"I challenge you to distinguish a naked prostitute from any other naked woman."
-Henri Leclerc

and the powers that be don't cotton to that

Hollywood and your local news are two of the biggest culprits for cultivating that image.

During sex, regular civies can be as kinky or even more so than some of the best professionals, the difference is that when sex is over and normal life resumes, civies are still there, become needy, and exercise their exclusive rights of endless nagging, while providers on the other hand kiss you goodbye, hope to see you some other day, and get on with their lives.

This works out much better

She married s guy who is a total jagoff. She told me she didn't like him. Then 9 months later they are married. My sister calls her " the prostitute ".

The reality is that everyone makes choices based on a variety of factors.  

Especially today when hooking up for the night is not only a norm but also an expectation a civvie girl to me is no different to an escort in terms of upholding moral values. It's just that with a civvie you have those "what ifs" that the hobby prevents with the review system so you can actually have fun without worrying the girl is crazy or trying to have your baby IF you do the proper homework!

If prostitution were legal then all the wives who are sexually abusive to their husbands, or who never want sex, or who don't care enough to try and make the sex reasonably satisfying , or who deny their husband of basic needs like simple human touch -- they would all be scared stiff because they know how easy it would be for the husband to go elsewhere for his needs.

I also think there are people who sell their souls for money. I honestly think the green fence puts a boundary between soul selling and ownership, (a reason I do not do OTC or discounts).

It's not just escorting that people have a negative view towards.  

I share parts of myself with guys here and out there who I find worthy of it, but I 'sell' my body here for the most part. All the other stuff just happens when there is a connection or at least a friendship that forms, but there is always a line. Hell, I had sex with a guy for over a year and did not feel shit, then one day... BAM. The difference here is the payment for on demand sex... it's a guarantee that real world sex does not offer.

Knock off the bullshit Rayne.  

Don't get me started on selling souls.  I know too many guys who sold their souls to women (almost always civvies) to get a piece of ass.  These include siblings, best friends, and lesser acquaintances.  Some found their soul mates, but more others not.  I can only play the game the way that best works for me as it rolls out in the current moment, and there have my share of glorious wins, and crushing losses.  It is what it is...

ALL folks PAY for it everyday.Trade services for service.I think folks talk out their asses on this subject.NO difference.Prostitution No strings attached business.Paying for escorts time and services.

view on prostitution and prostitutes.
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There are TWO people in a marriage and where the wife in some might be a douche for cutting off her husband, there is a percentage of husbands who are not fulfilling  wife's needs either. Maybe he has dropped the ball on things she needs to get interested in sex or him.  

So many people here "speculate" on how things would be if prostitution were no longer a crime. There is no real need to speculate when you can simply use other countries who have already done so as a template.

and you don't "sell" your body, you "rent" it.

But I think men would still need to get a job, house and car.  

Once a guy figures out that all they have to do to get pussy is pay for it, they no longer do incredibly stupid things just to get the attention of a woman. I no longer "jump through hoops" in either my whore mongering or civvie sex life. There is simply no reason to and what's really ironic is that women respond favorably to that attitude. It's easy to exude confidence when you are getting laid everyday, it's quite another matter when you have blue balls after not having been laid for over a month.

Ms. Rayne, would you say that it was psychologically and emotionally necessary for you to develop a compartmentalization in order for you to function in the business for a considerable period of time? Also Ms. Rayne I dare say this is the way that you enable yourself to accomplish your financial goals for yourself and your daughter and keep you distance away from people so that you can function as a person and as an escort.  Although you might connect with some clients on a social level, I know that you made a pact with yourself a longtime ago to keep it light and professional.  You might have a modicum of feelings for them as a person but you do not get to close because I know that you don't want anyone prohibiting your freedom as a woman or as an escort.  I am sure that in the past that you have terminated your professional relationships due to the emotional direction that the relationship was attempted to become navigated.  How ever those that have mastered the emotional compartmentalization and see it for what it is are your cup of tea.  This is one reason that you have an age limit because at least the older men see it while a younger man does not have enough experience in these situations.  You know that they are fragile and you don't see them because of the potential harassment that you can incur as well as the lines of the relationship getting blurred.