Now that backpage is no longer a viable option, I would like to know from all the gentlemen where they will look in the future? While all us girls are scrambling to figure out the best place to advertise and reach potential clients, I would love for you to tell us: How does this affect you and how will you find us to fulfill you needs? I would also like to hear from any of the girls with experience or opinions of other sites for advertising. Maybe this will help us all meet up in a common place

Personally it's not an issue. Honestly I can't remember the last time I hired a escort.  

Start ups..run by women (still have to confirm if one of them is because I think i only looked at 2 of them) Right now they are only set up to showcase escorts' ad in Canadian cities but I'm sure if the need was there....

This is going to be a time-consuming project for awhile; I tour to many areas not served by Eros, and while some gentlemen in my destinations will look at that site's nearest city to them, most do not.  BP was where I reached the most potential clients.    

This never held a candle to TER, but the ads were entertaining, allowed for unlimited fantasies, led to a few excellent meetings, and gave some ladies now well established a start.
It is estimated that smoking will kill 8 million people a year World Wide, how many people we killed last year by back page and similar listings?
I guess I will do what I have always done: rely on TER and once in a while count on personal intros or sites like Fet-Life

Just go to the search reviews section, put in the filters you want, hit enter and voila, there are all kind of profiles to read with reviews, and links to the gal's website so you can pursue those you are interested in.

its "Women Seeking Men" dating page. There are several posts about this on the thread below.  The more things change, the more they remain the same.


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but I have always been 99% TER and P411.  Backpage has never been a source for me.

First of all, Google still works great as a search engine. I just typed in "escort Minnesota" and got 13 million hits. The first page included a hit for "Craigslist Girls":

I also only use TER and P411 to find girls.  BP was something I only went to when it was linked on a TER profile to try and see more pics before reaching out to someone.

I say good riddance.  Between the robs, scams, B&S and LE stings using BP, I never understood why any hobbyists would want to waste their time there.  Yes, there was an occasional diamond in the rough, but I'm not really the prospector-type.  I prefer a proven track record.  BP being gone isn't going to cost any ladies any lost revenue from me.

That and most men don't want a three hour date, that they booked two weeks out, or give a shit if the lady might want to spend a few moments OTC.

When your persona comes off as shill reviewer.  

I have read everything that ppl have posted an I understand bp was a place for last minute appointments wants and ppl with know references but considering I've only be doing massage for 2 years now that where I started and met most of my clients MY BIGGIST CONCERN IS WHAT HAPPENS TO ALL MY INFO THEY HAVE .................

BP was a reasonable "source" for rural America.  I by no way live in a redneck state, lol, but pickings in my area would be slim if I had to rely only on P411 and TER.  A persona had to be careful, but there were good, decent providers who used BP and it was a good source in my area.  It looks like some of the BP providers may move to Women for Men and massage on BP, but how long before those get shut down as well??

By posting a review you are admitting that you paid to play and now that info is in some data base. Can they trace the posting back to you....why yes they can.  Say you see someone and then write a review.  The next day she is found dead. Guess who LE will now likely have a chat with.

but let us not forget that prostitution is a crime, that 's what the law is calling this past time.  

is not bad at all? What happens when they shut down Eros, p411 and TER?

about reviews?  Reading them is not the same as writing them.  Try a few yourself before you  comment on someone else's.  Otherwise, you have no credibility in judging what kind of review it is.  I'm not fat, so I don't judge you, which is how it should be.  I AM a unrepentant slut, so I can judge GaGambler.  See how that works?

Aren't going to be giving out their screening info anytime soon.

... Sex-bots?

I have no idea whom you have reviewed. I base my assumption purely on the arrogance of your persona.

which are out of the country, and therefore, can not be subpoenaed?..

Only $100,000 each from China.

The thing I liked most about BP, is when someone posted something today, I knew they were ready.  I don't normally plan things out more than a day in advance, so if I started at TER for a provider I was hoping to see, I would then see if they had an ad today or recently.

They might run off together.

For the millionth time, it does NOT matter where a girl advertises as it ONLY matters if she is verifiable.  

I mean after all, we assume what we do about you purely on the stupidity of your persona.

I don't believe people when they say they've never used BP, especially a whore monger.  

Canada will not offer much of a safe heaven, for U.S. citizens.

