if you think this guy's cheap for only paying $300, then you're gonna run me right outta here! for the short period i was seeing a young provider (19), we only did overnights and she only charged me $150! of course there were stipulations: she didn't drive so i had to pick her up and take her home. also, i either paid for dinner and breakfast or cooked for her. she said she really felt comfortable at my place and slept very well in my bed. we never went out besides shopping one time. i think she just really enjoyed being away from the hectic life at home. so if you want my opinion, go for it man. what the hell do you have to lose? just make sure she falls asleep before you and don't leave any valuables out in plain view.
I saw a provider the other day in my area and it was my 3rd time seeing her. I paid her for a hhr but she wasn't able to get me off during our time and I didn't want to be rude and compromise her time or the the time of the other girl she was working and sharing the hotel room with. Because she has seen me before and we do actually enjoy each other's company(she asked me if I wanted to do something with her outside of the hobby after our first visit) I asked her if she could cut me a deal and asked her how much to book an overnight with her. She paused and thought it over for a moment and told me she could do it for $350 and then I negotiated it down to an even $300. She told me that she normally does overnights for $1200. Her normal rates are $150/hhr and $200/hr. I guess in light of this I have 3 main questions:
1. Is this real or was she just saying what she had to say to get me to leave her incall without incident?
2. What is the normal flow of events for an overnight session and should I expect less than what is normally offered because of paying such a discounted rate?
3. If she is willing to offer me this do you think I am in danger off crossing the line of p4p relationship into something else?
*Ok sorry and one last bonus question...WOULD YOU DO IT?
She must be coyote ugly or very desperate to do an overnight for $300. I can almost guarantee you that she snores like a freight train.
Would I do it? Probably not unless she sleeps in a spare room.
She probably left town today, or won't take your call. She had to get you out of the room some how.
....either way, I don't think it would be good; that is, unless you are looking for more from her.
She either screwed you or liked screwing you! You be getting a real GFE treatment soon! Heh....
Dani
My guess is anyone who offers you an overnight for 300 fits one of 2 situations: either she really likes you and is looking to change the status of the relationship, or (more likely than you might think) she doesn't do overnights. You could well be the 1st one. Lots of providers don't, either because they have childcare issues, or their general clientel aren't in to overnights (especially those who do a lot of 1/2 hrs), or she doesn't trust being alseep in the same bed with a client (a very big reason for a lot of providers). From what you say she trusts you, likes you, but you may still be the first O.N., even though she says "I usually charge 1200".
Either way, I think you were a bit cheep to negotiate down to 300. That would be a good deal for 2 hrs at a normal 200/hr rate. There will be a lot who disagree, but I'd give her at least 400 whether she asked for it or not. Several reasons. You obviously enjoy her company because it'll be a 4th visit with her. She may well feel taken advantage of if she wakes up and realizes 300/night is absurdly low, and feeling taken advantage of doesn't lead to good sessions. Sometimes no more sessions.
Also, if you're worried the deal is "too good" and her way of pushing the P4P line closer to the BF/GF line, it will push that boundary back a bit.
What's different? It's usually more like your real GF who lives in a different state flew in for a weekend to visit you. Maybe some "hi, glad to see you, it's been too long" sex, dinner (in or out, how good a cook at either of you? Probably should make it at a nice place given the price for the rest of the entertainmemt), maybe going out. Back for round 2. Or 2 & 3. Listen to some music with a glass of wine. Some sleep. A long, leisurely session in the morning. Maybe a shower for 2. Breakfast, again in or out as appropriate. Eventually good bye.
And if it was a good overnight, spending the rest of the day with a big grin.
Would I do it? Hell yes! But I'd give her a really big tip.
Was she trying to rush you off? She gave you the full time you agreed to so she didn't "owe" you anything. It's very possible she or her roommate had another appointment they had to get the room ready for, but that is not their fault, your 30 min was up.
Would I do it? Hell yes! But I'd give her a really big tip.
