I was reading the post about the Sugar Baby Scamming and it really pissed me off.  We can debate the moralities of the "Provider World" all we want, but in the end, getting through each day trying to treat each other with at least some fairness is really sometimes in short supply.  The college girls who resort to Sugar Baby work are often women with limited financial resources and trying to get through school or even life without getting wiped out financially.  So to those who would take advantage of someone like that...take a look in the mirror...there is some world class ugliness out there.

Now that I got that off my chest and since its a new year, I thought I would take a minute to thank the ladies of TER (or otherwise) for all they do for guys.  Not every session has been great, and there have been my share of last minute cancellations, no shows, or outdated photos that have made me more than a little angry and feeling ripped off.  But there have been a lot of really awesome sessions from some of the most beautiful and talented women on the planet.  So to you, ladies my thanks and especially noted were the times when:

You showed up on time, wearing exactly what was requested
You spent the time to apply your make up to enhance your beauty to astounding levels
You greeted me at the door with a hug and a kiss and made me feel glad to be there with you
You used photos that were not only accurate but when you showed up, the photos didn't really do you justice
You used your considerable erotic skills to bring me pleasure I couldn't even dream about
You wrapped your arms around me afterwards and made me feel glad to be alive
You didn't try to upset me when we got to our appointment
You didn't try to cut the appointment short to minimize our time and maximize your profit
You offered me a nice cold drink and shoulder massage to just help me relax
You genuinely enjoyed our time and stayed longer just because we were having fun
You shared some of your personal life and opened yourself up and your vulnerabilities
You thanked me for seeing you
You did a 100 little gentle things in our appointment that made it special
You sent me an email or called later to tell me you had a great time and hoped we would get together again
You kissed me goodbye at the door and your lips lingered because it felt like you didn't want to leave
You smiled the warmest smile on your way out and the scent of you lingered like flowers on a warm day

And a thousand other things that make a guy feel special....to you ladies, thank you all for what you do, the excitement you bring, the intimacy you share, and the smile you bring to our faces

bout sugar babies, don't be some naive...not every one is the real college girl struggling with bills...How many times the sugar daddy actually gets school invoice and gets to transfer money directly to the school...i am just saying...some sugar sugar babies are experiences hustlers and scammers, they will take advantage of your desire to be a protector of the "weaker"  before you know it....they know how to play the game and to get the most while putting out as less as possible...sometimes they do not have to work as hard as providers, yet they are better accepted by the society than providers...

the other part of your message is very good insight on how to be a better provider  and i thank you for tha

END OF MESSAGE

It's men like you, that make me love what I do. Stay warm and stay safe out there. Xoxo

I want to book with her.

END OF MESSAGE

Classy.

END OF MESSAGE

...about a 30 minute ride from me, waiting for me to get done with work...when I get there later I'm going to buy her dinner, go back to her room, grab a quick shower, and spend the next 2 hours doing everything in my power to convince her to come back after some TER motherfucker stood her up this afternoon...

Fuck you, you No Call No Show piece if shit...

Geez, can you be any more of a weenie?
I've always treated the providers well, tipped almost every time, appreciate their beauty and grace....but don't see a need to kiss that much azzz.
Not picking on you but getting tired of guys writing reviews for the ladies instead of fellow hobbyists.  
I see one more dude say " treat her right, guys" or "thank you so and so" I'm tempted to smack him.
The idea is to provide information for the rest of us not stack up lame brownie points.

when will some of the less "savvy" ladies realize that the girls who follow at least half of what the op sets out as a nice date will get repeat clients over and over, and the ones who approach this endeavor without thought or care will never do well?

i am a very loyal client to the ladies that treat me as if they are genuiinely happy to see me, and not just my envelope.

i consider several ladies i know to be actual friends, and i am privileged to know them.

END OF MESSAGE

Of the dichotomy among hobbyists in this world. Using non-judgmental terms - lets call them "gentlemen" and "horndogs".

Ladies ... I'm curious.

What percentage of your clients would you say are Munchins and what percentage of your clients are Busters?

END OF MESSAGE

END OF MESSAGE

I think I'm in heavy like!!!

Steph xoxo

Because we really do care on what makes you happy throughout the entire date and beyond!

Once a provider gets good at screening, most clients she sees are good guys.

95% good vs. 5% bad, after you learn how to weed out the crap.

There are lots of fantastic hobbyists out there!

Not so much on this GD board.

Thanks, Munchin, for this post