Sorry if this topic has been covered.  But how do you know when you experience the hobby too much?  Are you an everyday person?  Every month?  Is it finances?  Is it about health?  If you see 365 new women a day over a year, that sure is a lot?

I am not judging or being condescending.  I am frequent flier and maybe the responses will make me feel better about myself I guess.

I tend to look at it what is "good enough"

Personally, for me once a month is good enough for me.

Maybe it's time for a break.  You're already checking yourself.

Many have a multitude of hobby's in a lifetime.  This is not one of them.  Too often guys get too involved in this game they play...seeking things that are unattainable here.

Try other things...play some golf...bowling...running.  Plenty of other physical activities that can immerse you with the same endorphines that this game gives you.

Hell...get on the ice with some 18 y/o kids who still thinks the NHL is calling.  A serious wake up call on that loose puck in the corner with that 6'3" 215 pound kid going at full speed  LOL

Hookers aren't going anywhere.  Many of us have played here for a couple of years...left for other shit..came back..and repeated this process.  Also, plenty of ways to play this game.

Or if you want to treat this truly as a "hobby"...don't get so mesmerized with the hookers.  Stop looking for that connection.  There isn't one here.

Cue the SD/sb advocates...tell this guy how much better that is than hooking.  Might be the gig he needs  

Don't spend the rent money.
Don't indulge in stupid or dangerous behavior.
Don't do it if it isn't fun.

You are spot on.  When you look for a connection in the hobby you are setting yourself up.   It is so easy to get "mesmerized" with the girls and think you have found someone who is into you and that you matter.  It's an illusion. The girls encourage it (and who can blame this - this is their work).  But men have been falling for it forever - whether it is the girlfriend, the wife or the escort.  It's all the same illusion.   I'll take the high speed rush of my motorcycle  - at least that is real.

Try fishing or hunting. I've just started out and I figure this will be a once a month or so hobby, I'm still satisfied
at home but do enjoy the hour or so fantasy world we get to share with a bueatifull lady once in a while. And I enjoy the cloak and dagger sneaking around part of it, kind of makes you feel like a real bad ass or something. And as engaging as the ladies are its all just a game ( though a hell of a lot more exciting than golf), there will be another guy after you just like another lady you visit another day. I guess it's kind of like a good beer buzz fun as hell but you don't want to be like that all the time. If you enjoy it do it, but don't get totally immersed in it. Pick up another hobby, buy a nice shotgun and join a skeet club. If you are married don't let it interfere with that, I still hobby but know my family can never be replaced by one of these lady's no matter how irresistible they are, we are all just actors in an ages old play.

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it wasnt all that great in actuality. I had less fun with each girl. All 4 girls were 9/10's. It wasnt them, it was me. I can afford to see 3-4 high end women every week but I dont. By the 4th woman, I had lost that excited/nervousness I get 5 minutes before I see any new girl. BAD SIGN. I hobby once a week and i have that feeling back. Once it becomes a chore instead of a fantasy, thats when I know its too much.

#10. When the hooker came out from behind the door it was a tranny. And I stayed.

#9. I bought an Iphone for my hobby phone.

#8. I asked all my ATF hookers for written references.

#7. I started the VIP section of the review with "This is the 6th time i have seen her and I'm still not sure if she O'd.

#6. I waited in the parking lot for 3 hours.

#5. My wife gives better head than any hooker and I still PAY for head.

#4. I did my first threesome and afterwards all I could think of was...should I do a foursome?

#3. I got an STD.

#2. I got ripped off at a notel, had a fender bender in the parking lot making my getaway, and was searching Backpage two nights later.

#1. I got busted, the hooker got pregnant (can you believe a hooker that does bareback wouldn't take birth control pills?), and the hooker wants to negotiate a payoff from me for her to have an abortion.

Epilogue: It's hard to find a good straight man. Thanks

Then it's time to start outcalls.

The conservative standard would be hobbying more than I did about 10 years ago when free time and money were unlimited and I didn't have a steady special friend and a happy marriage.
Liberally it would be hobbying more than Mr. Fisher does.

I...I....

I guess you're right now that I think about it.

I was researching Charlie Sheen.  I think if I reach Charlie Sheen levels then I have gone too far.

are you saying that when those hookers email me telling me how much they miss me, it's a lie?

say it ain't so!!!

about twice a month.

now about once a month, sometimes less fequently.

been burnt too bad recently to waste money on unsure things in this hobby, i see no need to keep hunting.  found a couple of nice girls and i see them every 3 or 4 weeks alternately.

Hi CPA,

If you treat the lady w/ respect & she does the same in kind, you can have fun & see her again  when she's in town!! That is a connection!! Yes, you cannot expand that to a romantic relationship outside BCD because it's P4P, but BCD one can find a mutual respect for each other I.E. a connection!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Many have a multitude of hobby's in a lifetime.  This is not one of them.  Too often guys get too involved in this game they play...seeking things that are unattainable here.

Try other things...play some golf...bowling...running.  Plenty of other physical activities that can immerse you with the same endorphines that this game gives you.

Hell...get on the ice with some 18 y/o kids who still thinks the NHL is calling.  A serious wake up call on that loose puck in the corner with that 6'3" 215 pound kid going at full speed  LOL

Hookers aren't going anywhere.  Many of us have played here for a couple of years...left for other shit..came back..and repeated this process.  Also, plenty of ways to play this game.

Or if you want to treat this truly as a "hobby"...don't get so mesmerized with the hookers.  Stop looking for that connection.  There isn't one here.