Alfred Reader,
I think that you may have given the most probable answer. The first time I saw her she claimed to be "very new" to the business and that I might be true because like I posted above she asked me if I "wanted to do something outside of this" meaning the hobby which I don't think is very normal and not usually how my sessions end. She also made a comment that "Oh my God you're nice looking" which could have been part of the service I paid for but I doubt it after having more conversations about her typical clients which I am not in age, race, or in the other area my alias suggests. Also she is in town visiting from a nearby state so maybe just wants to have some "extra fun" or a "fling" during her stay IDK. I know she is dancing at a club in the area as well as providing in-calls. As far as me seeing her several times she does post on BP and is one of those that uses fake pics but is normally "hotter than" or "just as hot" so after the first session that I really did enjoy I was suprised to see her standing behind the doors for our most recent ones. After the session where we negotiated the o/n price she sent me a sexy pic mail photo to my phone of herself for me to keep which was nice and has my number saved in her phone with my name followed by Big D LOL. As far as those that say the price is too cheap or that I should give her a tip, I would pay her more but I just lost my job and that is the real reason why I'm more hesitant on jumping on this deal than thinking it's too good to be true. My guess is that she was willing to do the overnight because yes she does trust me, she thinks I'm cute, wants to spend a bit more time with me other than a rushed 30 min probably won't go more than two rounds which would be expected in a discounted 2 hour session like you suggested.
Either way, I think you were a bit cheep to negotiate down to 300. That would be a good deal for 2 hrs at a normal 200/hr rate. There will be a lot who disagree, but I'd give her at least 400 whether she asked for it or not. Several reasons. You obviously enjoy her company because it'll be a 4th visit with her. She may well feel taken advantage of if she wakes up and realizes 300/night is absurdly low, and feeling taken advantage of doesn't lead to good sessions. Sometimes no more sessions.
Also, if you're worried the deal is "too good" and her way of pushing the P4P line closer to the BF/GF line, it will push that boundary back a bit.
What's different? It's usually more like your real GF who lives in a different state flew in for a weekend to visit you. Maybe some "hi, glad to see you, it's been too long" sex, dinner (in or out, how good a cook at either of you? Probably should make it at a nice place given the price for the rest of the entertainmemt), maybe going out. Back for round 2. Or 2 & 3. Listen to some music with a glass of wine. Some sleep. A long, leisurely session in the morning. Maybe a shower for 2. Breakfast, again in or out as appropriate. Eventually good bye.
And if it was a good overnight, spending the rest of the day with a big grin.
Would I do it? Hell yes! But I'd give her a really big tip.
Was she trying to rush you off? She gave you the full time you agreed to so she didn't "owe" you anything. It's very possible she or her roommate had another appointment they had to get the room ready for, but that is not their fault, your 30 min was up.
Would I do it? Hell yes! But I'd give her a really big tip.
Dude,
Run liked the wind...
if you think this guy's cheap for only paying $300, then you're gonna run me right outta here! for the short period i was seeing a young provider (19), we only did overnights and she only charged me $150! of course there were stipulations: she didn't drive so i had to pick her up and take her home. also, i either paid for dinner and breakfast or cooked for her. she said she really felt comfortable at my place and slept very well in my bed. we never went out besides shopping one time. i think she just really enjoyed being away from the hectic life at home. so if you want my opinion, go for it man. what the hell do you have to lose? just make sure she falls asleep before you and don't leave any valuables out in plain view.
1. How long did it last (Or is it still going on.)?
2. If it is over, how did the ending go?
Kudos to you if you beat the odds and made this work.
2. If it is over, how did the ending go?
Kudos to you if you beat the odds and made this work.
it ended a few weeks ago and i hate that it ended badly (posted story on here when it happened). its hard to not develop feelings for someone after spending that much personal time with them. but hey, it was fun while it lasted!
Even Ernest Hemingway said that all affairs end badly, and I'm sure he knew what he was talking about; but I don't think that stopped him from going to the next one.
Despite all the talk of NSA sex we make on here, more than a couple of relationships I've had in the hobby have ended on a sour note too. I'd hazard to guess that there will be a few more.
It's just the nature of the beast.
I would be a little worried about getting ripped off if I hosted her at my house. Not big ripped off, just little things going missing.
And put me down in the group that thinks negotiating her down to $300 is beyond cheap. She offered you a deal that was TGTBT, and you had to cut a better deal??? I suppose you could say you would take her up and offer her $400, but that just makes you seem like a total idiot.
Have fun and let us know how it goes.
Zig