I saw this lady a few times and the first couple of sessions were out of this world on my next visit she shortchanged my time and I did not finish the deed. (Paid for an hr and she had me out in 30mins). I left and swore to myself I'd never see her again. Anyway, she keeps calling and leaves voicemail messages offering me all kinds of specials, I'm really not interested in seeing her again.  How would you suggest I handle this....I thought by avoiding her she would leave me alone but this has not worked.

She was probably just having an off day, we all have them and might not have realised what happend.....could either give her a second chance, or send her a nice little email explaining how you where kind of hurt because of what happend and that thus you would prefer to not see her again.....We are not phsycic, we don't always realise there is a problem so you need to tell us! It is very likely that she will try and make it up to you, or then again will just respect your wishes and ignore you Good luck!!

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Hookers and streetwalkers hustle..

Escorts dont !( nose in air ) or they shouldnt anyhow.

Tell her Ciara said that it is uncooth to call clients and hustle. LOL! If she wasnt shortchanging time and possibly compensating back half of the donation, she wouldnt need to worry and she wouldnt be hustling.

Answer her call next time and give her the what for !

Exactly what Ciara said!!

Or..you could see her, stay the entire hour even if she is trying to get you out the door and just pay her for 1/2 hour.  When she bitches about it, just tell her you were due a 1/2 hour from the last appt being cut short....smile, and go home happy.  HAH..cruel, I know..but hustlin is a No-No..

I never call any of my clients asking them to see me although I send emails to my regulars giving them private specials.

I would tell this woman why you are upset.  If you liked her for several sessions, maybe she was having a bad day or had a family emergency and wasn't thinking straight

good luck to you

As one poster stated, she could have been having a bad day when she short changed you. But her constant calls may be signs of deep problems like drug use. Use you senses when talking to her to determine whether she should be avoided or just had a bad day with you.

call her clients wihtout being asked to do so.

If not , It wasnt a bad day..
Hustling is uncalled for !

I think you are being hustled.   There is no logical reason to think you will be treated much differently the next time (except irrational hope), and every logical reason to think she regards you as a bit of a sucker.  If she had liked you, she would have treated you differently.

She may have had an off day, but I don't think that would not be the way to bet.

There are many other fish in the sea.  Why mess with one with bad chemistry?  I'm sure you get other spam; delete her posts and move on.

She knew what she was doing and now so do you. Since you've already sampled the situation and seen her near or at her worst, find some new honey who'll make you feel like a twenty something for an hour or two. You owe her nothing and going back she wins because she might give you an extra half hour after you pay for another full one. Remember, you cannot un-ring a bell. Bridges are easily burned in this facet of life and just like she does, learn to say "NEXT."

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You should have letter her know that you were/are unhappy about being short-changed, left unspent, and hustled out. Failing that, I would certainly say something the next time you talk. There could be good reasons. For example, I once arrived at an appointment to find that she had just gotten a call that her ex was unexpectedly going to drop her child off much earlier than expected. I got a quickie that time AND an extended freebie next time. She turned a nagative into a positive for me (and many return visits for her).

Anyway, you should let her know that this was unacceptable to you, and she should have the chance to remedy it.