Plus she got dinner out of it!
She was obviously lonely and you filled the void. She is probably grateful that you came by that evening.

ASSCLOWN ALERT!

Smile... ... doesn't change a thing. If you are what you say you are, you know what you did was assholish in hobby behavior. When you did it.

You know it's assholish now, as evidence by the alias. (Yes I use aliases)

I don't think you can expect several replies from non-aliases saying they've done this. Who would admit their assholishness?

Lastly, you didn't care then you were an asshole, and you don't care now, which is a characteristic of your...

You have the idea.


HH

What's it to you? Maybe it's my female nature Holy fuck!! Maybe I'm speedballin'

j/k FuDr!  (properly used emoticon)

I actually have no emotions about the assclown OP. How can you care about such a complete dick like that????

But I won't issue an ASSCLOWN ALERT without the angry face for the assclown, and then follow with the alert with the wink face for the board, 'cuz in general, the people here are great.

If I'm critical at an AC, which may include varying amounts of sarcasm, I might follow with a wink, which is used strickly in irony. After all, an assclown is an assclown is an assclown, and they don't care or can't understand other people's views and feeling.

My true mood is always at my signature:

 (properly used emoticon)
HH

which rarely changes cuz I'm one happy motherfuckin pussy-eatin' sumbitch.  (really)

Consider me guilty of sometimes using poetic license with emoticons! If they misconvey,then  my bad.

Besides, who want to listen to ol' HalfHour anywhoo... His posts are long, he writes like a woman and he has NO REVIEWS! LMFAO!

Peace, Love, Dope.


HalfHour

That's "game"??? Ahhahahahahahaha Ahhahaha Hahaha

Ahhahahahahahaha Ahhahaha Oohh hoo hoo hoo hooo uh huh uh uh  ahahah Hahaha  oh! oh!  aheee ahee  Ahhah hahaha  haha Oohh hoo hoo  hooo uh huhuhuh  ahahah Hahaha  hoho  ahee ahe  eAhhaha  hahahaha ha hoohahaha Oohh hoo hoo hoo hooo uh huh  uhuhah   ahah Ha haha  oh! nohohoho hoho  aheee ahee Ahhuhhuh aha ahaha  hahaha Oohh hoo hoo hoo hooo uh huhuhuhah  wooh hoo a whowho uh whohhooooh  aheee hahah.. aha hah aha..  ahaha Oohh hoo hoo hoo hooo uh....   uhuhah  ahah Hahaha  oh! oh! uh.. uhu.. uhhu huhu  aheee ahee
oh boy.

I haven't laughed outloud that hard in soooo long.

THANKS!


HH

Lets face it. Many hobbyists have no game whatsoever which is why they P4P. Most hobbyists would have been afraid to even sit down next to her let alone proposition her.
Everyone is so scared of hurting a provider's feelings and trembling at the thought of making a first move in person. That's pathetic.

You can continue your laughter, but you know I am right.

She knows how to say no. Just because you would have been scared and intimidated does not mean that other providers would be.

Solicit. WTF do you think we do every time we call a provider?

Say what you want. If the OP's story is true he got laid, had a dinner and not with a SW either.

I am truly amazed at some of the feminist replies by some of you guys. You act more like women then men.

I would never have to say something like that. In fact, in order for me to see you, You would have to pay me. So much for your theory. Pfffft!

I hobby for the convenience, and not out of necessity. You are therefor inconvenient.  

I had no intentions of hobbying for the week. I was at this convention for my job at this upscale Hyatts. The event was half a day, and every1 was dress up for the occasion. Later on the night, I sat at the bar trying to get away from the scene. I looked over, and it was this provider I immediate knew cause she posted on the regional ad boards. I did a double take, and knew it was her.

She was sitting at the sofas talking on her cell phone and admiring the event. I thought in my mind, now, what should I do? Do I even want to get laid tonight? I said, sure, hell, she's right there, and its so convenient. I went on my iphone and opened the discussion board up to verify that it was her. Face to face, body to body, it was her, and considering she posted in the exact location as she will be providing.

I opened the paged up on my iphone just in case she needed evidence. I walked over with my drink and sat very close to her. We made eye contact and I said "Hi". I asked her what she was doing around here and it was getting late. She said she just needed to get out of the room and see what the convention was about. After talking for a bit, I asked her if she wanted some company. She hesitated for a few minutes. Then I informed her who I was, cause I am notorious for my post. She looked at me for a second and was surprised.

I showed her the regional ad she posted, and sure enough she confirmed it was her. After she knew who I was, and informed her who she was. We both went up to her room and got our freak on. After that, we talked a bit, and I took her out to dinner.

I am sure that these situations are not uncommon, but its the first for me. Anything similar happened to you guys where you didn't expect to meet a provider but eventually did?

