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Fucked up dude, hate to hear any one TOFTT, male or female. good luck

So it's been a couple weeks since all this happened and I still don't know what to do.

I went to see a girl who had good reviews. Everything seemed 100% legit. I go to the room, outside entrance, give donation, we talk for a few then I hear the dreaded knock on the door. She opens and her friend tells me I need to leave, her boyfriend is coming. I walk outside the room and see guys standing at all the walkways except one, I head that way back to my vehicle and walk past another girl who says something to me and I get in my car and drive off. First time I've ever been robbed in 12 years. Now I'm scared to leave a bad review as they have information on me, I'm scared to trust reviews here now, I know there was nothing I could do. I'm just lost.

Fucked up dude, hate to hear any one TOFTT, male or female. good luck

Change the information you can to protect yourself as best you can.

Book outcalls or make sure not to go to an incall at a place with outside rooms unless you know the lady very, very well.  

Actually, the advice I got from someone I respect here on the boards was never to go to an incall with outside entrances PERIOD... and all I had was a gross-out experience, not a situation where I felt actually in danger.

Backpage is fine if you know what you are doing.  
Obviously you don't.

thank you...i do advertize on backpage and i consider myself high end provider! i only have a few reviews since i have started a few months ago but you cant define an incident like this by saying dont go on BP!
So sorry to hear stuff like that...it makes me angry and affects the honest ones on the rebound!

Posted By: escalade1964
Backpage is fine if you know what you are doing.  
 Obviously you don't.

Just don't make a habit of it.  I really dislike agreeing with you.

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He still has a lot of points built up for SPOTY, but at this rate he won't even be in the top one hundred, and to think, he had so much potential. lol

You say she had good reviews. Exactly how many did she have? Were you just going by the scores? Do you have VIP membership so you could (and did you) read all the details not just the general details? Had the guys that reviewed her also written many other reviews of other reputable providers?  Have you read the Self-Help Center info on how to check things out and be sure the lady you are seeing is on the up and up? Have you read back on the "Newbie Board" to get info on things that may not be in the Self-Help Center or need clarification? The issue of seeing providers in motels/hotels with exterior entrances to the rooms is one discussed on the "Newbie Board" often.

Since you said "first time ever in 12 years" I'm guessing you aren't exactly a newbie. Possibly you can answer yes to most of these but I thought I'd bring it up as it would be useful to others that may read this.

Some have replied Stay off Backpage. I'll say if you do use Backpage be double diligent in researching the provider before you schedule and see her.

I'm sorry this happened.

You could review her close to the 90 day limit so you don't stand out as to who you are. You could use an alias to review. Don't know if folks pay attention to alias reviews though. Chances are this isn't the first time she/they have done this so waiting to post the review would garner you less attention.

Schedule with her again with a different number or email and ill go with you. We can rob them!

Posted By: Tat2nc
So it's been a couple weeks since all this happened and I still don't know what to do.  
   
 I went to see a girl who had good reviews. Everything seemed 100% legit. I go to the room, outside entrance, give donation, we talk for a few then I hear the dreaded knock on the door. She opens and her friend tells me I need to leave, her boyfriend is coming. I walk outside the room and see guys standing at all the walkways except one, I head that way back to my vehicle and walk past another girl who says something to me and I get in my car and drive off. First time I've ever been robbed in 12 years. Now I'm scared to leave a bad review as they have information on me, I'm scared to trust reviews here now, I know there was nothing I could do. I'm just lost.

so we do not have the same experience.

My guess is that she will have done this a few times so she'll never remember who you were to connect you to it.

Beyond that, I can't think of what to do that is safe for you.

Very sorry this happened, but the sooner this bad penny is out of circulation, the better.

Thanks for sharing this here as it will get us all thinking about safety more.

Not all girls are like that---I suggest the same thing as a few others have said---How many good reviews and how long has she been around??? Also check the reviewers additional reviews on other girls---if you can. People are shady----and with the way things are these days---unfortunately---things are going to be even shadier. Do as much research as you can---and pm other members for additional info on your dream girl if you can. Don't be lost Sweetpea---be informed!!!!! I truly wish you the very best Luv!

But then again I don't want you to catch a case being hood ain't for everyone. Why would you be scared to leave a bad review? I'm sure you would have found it helpful if you had a heads up. That $#!t there just ain't cool. I just can't stand a thief too lazy to make there own ends yet ready to take something somebody else worked so hard to earn.

with outside doors and shit, you need to drive off without hesitation. I would call tell her that I am not comfortable, sorry.

By the way don’t trust all reviews unless it is reviewed by reputed reviewers. All systems can and will be abused and review system is also.

I am really sorry that happened. But I think you should follow others tips. You should write a review so it doesn't happen to anyone. I would def do it under an alias, but I wouldn't wait. It can happen to others in the meantime! Girls like that give us a bad name!

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