Cue the SD/sb advocates...tell this guy how much better that is than hooking.  Might be the gig he needs  

Posted By: ramza

Sorry if this topic has been covered.  But how do you know when you experience the hobby too much?  Are you an everyday person?  Every month?  Is it finances?  Is it about health?  If you see 365 new women a day over a year, that sure is a lot?

I am not judging or being condescending.  I am frequent flier and maybe the responses will make me feel better about myself I guess.

Something to ponder Cubbie man

First off...glad to see you're still around.  When will you be heading into rehab?

Now...let's not confuse a P4P session where the gals job is to make you feel like a "long lost friend/lover" with a person who will actually be coming to visit you in the rehab center who has a real caring for your health and well being.

Too often guys see this as some sort of romantic interlude...and in most cases it is a ONE sided feeling.

So we can certainly agree to disagree on this matter if you honestly think that any of the hookers you've seen will be coming to visit you.  But I honestly hope that maybe one will...wearing that nurses outfit and taking your rectal temperature with her finger.

Posted By: CubbieFan2

Hi CPA,

If you treat the lady w/ respect & she does the same in kind, you can have fun & see her again  when she's in town!! That is a connection!! Yes, you cannot expand that to a romantic relationship outside BCD because it's P4P, but BCD one can find a mutual respect for each other I.E. a connection!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Many have a multitude of hobby's in a lifetime.  This is not one of them.  Too often guys get too involved in this game they play...seeking things that are unattainable here.

Try other things...play some golf...bowling...running.  Plenty of other physical activities that can immerse you with the same endorphines that this game gives you.

Hell...get on the ice with some 18 y/o kids who still thinks the NHL is calling.  A serious wake up call on that loose puck in the corner with that 6'3" 215 pound kid going at full speed  LOL

Hookers aren't going anywhere.  Many of us have played here for a couple of years...left for other shit..came back..and repeated this process.  Also, plenty of ways to play this game.

Or if you want to treat this truly as a "hobby"...don't get so mesmerized with the hookers.  Stop looking for that connection.  There isn't one here.

Cue the SD/sb advocates...tell this guy how much better that is than hooking.  Might be the gig he needs  

Posted By: ramza

Sorry if this topic has been covered.  But how do you know when you experience the hobby too much?  Are you an everyday person?  Every month?  Is it finances?  Is it about health?  If you see 365 new women a day over a year, that sure is a lot?

I am not judging or being condescending.  I am frequent flier and maybe the responses will make me feel better about myself I guess.

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When your cock looks like that, you might want to slow things down a little, lmao

MM

And those are just the putzes who post that drivel.

Amazing how many guys fall for that shit  LOL

Hi CPA,

a white envelope!!  I just enjoy the "connection"  BCD w/a  lady w/whom I've seen multiple times!! The "connection" begins  & ends, respectively, when I  arrive & leave!! I'm still in the process of trying to be accepted into rehab!! I'm still cutting through red tape! ;o/

Posted By: ChgoCPA

First off...glad to see you're still around.  When will you be heading into rehab?

Now...let's not confuse a P4P session where the gals job is to make you feel like a "long lost friend/lover" with a person who will actually be coming to visit you in the rehab center who has a real caring for your health and well being.

Too often guys see this as some sort of romantic interlude...and in most cases it is a ONE sided feeling.

So we can certainly agree to disagree on this matter if you honestly think that any of the hookers you've seen will be coming to visit you.  But I honestly hope that maybe one will...wearing that nurses outfit and taking your rectal temperature with her finger.

Posted By: CubbieFan2

Hi CPA,

If you treat the lady w/ respect & she does the same in kind, you can have fun & see her again  when she's in town!! That is a connection!! Yes, you cannot expand that to a romantic relationship outside BCD because it's P4P, but BCD one can find a mutual respect for each other I.E. a connection!!

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Many have a multitude of hobby's in a lifetime.  This is not one of them.  Too often guys get too involved in this game they play...seeking things that are unattainable here.

Try other things...play some golf...bowling...running.  Plenty of other physical activities that can immerse you with the same endorphines that this game gives you.

Hell...get on the ice with some 18 y/o kids who still thinks the NHL is calling.  A serious wake up call on that loose puck in the corner with that 6'3" 215 pound kid going at full speed  LOL

Hookers aren't going anywhere.  Many of us have played here for a couple of years...left for other shit..came back..and repeated this process.  Also, plenty of ways to play this game.

Or if you want to treat this truly as a "hobby"...don't get so mesmerized with the hookers.  Stop looking for that connection.  There isn't one here.

Cue the SD/sb advocates...tell this guy how much better that is than hooking.  Might be the gig he needs  

Posted By: ramza

Sorry if this topic has been covered.  But how do you know when you experience the hobby too much?  Are you an everyday person?  Every month?  Is it finances?  Is it about health?  If you see 365 new women a day over a year, that sure is a lot?

I am not judging or being condescending.  I am frequent flier and maybe the responses will make me feel better about myself I guess.

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Crap a couple of those of either happened or are true.

At least the When I see the girl behind the counter at the Starbucks and wonder what her menu is like isn't on that list.

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Pretty sure big Johnson was joking with that name he has to have a sense of humor. But seriously how many guys actually do take the game to heart. You are absolutely right no shortage of falling for her threads here. Guys for once think with the little head and leave the thinking out of it. I assume a lot of guys are happy at home ( I am), but just want a little more action but why they let it play head games with them I can't figure out. Gotta admit though that rush when the room door opens for the first time is like a good high though!!

When you can't convince an attractive girl, on the street that fucking for money is OK. You even get pissed off lol.