Do I detect a little boy scrambling to save face after making a fool of himself?

Lets face it. Many hobbyists have no couth whatsoever, which has nothing to do with why they P4P. Most hobbyists with a brain would nothave  considered to even sit down next to her let alone proposition her.
A gentleman isn't so scared of hurting a provider's feelings. No, he simply respects the lady and plays the gama the way it should be played. There is no trembling at the thought of making a first move in person. He just understands that approaching her like the OP did is pathetic.

You can continue to ignore my laughter, but you can see by responses that I am right.

You are funny! I am still laughing! Hoo Hoooooo!!  Ha Ha!


HalfHour

BTW, please please, please, please.... NEVER retire this alias!!

And use it ALL the time!

I really ENJOY the posts that are funny! From now on whenever I see Dollar-Shill, I will open the post and read with GLEE! I like you!!!!


HalfHour

"Convenience"?!? Oh god! HAHAHAHA Stop! haha STOP!!! You're killing me here! HAhaha!

Waaaaaaaaa haha haha hahaha hahaha Oohh! Ohh! ohh! god this hurts!!! hoo hooo uh huh uh uh  ahahah Hahaha  oh! oh! my sides, oh my sides!  aheee ahee  ah hahaha  haha ohh ho ho ho I can't breath! I can't breath! I can't breath! ahahah Hahaha hoho ahe he hahaha ha hoo hahaha ohh hoo hoo hoo hoo whoo whoo whoo whoo  o my god, o my god, stop  uh huh  uhuh  wooh hoo a whowho uh whohhooooh  aheee hahahaha hah aha..  ahaha Oohh hoo hoo hoo hooo uh. Teach me please! teach me! I  am nothing, o my god....  ho--o-o-o-o-o your sense of the absurd is sublime. I am in awe.

Is there any way in heaven or hell that you would take me under your wing, and show me how to be so godfucking funny? I'll do anmything you ask except gay sex.

I like to put humor in what I write, but I know now I am nothing. I am but a child with tinkertoys.

When it comes to funny, I have seen the FACE OF GREATNESS!  

It is the face of Dollar-Shill.

Please PM me. I vow to NEVER reveal who you are. I just have to talk to you.

I am not worthy...

forever your 'umble servant...


HalfHour
HH

I like to go down for a drink at my hotel's bar, too. If someone came up to me with their phone showing me a half-naked photo of myself I'd probably pull their hair. You should have emailed her. If she was gabbing away on her phone I am sure her email wasn't too far away.

After she knew who I was, and informed her who she was.

Who knows she may have forgot, good1 lol

You used your famous board persona to get a free fuck, surely you will at least write her a review!

what the heck did you think she was going to say when you shoved her profile in her face?

I'm sure you justify that it was a real smooth-ass suave thing for you to do since you got what you wanted...

But it's a bit too brute force and pushy if you ask me. Definitely not what most women would want.... drawing attention in a public setting.
f**in moron

or are you such a very important reviewer that she felt she couldn't say no?

this would never happen to me.

on the very few (2-3) occasions when i have run in to a lady from the biz (shared tastes in restaurants will do that) i've never troubled her in any way. if practical, i've even retreated.

just because a lady is in this business is no reason to expect her to be working 24/7.

If this is a true story, I'm surprised she didn't smack you and walk out. Like Katie said, you could have emailed her, or maybe even called her if her phone number was in the ads. You could have mentioned in the email or call, "I know who you are. if you want to meet I am in the bar, blahblahblah" Then she would have the opportunity to walk out and not look back, or to walk over and meet you, rather than you getting up in her face by walking up to her, with her ad on your phone etc.

Of course if you are who I think you are, this is a very typical post from you, except you are using an alias this time. Many of your posts have a possibility of truth, but are so far out there, that they are hard to believe and I assume you post just to get the reactions. And if they are true, then, wow, you have a strange and interesting life. If you are not who I think you are, then you are doing a fine job imitating him.

I am not going to question the validity of   your encounter. Whether   you  had an OTC encounter   with a provider or not cannot be verified. However, there are a number of protocols  and rules that you   ignored. Some members have already pointed them out to you.


1. Do not cross boundaries with a provider  in public settings. You do not  know whether she is at the hotel  to meet a client staying  there or if she is   with friends or a significant other. So my question  is, what was she doing at the hotel in the first place? Was  she staying at the hotel  for business or  for pleasure?

2.   If this encounter did occur as you claim, and if  it was off  the clock, then there is no reason to make it public for a number of reasons that i will not  go into detail. Off the clock encounters typically occur  between providers and their regulars.  From reading your post, I get the impression that this was the first encounter between you and  her. I can't imagine  a provider  who you have not met  before would offer an off the clock session off the bat to  a stranger regardless how well he is known in the hobby or how 'notorious' they are.  If it was not an off the clock session, then   as others have  expressed, you should post a review.

