I just saw a highly rated girl twice in 1 week and I needed a couple of days to recover.  I'm in my mid-30s and don't have half the drive compared to many fellow hobbyists.  

On the one hand you'll find the guys like fish and CDL who believe that a lot of rest, staying well hydrated, yada yada yada  is the secret, while OTOH you have guys like me who believe "moderation" is only  drinking half the bottle of tequila on a typical Tuesday afternoon and that staying "well hydrated" remembering to order a "water back" with our whisky "neat" lol

Needs to be on the girl because, as you say, I don't have one.  The more she is into it, the more I will rise to the occasion.  

I live a pretty healthy lifestyle. I hit the gym 6 days a week and alternate strength training with interval training. That along with a clean diet have allowed me to stay active into my 60's. Of course, when I was younger, I wasn't as disciplined and still had a high sex drive. I do think that heredity influences this.  

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Yes, I'm a big proponent of rest, but that is also to recover from my gym time.  I'm 58 like GaG, and if you add fucking three or four times a week to an average eight hours at the gym, you ARE going to need a full night's sleep.  You should also get fit.  GETTING fit will take more of a time commitment than STAYING fit.  If you can bench press your body weight, you will find you won't get tired in any of the usual sexual positions.  Fucking is about abs and upper body strength, so you should concentrate your workouts there.  I walk briskly several times a week in connection with my work, so I don't have a pressing need right now to add extra cardio.  Cardio becomes an issue during sex when your muscles tire because they're not up the stress you are asking from them.  Also, holding your heart rate down during sex will make you last longer before popping.  Once you start wheezing from the activity, your body's genetic reflex is to hurry up and finish so that your seed may be planted, so PE is often associated with being out of shape.  

Thanks for the reply GaGambler,  

"If you can bench press your body weight, you will find you won't get tired in any of the usual sexual positions. "

I think the relative lack of sleep could be a symptom of your anxiety and not a root cause of your lack of libido. Lack of libido is often a side effect of excess stress.

my analysis to say either lack of sleep or Low-T.  For me, not getting enough sleep is the most noticeable.  In fact, I put forth a substandard performance yesterday with one of my regulars because I had only gotten 5.5 hours of sleep Thursday night, and then had a late afternoon appointment with her, so I was pretty well shot already when I walked through the door.  Fortunately, as a regular, she knew I was just having an off day and was capable of better.  

If I read it correctly, It's not getting tired "during sex" but his relative lack of a healthy sex drive that's his problem.

What most guys said here...

I responded more specifically, but he has taken it down again, along with my response to it.  

I did not remove my responses but did some editing and now they won't get published after saving the edits.

Much less have the "ability" to do so at my "advanced age" but all the way through my forties I not only had the ability, but I actually did exactly that on a not infrequent basis.

Or were both visits "one and done"? Or did you unload on her 3-4 times per visit?? You're kinda vague here...
So I don't know what to tell you...you seem to get some sort of exercise. I guess your diet is "Ok". But if you smoke, I'd quit that. And if you drink excessively, I'd watch that also..I don't care what Gag says..
But you did mention one thing, anxiety. That's could be a deal breaker to a degree.

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I'm in my early 50's. Sure my Sex Drive isn't as frequent as in my younger years. I take about a week in between my playtime to get re-energized. I don't take any supplements or Viagra. I just let my urge happen naturally  

Two visits were less than 48hrs apart and 90 minutes sessions with 3 pops in each visit. The second visit I was a little more rested and the little guy was up and did not get flaccid for easy 40 min even after the pops. I think I have to manage my anxiety a little better which also is accompanied by stress.

I do have anxiety that usually brings stress when it starts acting up and lately my anxiety is noticeable with work related stress. I am definitely going to talk to my doctor about this with my annual checkup.

powdered kind and rub it on your dick, or stick the whole root in your ass?

Then, in my opinion you sound OK, yeah you'll need time to recover. I really don't see why you're tripping over this.
2 days, 6 "pops"....sounds what about right. Don't kill yourself over this.
But do try to control your anxiety,,you don't want a stroke while you're in missionary mode...jus sayin

With modern technology, we can probably get a good growth right on your body and the ginseng juice will ooze into every nook and cranny. You'd might have to increase your outdoor activity or put a "grow light" above your work space.  If the ladies ask if you are manscaped, you can tell them that you are all natural.
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And you can trim the excess to sell at the Farmers' Market or sell to the Chinese Apothecary to pay for some extra hobbying.

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I'm acutely aware of medical conditions and medications and their effect on performance .    

3+hrs commute for work?  Minimal sleep?  Throw in some anxiety (probably work related???) and you are one exhausted dude.  

I'm in need of a makeover anyways.

And I'd highly recommend seeing a Endocrinology Dr because your family Dr probably is NOT up to speed with the subject and all the variables that could cause low testosterone.

I eat healthy most of the the time and physical activity at least six days a week.

I think you are 100% right. Once all of the construction goes away my commute will go back down to 2.5hrs and still exhausting. I gotta figure out how to keep myself from burning out.