I understand basic reason for review sites - steering clear of LE, B/S and rip offs. However, I think many times reviews had made some guys lazy.

Many read a review and assume what happened with Mr. X is exactly how their visit will go. It never dawns on them that a lady may be willing to do more. Without knowing the background of the entire situation, on cannot complete judge the reasons behind the chemisty or lack there of during a session.

Things that change chemistry for me.
- A guy gets a glowing review from a lady with info about he likes X and Y.
- A guy gets a sketchy review from a lady about stange behavior.
- If a guy is late and pressing on my schedule.
- If a guy has poor hygiene.
- If a guy and I have had a lot of pre-session communication and already are somewhat comfortable with one another.
- If a guy shows up in a military uniform. LOL

I and many other ladies try to be fair, but when dealing with people every situation is bound to be different. So gentleman if you find a reputable and attractive lady, be sure to make it clear of your fantasy and wants. I guarantee the both of you will have a better time because of it.

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I'm not sure why you think reading reviews makes guys lazy. I think most of us who've been in the hobby any length of time, understand that good chemistry is always the key to any successful date. It sure beats the hell out of seeing someone without any reviews.

that should please a particular lady that would be possible is still no guarantee that good chemistry will result.

I have a single issue- that being that the lady also have a good time.   Not always possible... While I prefer GFE- I have had a great time with ladies who do not offer GFE... and I've run from the room where the ladies were just plain scary....

What I love is your second... thing... "A guy gets a sketchy review from a lady about strange behavior."  probably describes me... as you may know... we superheros are a bit uh... Bizarre... and while swinging from a rope while engaged in a heavy 69 and then dropping into a big vanilla pudding filled tub right a climax may not be for everyone... well you'll never know until you try it.  Course the smell of the pudding hides any offending odors due to poor hygiene...

It's not uncommon for a neophyte provider to get indolent in both service and marketing after a few flattering reviews have brought a friendly stampede to her door.

 After 3 to 12 months and the initial onslaught of baying wolves has subsided it is both creative marketing and consistent value that keep the provider's phone ringing.

that's why honest reviews are a must. I posted this a few weeks ago, but I saw a particular provider, partially based on her rievews. When we had our session, she didn't do several of the things the other reviews credited her with doing. I saw her a second time and mentioned the review that I had written. After we finished, she asked if she could see it. She also read the other reviews and said she didn't do a lot of what the others said she did. Both of my sessions with her were great, oh by the way.
jhb

First I would not say gentlemen are lazy using TER to find someone to spend time with. Many gentlemen do their exclusive search on TER while others search different sites looking at pretty ladies then doing a once over to see that their legit on TER.

In the old days you found and ad in a newspaper and hoped this was your lucky day. I believe there was a post about the old days and hobbying this week. It was a crap shoot to say the least. Many times you left and had to take matters into your own hands.

Why spend money on a hopeful when you can have a sure thing?

I have never had a problem with chemistry because I am honest and up front. It weeds out many misguided interpretations.

Now as far as a discussion of your fantasy before we meet or an e-mail about what should take place that is a big No No!

Sorry i'm no 10, i'm over 45 not a hard body barbie doll and I am very affectionate and kissable. Are you affectionate and kissable yourself? If not I don't think we would enjoy our time together.

Kisses Haley

I am new to TERs but have been a prov for a couple years..it was only recently that i allowed (take the word as you will) people i saw to review me...i say allowed because i gave what these idviduals deemed a good session and they respected my wishes..i have since had numerous reviews placed on TERs but up til recently it said that I swallowed, which was not true and has since been corrected...although I doubt he intended any false favor, i think he more just chose his words wrong...it did land many on my door step expecting the same & disappointed...i often scratch my head over things said in reviews because sometimes they read better then they play out IMO anyway and on occasion a session i have thought to be lacking a reviewer has stated to have had an amazing time..so i guess it boils down to us all having our own idea of enjoyment and diff tastes in what we find attractive and fun.....for insatnce "bob" had a great time and all was readily avail, so "tom" goes based on that and is given limitations...more often then not its because "bob"smelled amazing and "tom" smelled like dirty socks

There are idiots and experts and everything in between on these boards. I wouldn't classify us as all lazy. I check every lady who's ad intests me before I follow through with a request for an appointment. I know many of the reviews are fake -- TER encourages that by granting VIP privileges to successful fake reviewers. I expect my MMV.

As a military guy, I really don't understand this bias against us which I have found with several providers who won't see a military guy.

I think she meant it the other way. That guys in military get "special treatment" that others may not. Either she is "supporting the troops" in her own special way, or just gets turned on by the uniform.

At least that is the way I interpreted it.

You are right. I love a man in uniform.

Thank you for your note, that was very nice of you.