3.    As others have advised, you should have followed the protocols by emailing or calling her first instead of approaching her in a public space.

I went back and reread it and it doesn't mention pay. He should write a review anyway.
And I agree with Katiekatie and Fucking Drunk, that it was wrong to approach a provider in public like that.

Hey Halfy can you make up your mind about which emotional state you're in

Cuz I can't tell if you're mad at him or winking at him...
or smiling or laughing at him... lol

I agree that it was very assholish... and I'm sure he knows. It'll be funny if his alias is flipped just to show him what it feels like to have something shoved in his face unexpected and in public.
some people act so drunk even when they're sober.

Come on! It is in the unwritten rules. What would he have done if the tables were turned and she approached him in front of his "buddies"? It would be a whole different thread.

You make a good point and I won't argue that. If I recall correctly, she was sitting alone and not with clients or friends. If she were, yeah, that would be an entirely different story.

Like I said, I would not have done what he did but I thought it made a cute story with a happy ending for both parties. In this case, given all the circumstances and how it turned out, it appears to me, it wasn't a violation of "unwritten rules".

Remember, sweety, I said I WOULD NOT DO WHAT HE DID because my boundaries are in a "tighter circle."

Jeez! It's just an opinion. I'm not arguing this is how we should all act under those circumstances.

-- Modified on 10/29/2011 5:22:29 PM

Still, I'm guessing that shoving her profile/website in her face... in a public setting, bragging that he's "so and so TER handle who spams the boards" ranks up there with blurting out her provider name in front of her friends and family.  

Even if she wanted to spend time with him too, I would have taken a less intrusive approach.

In some of the previous incidents like this posted by TER members, one guy wrote that he met a lady he recognized... approached her, bought her a drink and gently asked "Do the letters T E R mean anything to you?".  I thought that was very smooth... very, definitely not intrusive as shoving a girl's TER profile into her face, lol...
Then again I'm just a fuckin drunk so what do I know.  

he has any hair left. lol

What will you do to a bald guy? Pull out his pubic hair?  

But yeah, the OP is a f**kin moron.... she's a moron too for awarding a moron with 'company' and dinner.

Maybe morons attract?? lmao

He used his board persona to solicit her.
He put her on the spot....
After he so suavely opened his iphone to reveal her ad, he mentions he is mr Bigshot on ter and and how can she refuse his royal ass?

I would love it if had played out another way.....He emails her..asks if she is available..she responds..says yes...he emails her back....and then surprises her with the fact that he is in the same hotel/bar and they look across the room and big smiles for both! Romantic and sexy instead of stalking and sleazy.

why should anyone be jealous of inferior taste, discretion and sensibility? what you call "game" others would call, crass, crude, stalkerish, sleazy and ungetlemanly.

of course there are streetwalkers and barflies.... have some game there.

You sound like the type that would do the same thing and think it is kosher.
You remind me of the hobbyist who meets me and then says, "Are most of the guys you meet as good looking as I am?"
Your egos need to be stroked more than your cocks!

because you are assholes. No lady could stand to be around you unless you paid them.

I can tell your mouth is bigger than your dick

Have another

Seriously?! She had an ad up she was working the area and didn't tell him to "scram" when he approached her. I hope if she did, he would have. I certainly would have excused myself if she indicated my presence was unwelcome. I probably would not have approached her if I were in his shoes because my boundaries are drawn in a tighter circle, but I wasn't there and if his version of what transpired is correct, it sounds like it worked out well for both parties.

I thought it was a funny chance encounter where both parties walked away happy. Cute story.

i was talking to SC not you, too

but it is a public board, no conversations are private. so let's let your hypocrisy slide....

the distinction you fail to grasp is that there are some men who are civilized and confident enough in their masculinity to approach a lady discreetly and with respect for her privacy.

then there are some "alleged" men who are so uncertain about themselves that they have to prove themselves by getting away with disrespectful behavior, bragging about it to stroke their tiny fragile egos, and get their shill friends to defend them on the board.

it isn't about masculine as opposed to feminine, it is about being a man versus being a boy in an arrested state of social development who touts to the board his pathetic "game".

he emails or texts her and she doesn't respond..... or even refuses before he reveals he is in the room. the egos of some of the Mr Bigs are fragile and delicate things and could not withstand such a shocking affront! LOL!

sleazy and stalkerish.... an apt desription, not to mention other adjectives.

is NOT game. It is much more intimidation / indirect blackmailing than anything. Know the difference.  

I wouldn't be surprised if she just played along so that she can draw less attention to herself and get them both the hell out of there as fast as she can.