I don't think you will find a post anywhere where I said I NEVER used BP in my entire hobby history.  I did a couple of times about eight years ago when I was seeing mostly indies, and it was nothing but trouble for me. B&S with fake photos each time. I have even posted in the past about these few experiences on other TER boards when guys were complaining about being taken for a ride by BP girls.  I would never use them AGAIN.  So when I say I don't use them, I don't, at least not for many years after a few bad experiences.  I'm smart enough not to keep standing in the driveway after my foot has been run over a few times.  Many guys that stay with BP for years either are incredibly lucky, have a lot of time to kill on research (which I don't), or are not that smart.  I'm not saying which group you're in.  Each member here can decide for themselves.  

Like there has never been a top tier TER lady, who has never ran a cash and dash on BP.  

Her phone is blowing up with guys calling her.. she said she will raise her prices and verify better if someone is not on TER or 411.. I told her to be very careful and not to forget that there are bad people put there..
Her Mom was a street walker who was killed in 2001.. so she should understand the family business

if you have the time to do your homework on BP girls, then you will reduce the likelihood of being the one that is scammed, robbed, B&S'd or busted, but I just don't have time for that.  I want to spend my time fucking, not researching so that I don't get taken.  Many guys have a lot of time to kill because they only hobby a couple of times month.  If they spend enough time checking out the providers, I agree they can cut their risk.  I prefer to start with the odds a little more in my favor and reduce the research hours.   If I don't get the lowest price in town as a result (which is why most guys go there in the first place), its okay, my time is worth more to me.  My position is based on my own circumstances, and would apply to those similarly situated, i.e., high-volume hobbyists with not a lot of time to mess with research.  For others, BP may be perfect.

It's also quite efficient and doesn't leave a carbon fingerprint

My ATF called me today and said her phone is blowing up with BP guys.. she doesn't know what to do.. EROS was her other venue.. she feels she will have to increase her verification process

There are scores of men on here including yourself who get laid because someone needs to pay their rent.  You seem to hold the same view as many others that this is just some kind of part time job for us.  It may be true for some but not all.

Especially people like you and me who are here frequently and know how to use the software?

for a self driving car.

Where, pray tell, are they going to run their sting ads now

other hand has you stating, in writing, that you fucked her.  Now lets say that your luck has run out and the girl you reviewed was nice and tight but under age.  Now you may be in real trouble.  Just because the server is in another country does not mean LE can't download every bit of info on it.  Ask HRC or our Office of Personnel Management.

In trying to look up the girls  only to find out there IS NO TER profile. Where I live, there are few well-reviewed TER girls that advertise on BP.  Most are TER, EROS and CV.

For many guys there are no providers listed for their area on TER, EROS, or CV.

So there is a trade off for him!

Mr. Fisher, if I am an esteemed member of the constabulary, I am thinking cheepolist.com.  or could I use the escortcafe.com.  Those sites will begin to have more popularity as the mainstream sites are about to go down.  Give it about 2 to 3 months that is where the popularity would be.

a little lower in the thread that for some guys, BP may be perfect.  I recognize that not everyone is in the same circumstances with respect to the various factors that go into hobbying.  For me, its a time-suck when most of the girls on BP in my area are not even on TER with a profile OR reviews.

Very few of those guys hobby if they hobby at all. The ones who get busted for prostitution get deported. I have seen that in news articles.

Some of the low end bp providers will end breaking into houses and doing shoplifting to survive imho. We could see armed robberies pick up.  The poor will strike back big-time imho. They are going to very upset that bp is being taken away from them.

My point is, a source of income can disappeared over night, ad to it the element that source of income is illegal, and dependent on another party(BP) That there are a lot of factors beyond a person's control.

Even in the form of B&S, real chicks with real pics stand out, and you can usually spot a real ad with fake pics.

You would be correct in terms of BP shutting down...however where there's a will there's a way...No one will be stranded as long as they are smart about it.

Oh my God, Anarchy will be next.  

As long as wrps07 is around they will get plenty of info.  

Just some intel for all of us to be safe....

Atms won't be running out of cash so quickly in hobby hotel districts. I won't have to wait in line waiting for a provider to make her daily deposit to the ATM.

A lot of ladies had already moved ads to "dating" sites like AdultFriendFinder and Easysex.  Those sites, as dating sites, will be harder for LEO to shut down.  On the other hand, it's a lot more dangerous for all of us searching for escorts since those sites require credit cards to join in order to connect with anyone.

