and post on your local discussion board to give fair warning to other hobbyists until the review is approved.

I have a situation that I'm looking for opinions on...

Lets say you arrive at a provider's incall, she lets you in, and you put the donation down which she quickly grabs and locks away.  Now this is a mid-range provider, price-wise.  Not some $80 for 15 minute hood rat.  

Lets also say this provider is known for her anal talents.  It's like her specialty.  

Now getting back to the story... you get down to it and she starts to go down on you.  After about 5 minutes, she tells you that you are too big to do anything more than oral.  You won't get do her and you can forget about anal.  Basically, you will get a $400 bj.

What is the appropriate response in that situation?

haul her sorry ass in front of judge Judy, I'm sure she'd give her hell

If she thought you were to big and offered you a discount for oral only. I would be ok with that. If she charged you full price then out her.

You should tell the provider ahead of time.  

I think it should have been discussed ahead of time if your penis is huge.  Did you reserve time with her expecting anal?  Did you pay an extra fee for anal?  Or did you pay her regular donation for regular sex and oral and just hope to get anal?  You say she is "known for her anal talents."  But did you pay for this extra service?  Did you tell her you have a huge cock?  Was anything discussed after you were screened, prior to your session?

If your cock is rediculously huge, I can understand her refusing you.  Otherwise, I think your response to her should have been to point out that you paid for full service and that's what you expected to get.  As soon as she said you were too big, you should have told her that full service is what you wanted and what you paid for.  Since she was the one saying she cannot accomodate you, you would like to have some of your donation back.    

Asking for some of your donation back only works if your cock is not super HUGE.  If you know you have a larger than normal cock, it is your responsibility to tell the provider before seeing her.  Don't come back at me saying things like this cannot be discussed ahead of time.  BS on that.  Once you are screened, there are things that can be discussed politely without being offensive.

my .02

He can't even get full service for $400!!! Just an expensive blow job! No way!!! She should have given him his whole donation back, told him that he was too big and then let him out of the door. When he dropped his drawers and she saw what he was working with, then she should have told him unless he is a grower and if she blew him, they should have worked out a donation for the bj, told him it's not a go and then let him out. There was no reason why he should pay $400 for what he got! That's crazy!

If what you say is true then the price should of been adjusted. The bottom line he paid her full service rate and she did not provide it.

With all due respect RutRoh but telling a sex worker the size of your cock during initial contact is one of the most stupid things I have read on this board.

Any sex worker with half a brain would terminate contact with a guy who says: I love anal but I have a big cock, is that a problem?

If the worker doesn't want to do what she advertises and has been reviewed should say when seeing the cock should immediately refund the money she collected and go on her way.  Barring that she should offer a steep discount if all she wants to do is suck the cock.  To do otherwise is to be a rip off.

Are you regularly in the habit of being happy when you are ripped off?

Ok, first of all, I'm not big.  That's why I was so pissed off.  I'm about 6 inches but pretty thick, thicker than usual.  At least that's what I'm told.

It's not even the anal.  I just think she didn't want to fck that day at all.  And she thought that she could get away with taking all the money and giving a bullshit bj.  

What she should have done is told me "you are too big" and you won't get anal or even FS, but you can have a bj for 1/4 of the donation.  And then I could decide if I want to stay or go.  Not 5 minutes into it.  Not cool.

I'm not huge or super huge.  Average length (6-6.5 in) but thick.  At least I'm told that it's thick.
But not big/thick enough to be refused FS.  I have been refused anal before, but not FS.

I found it interesting that you have 31 reviews dating back to 2004 ~ 14 of which you scored the performance of your selected provider 5 or under.  This seems incredibly low to me for someone who has access to TER and your years of experience.

Perhaps there is too much circulation going your southern region.  You seem to have a habit of selecting the wrong providers.  This latest example is further evidence of an underlying problem with you.

He has made some unlucky choices, that's for sure. However, he is not one to inflate his scores like some of you guys do.

Damn....

For a guy to have so many bad experiences, yes, he must be a horrible client.  Maybe hes extremely rough, dirty, unappealing and/or threatening.  Plus he has ZERO whitelists in 7 years??  Thats a major red flag.

Many hobbyists only write reviews when they have a very good or very bad experience. Many hobbyists only write a review when the provider doesn't have any reviews yet or maybe just 1 or 2. Many hobbyists like to cruise their local BP and TOFTT ... not my thing, but there are a myriad of reasons for this behavior. The truth is YOU have no idea what the reasons for his 14 of 31 low performance scores are, and trying to analyze someone's personality from a few reviews is moronic. If he got ripped off, he got ripped off.

I only have 1 whitelist and I didn't ask the provider who gave it to me to do so. I don't even give out my TER handle to providers unless they specifically ask for it. I use P411 as my reference tool. Others use date-check or RSK2000. This guy appears to be a BP cruiser to me, I really can only guess since I'm not going to go read all his reviews. None of this matters anyway, if she ripped him off, she ripped him off.

All of us to compliment how huge is dick is? because it seems like he wrote all this just to get his self esteem up. I don't understand how you couldn't be mad if the b!tch robbed you.

Although i'am a little biast because with my ATF she doesn't care if i place the donation down beginning or end she just gets comfortable with me and therefore i have a less risk of getting robbed in the future

I pointed out a pattern of poor choices.....which if you read any of his reviews and compared those providers to other experienced reviewers any one who is impartial will notice a much lower performance score than their average.

I am saying it is very likely that PO's current issue seems to fall into his same pattern of having some problem.