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What Does "Respectful" Mean?
Ridgetucky 2 Reviews 1827 reads
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Ok so here is the story.

I see on my local ad board a true porn star is visiting my city.  

Now this is a porn star that has done some real rough scenes (i.e., being whipped, gagged until she cries, punched in the stomach, choked, etc.).  

I am not judging by any means - to each his/her own.  Hey, I mean I like the kinky Sh-- after all I am Ridgetucky.

Anyway, I send my usual "Do you" email.  (i.e., do you take dates with a certain type of man).

I am leaving this out of this post because I do not want to confuse the issue.

So her screener emails back "As long as you're respectful".

Ok, really I mean this chick let a guy fucking choke her, spit on her and stick her head in a toilet.

And you are asking me if I am respectful.

WTF does that mean?

RT

inicky46448 reads

But you are still an ass.  And isn't it quaint how you and Udo always show up at the same time?  Separated at birth, perhaps?  
I need to call the Acme Left-Handed Midget Corp. for more of this stuff

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rrasha88454 reads

Instinctively knows to extend his pinky fingers while dunking a porn star’s head in a toilet.

-- Modified on 5/29/2013 9:24:07 PM

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munchinmuffin279 reads

Good one!  That was really quite funny!

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escalade1964387 reads

Ok, really I mean this chick let a guy fucking choke her, spit on her and stick her head in a toilet.    

I do not think this is considered respectful, but if it was a movie, she was acting.

If this is what you want to do with her on a date, I feel you are disrespectful but WTF do I know, I'm a newbie

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no_email429 reads

That's being respectful. Now if she has a ballgag in her mouth, things could get complicated.

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London Rayne357 reads

I have no clue either. Maybe she means you can't call her a whore or a c*nt and beat the shit out of her face?

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GaGambler310 reads

His post is very UnRidgetucky like, it actually makes sense and has a bit of irony to it. Almost like something a sensible person would say.

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panopticon123308 reads

It means you have to pay a little more if you want to rough her up like that!

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macdaddy1944434 reads

please help me..i am drowning in this guy's shit..

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inicky46324 reads

Please God, don't inhale!

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scoed442 reads

A top should always respect the bottom even when playing rough and demanding. How can tops calling their bottoms fucking useless cunts, making them lick their boots while beating them  and spitting on them? First by taking the time to establish safe words, limits, boundaries, and learn what the bottom likes and dislikes. Second as a top the safeties and well being of the bottom is your responsibility. That means you keep track of where she is in her head space and tolerances. The top stay after until the bottom is fully recovered tending any marks the bottom may have. The top is to make sure  the bottom is get what they want out of it. At all time the top should respect the bottom and the bottoms wishes even if you are pissing on them. Respect is taking time before, after and during play to make sure everything is safe, sane and consentual. Being a good top is much more work them being a bottom, a lot more.

Posted By: Ridgetucky
Ok so here is the story.  
   
 I see on my local ad board a true porn star is visiting my city.    
   
 Now this is a porn star that has done some real rough scenes (i.e., being whipped, gagged until she cries, punched in the stomach, choked, etc.).    
   
 I am not judging by any means - to each his/her own.  Hey, I mean I like the kinky Sh-- after all I am Ridgetucky.  
   
 Anyway, I send my usual "Do you" email.  (i.e., do you take dates with a certain type of man).  
   
 I am leaving this out of this post because I do not want to confuse the issue.  
   
 So her screener emails back "As long as you're respectful".  
   
 Ok, really I mean this chick let a guy fucking choke her, spit on her and stick her head in a toilet.  
   
 And you are asking me if I am respectful.  
   
 WTF does that mean?  
   
 RT

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anonymousfun263 reads

She may let someone do all that for a porn scene but she doesn't want you to do the same to her and that is exactly what she meant.

Just to make sure you get it, that is all make belief just like there are Storm Troopers wandering the universe.

Some people are fucking dense.

-- Modified on 5/31/2013 2:17:36 AM

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