I don't believe a prosecutor would ever bring a case based on a review alone.  It's like bringing the OJ case based solely on the glove fitting.  They would have to prove the review was not a work of fiction.  Nothing prevents someone from writing a fake review.  I've seen providers claim reviews are fake.  Maybe maybe not, but they're going to need more than the review to hope of getting it past the judge, let alone convincing the jury.

Where there's a will there's a way.
The government is always trying to dip their nose in everything.
But there's always ways around things.Fortunately for me my clientele reputation was of excellent standing,so I can only imagine things getting better for those of us  with great reps..a lot of men are on the prowl

I would be just as cautious of Craigslist postings.That would be the most obvious first place to start tracking down girls/guus for .l.e

Personally for me back page defiantly earned a lot of income for me despite its shady characters. ..some sites that I have found  to be of great assistance to me are

The way I see it things business may end up going back to the club scenes.It's a lot safer for both parties to At least meet .

Your first post said: "good riddance. ... I never understood why any hobbyists would want to waste their time there." That was definitely high horse-ish, and that's why I called it. Now you are saying you do understand why some use it. It's just not for you. You could have said that in the first place. "I won't miss it because I don't use it." Would have come off a lot better than your first comment.  

To potential clients and network with other ladies. Maybe more people will move to use it as an advertising venue as well?
I didn't use BP very much but in some areas Eros and TER just don't cover at all so it was useful for a well worded advert or two.  
It's so frustrating that genuine crime is unsolved while they're chasing consenting adults doing nothing to hurt anyone else.

Exactly.  Two of my favorite providers travel and BP helped me know when they were close without having to contact them and risk discovery.  Most of the other boards I looked at yesterday either didn't have simple search functions or covered broad areas.  If anyone knows of a simple board similar to BP, I'd love to know.

Craigslist and men seeking women are difficult places to post. In a very rural setting there are two types of gentleman: 1) Those who have no clue about paid sites and the value of them and 2) Gentleman who vaguely know of the paid sites but the main site gone now was a quick and easy go to "git er done" kinda site. I tried to educate along the way about the safety and security of paid sites but this mostly fell on deaf ears.  

I only picked ladies from there as a last resort.  While I did find a couple of keepers, my experiences were by far bad. No shows, bait and switch to downright ripoff.  I use TER to check ladies out, but almost all of my appointments are made through p411.  

can be tricky at times and blow with the wind.  

have shaped my attitude at how worthless BP was for me and my friends in SoCal.  I am in a network of a few dozen long-time trusted hobby bro's that trade intel regularly, and to a man, no one in my group ever thought BP was worth the risk or the trouble to do research.  Granted, if a guy is in Armpit, South Dakota, it might be his only option in staying away from the local sheep farms.  Maybe I'm just a little spoiled from entering the hobby in the middle of hooker heaven.  I appreciate your perspective.  Food for thought.

And maybe your best. (outside of all the inside baseball shit you know about "everything" TER. lol)

I very rarely used BP either but my concern is what's to stop the government from going after sites like TER and preferred 411.

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What concerns me though is what's to stop the government from going after sites like TER,Preferred 411 and others.

Her cost is in the $300 range.. She said a lot of the BP calls she is getting.. freak out when she tells them what she charges.. she had a few choice words for the BP calls she was getting..  

I wondered about A Sexy Service fir a while now. It seems kinda wild so are the potential clients worth it?  I'm looking for some new places to promote myself.  

I agree 110%.  I hope these girls don't start finding their way onto this board!

I used backpage to browse but have never seen anyone with TER reviews to back their ad up (minimum 5 reviews).

I would love to see the fruits of your research! I'm sure a lot of us would.

Maybe a category could be setup on Pinterest.com  You can find many sex related subjects on there.

Oh crap I just put 2 and 2 together.  That is probably why hearing back from so many of the providers here on TER in my area has been difficult.

So true. I never put my # on bp but left it on Eros and now all I get are calls from guys with no references.

In certain markets, it was great for finding a milf or part-timer (or preferably a part-timer milf).  

This site has "paid" for reviews.  Free days for a review. Incentive to write fake reviews.  You can write all you want, it doesn't mean a thing unless you sign with your real/ verified signature.  You will not go to jail based soley on a written review under a username.  

and are therefore not subject to subpoena.  Therefore a prosecutor would be challenged by the defense attorney to prove the basis of the site, which they would not be able to do.