On the other hand, if he DIDN'T shove her ad into her face, never mentioned anything about the hobby, and DIDN'T mention his TER handle... yet still got laid off the clock,
now THAT would qualify as 'game'.

Surprises me how some guys mistake being an asshole as having confidence & "game".

some of that with notsexy carolina Don't be greedy.

wtf is so difficult about that

If she gets up and bails on you.....whats your loss....really!

After reading the OP's story, I immediately contacted one of my friends who happens to be a LA screen writer.  After several hours of hashing out the story line and adding a scifi twist, we came up with what we think will be the next Hollywood hit.  We would like to offer "thoughtirecognizedher" a piece of the action as a professional consultant.  If you are interested, please contact me at: [email protected].  May the farce be with you!

I take reasonable precautions to keep from being recognized in public but if someone deduced who I am and approached me, I'd not care for it at all.  Besides, I sometimes play the pick-up game in the lounge with my date and someone approaching me in the midst of our fun would be an unwelcome intrusion - and a sure subject of a non-too-friendly discussion of that person's entire lack of boundaries later in the evening.

Even though it seems to have worked out well for this particular lady and gent, I would hope other gents show more discretion.

solution would have been an e-mail "I think I see you across the hotel lobby; is your calendar free,  or am I looking at somebody else?'  Gives her the option to discreetly check out the lobby & decide if she wants to see him & come back & say 'It's not me I'm at ____' if she doesn't want to see him.  So many possibilities he didn't take into account--she has another appointment in an hour, she's done for the day, etc.  He got very lucky.

Dear Ms. Cole:
Although you did say that you are extremely cognizant with you appearance and you modify you look in much the same way that an adult entertainment performer would as if she was attending a PTA meeting,what would be one of the first things that you would say with respect to them having that knowledge? Although you might not know their board handles and the person might not be a brazen with respect to their approach,what are some of the things that you would do to alert the participating community that there is someone who is not as discreet with those who actively work in the hobby?  Although you do take precautions as you said there is still the slight chance that you could be recognized,and it is something that I am sure that has been played in the back of your mind. This is something critical because the information they would have would be damaging and could be vituperative in other areas of your life. Keep on doing what you doing, but be prepared in the event that your "other" persona could be disclosed.

your tenebrous inscription which you have formulated which great scrupulousness and fastidiousness have administered a degree of exasperation which is foreboding a consternation obviating a unexpergated plenary cognizance and perspicacity.

it actuates a significant magnitude of cephalalgia and megrim.

1)  What would I say to someone approaching me in this fashion?
Likely something along the lines of : "I'm sorry, you must have mistaken me for someone else." I would then make myself unavailable for further interrogation/exposure.

2)  How would I alert people here that there is someone going around with serious boundary issues?
If I knew their handle (which, in this case, was disclosed), I'd let the ladies know that there was an issue with a gent and if they wanted his handle they could PM me.  Those who find this behavior offensive would likely contact me, those who are ok with it likely would not.  When other ladies bring up gents with inappropriate behavior/boundary issues, I always contact them so that person can go on my personal DNS list.

My life would not fall down around my ears if something like this were to happen. Being recognized by a TER member in public as a provider would not impact my 'real' life.  It is simply an unwelcome, gauche intrusion into my 'working' life.  Even if a TER member were to connect the 'real' me and the 'working' me and decide to out me to in my 'real' life, while it would be somewhat embarrassing (not out of my personal value system but because of the societal perceptions) it still would not have a tremendous impact on my life.  I answer to no one in my private life and my other business ventures are not dependent on a pristine public image.  I don't delude myself that those I do business with think my bedroom habits are an important enough consideration in our working arrangement.

People often spend an inordinate amount of energy thinking others (other than the SO or employment situations where a morals clause is involved) give 2 squirts about them/their image.  They don't.   It's a very free-ing realization to come to... What I do, who I am, how I dress, what I think is simply *not* that important to the world at large!  People are too wrapped up in what OTHERS think of THEM to care enough about what THEY think of OTHERS.  There are the self-appointed, busy-body, morality police out there... but in most any town over 100k, they have enough to occupy themselves with that they needn't bother with me.  I'm simply not that important.

meant to say that his gibberish is preventing me from fully / clearly comprehending WTF he's trying to say and that he's giving me a migraine headache.

Since you misspelled it it explained why I couldn't look it up. I had to reread your post I first replied to a few times but I got its meaning. I think you miss used a few words, but what do I know, it is not like I use them that often or ever. I try to avoid words I stand no chance of ever spelling correctly. Maybe when I start spelling and writing at a 6th grade level, I will work a few larger words in. I want to be cool like you and Duplicitouslust.

Shit. Doesn't take a fucking rocket scientist.

But then again, when you're as cute as I am, you're afforded certain things....