies don't even know that I've reviewed them until after the fact.I have heard of several instances of clients bullying providers into doing certain things or risk having a bad review written about them.This tactic is lame IMHO,regardless of who does it.

Reviews are subjective, along side the many uncontrolled variables involved. Guys are going to say what whatever, whenever it moves them. At the end of the day, if a lady is good at what she does, reviews shouldn’t matter, one way or the other.

For a lady to “bully” ( as you call it) is her own choice, however guys gossip worse than school girls being caddy over the hottie football jock. Once word gets around an lady has conducted herself in such a manner,  that “review” could be more of a hindrance than a help. But then again, wars have been started over the power of the P****. I guess it’s all up to the gentleman to decide what behavior is acceptable and what’s not.

Now I have heard of ladies doing some back handed things( too many to list here), but this is not one of them. I don’t want to sound crude, but that’s the silliest thing I’ve ever heard.

For long established ladies, Jayla is right about reviews.  For newbies though, it may be a different story.

Time for me to go to the corner tavern and gossip with the fellas! lol

Only once, was I asked to right a review, and I mentioned that, in the review.
Personally, I rely on the reviews to better my hobbying experience. I know there's a lot of shady reviews. But, I would hope most of them are accurate.
By the way, twisting my nipples would get an extra credit point.

Several times, I have heard a provider say that she will be looking forward to my review. It has always been done in a subtle, playful, sexy manner.

Does it affect how I write the review? I doubt it. I think I do a good job of selecting the ladies I see, and rarely have a less than great experience. I really appreciate it when a provider works very hard to please me, and that deserves a positive review.

When ya cummin ta JOISEY ! ! !

Thank You

Hardly....always thought the men were the bullies until....  Still it seems like the gals are just as bad even if they are just getting even.
Getting even is hardly rising above and this is where it really gets fucked up.

I went out w a couple of gals for a birthday to see male strippers, and saw the nipple twisting by the so called "ladies"  and got sick to my gut.  Never again....what was up with that? women have the intelligence to rise above "getting even"  but when they refuse to they dishonor all humanity.  how disgusting,



-- Modified on 7/6/2006 3:35:32 AM

I haven't been "bullied" for reviews, but I've had situations where I've mentioned the word, and the provider has dogged me until I did it.  I've also had providers call me out of the clear blue fishing for dates.   I've also heard of - but haven't experienced - a provider who threatened to out hobbyists who didn't give them good reviews.  Stuff happens.  

-- Modified on 7/5/2006 7:20:44 PM

A couple years back I was seeking to hook-up with a then very popular shooting star that was getting great press. SHE informed me that no less than a 9-10 review was expected because she couldn't afford/allow the point drop on her "mathesar report"(A regular ratings report indigenous to LA TER).

 Sorry! Homie don't play.

We had a falling out between the session and the writing of the review.  The hilarious thing was, I wasn't even contemplating a bad review!!  I couldn't; the session was wonderful.  The misunderstandings that following when I tried to make another session-- now that really sucked.  So,I posted a good review on another board anyway.  We have since made up.  

It made me wonder what would happen if a lady sued a client for a bad review:  How far would such a suit go in court?  I think that's going happen someday.  When it does, it is bound to be a very bizarre case.      



-- Modified on 7/6/2006 9:32:05 AM

some providers i've seen have gotten upset that i use reviews to pick my provider but never written a review.

I just saw your site. WOW. You can twist anything you want. Next time you're in the NY or Philly area, we should talk.

More then once I have hear that the provider will request that the review be done right then and there before she leaves, In doing this I think the provider is just about insured a good review. I personally don’t ask although I used to , when I stopped asking I stopped getting them.

Jury selection alone would prove VERY interesting, and the magistrates "charging" of the jury would be classic.

-- Modified on 7/6/2006 9:10:42 AM

That's pretty sad. I've never been asked to review anyone... in fact, I've heard quite the opposite. In my zest to write reviews, I've had girls ask me NOT to review them so they could remain under the radar. While I was a little disappointed to hear that at times, I respected their right to privacy.

If a provider asked me to review her, I'd do it, but I certainly wouldn't write it while they were in the room. Can we say tacky? I also wouldn't accept suggestions from a provider on what to say. I'd rather write my own recap as I saw it and experienced it.

I have had providers ask if I do for which I plead ignorance.  A couple have said, 'good' as they don't want or need them and I respect their wishes.  
Two other strange instances.  One when a provider offered a discount for the next session if I wrote a flattering review.  The second was a less-than-flattering review of a San Diego provider which caused a big stink on the SD DB for awhile.  It really worked against her as she got progressively more defensive & insulting as some of the local hobbyists lined up against her.  I'm pretty sure TER delisted her shortly thereafter.