There are one or two traveling gals I always wanted to see, but never could interest them in coming up to the Boston area.  Now they've retired so it won't be.

If a gal is just being ornery and hard to get, I'd move on.

Lots of fishies in the sea.

(And some let you carry their eggs in your mouth if you don't eat for 30 deys. 8o)

There are good reasons to persist, whether you're trying to get a job, get a woman to go out with you, making the next level in a video game or climbing up to the top of  K2.  Many times, but not all, persistence will be rewarded with what one is after.  It's a great feeling.

Have you no self-esteem?

I will beg for pussy and I will pay for pussy.
But I will not beg to pay for pussy.
Words to live by.

My persistence lasts all of two email attempts. I measure "persistence" in hours or days, you measure it in years or whenever Haley's comet comes chugging around the bend.

The post wasn't inspired about my experience, but I did include a personal example.    

I make my pitch.  I feel I have a lot of the right things to offer (specifically cleanliness, reliability, safety good money, and great references).  If she's not interested that's fine, and her right, as last I looked there were about 12,000 providers listed on P411 so chances are someone out there will want to connect.  I don't get a lot of 'no replys' fortunately but for the ones I do, I forget them almost as fast as they forget the pm I sent them.  

Nothing irks me more than someone who doesn't understand the word NO! Rejection for whatever reason is a part or life it's how you deal with being rejected that makes you a better person. IF the door gets closed, move on, it may not be for you.

I've had a woman tell me she wouldn't see me simply because I post on the boards. I respected that and never contacted her again, nor will I.  

on p411, it would seem off to get hyper focused on one that says no. I know for me when they are too persistant, I get suspicious, If i am not available, and no ads are up , yet this guy is calling daily, I wonder , why doesnt he just call some one similiar to my ratings and looks, of which there are tons,,  

3 trys, then move on if your scheduals cant mesh

Not. Begging is unbecoming of a hobbyist who has been around as long as you have.

This is a good question. I have to say, I think persistence can often be confused with stalking. I don't mean for this to sound harsh, but if a man keeps sending me emails to meet and I have not answered there is one of two reasons.
1. i did not find him to be an appropriate match ( although I would tell him gently)
2. I am busy

You should consider saying "yes" every once in a while or is it that your customer base is saying "NO"?

I don't care if the guy is a newbie or has been around for decades.

Thank you for minding my business! Lol!!! I keep plenty busy in my area and it's not up to me to press out my wonderful gents for reviews, whether they are a new client or repeat, you guys do what you want anyway. IF my reviews bother you or if I were such a horrible provider don't you think someone would have pulled my plug on sucking and fucking for cash by now??? And everyone is quiet...

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She has my email, she'll get back to me if she wants my business. I sure as hell would never attempt to contact her again if she stated she did not want to see me, that's insanity, and if I don't hear back at all I'm not offended, this is not dating. After all, I met my ATF when something else fell through and I took a chance on the girl with one review that the agency had available...in that instance, moving on paid off big time.

Absolutely.  C'mon.  All it takes is money, being clean, and being respectful.   And have enough self respect to keep looking if at first you don't succeed.  Challenge yourself to find someone even better than the one who doesn't call you back.  They're not that hard to find.    

Typically I would just move on. One was hot enough and had a pile of outstanding reviews. I would not try to contact her daily or even weekly. Maybe once a month. Usually when I couldn't set something else up. One night I texted her thinking this is a waste of time and BAM she got right back to me. After meeting her she revealed that was part of her process(for whatever reason). I have seen her several times since and she always responds quickly when I contact her now that I am a known quantity. If she had ever told me she wasn't interested then I would have dropped it.

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i send a request. If I don't get a response I try again the following month. If I don't get a response the 2nd time I move on to someone else.

As inicky pointed out above, begging to fuck is just fine. It's begging to pay to fuck that is pathetic.

Look at the market that she is in. She should have plenty of reviews and traffic. She has ads and throws herself out there on threads. Obviously the both of you are not starving, but lets not insult my intelligence or diminish yours.

DO you want to check my pussy meter to verify what??? You can always backchannel and PM my reviewers and ask them if they've fucked me... Whether I chose to have 1 or 40 clients in a month, does that mean I am more or less of a provider??? I am not getting your point.

Even you got it because you answered it. Yes, I do go to DC but I don't see fat girls (not even free civvies) so you will never have the pleasure of my company. OTOH, for a dinner ONLY you can send me $500 and I will dine with you for an hour.

While I am oddly attracted to assholes, your attempt to go out of the way to try and attack me and get all up in my business was genuinely NOT sexy. You made your point to say you would not be interested in me based on your perception of attraction, fine, but why are you interested in how I keep busy and where my recent clients reviews of me are??? Hmmmm. Something I've said must've gotten your dick hard, I couldn't see keeping a thread pissing contest going with someone I could give two shits about anyways. Unless you are truly that unhappy and need to get laid... I am assuming that is more than likely your issue...  

I am not selling my body, so I don't need to resort to such measures, but perhaps you should give it a try. As far as you getting my dick hard, I may as well dip it in a bucket of ice. Same effect.

...I get a decent amount of business from P411/Date-Check guys and various board lurkers who don't review, I get found through internet searches (a lot of those guys are not reviewers either) etc. It doesn't matter what you believe ... is what it is

I don't know why this concept is so foreign to some guys. Not every guy likes to kiss & tell