Usually about five days out.  My ATF is UTR and my other fav is very low volume so there is really no such thing as "last minute" with either of them.  That's OK by me, I like the anticipation factor...

and when I can actually show up on her doorway. That's one reason my ATF is my ATF; availability on short notice.

(Here comes grandpa Abe Simpson again.)

you had no choice but to see someone on the spur of the moment.  You called and if you were lucky to get someone to answer the first question was always "How soon can you be here?"

Now I always plan a week or more ahead of time and I do like the anticipation that comes with it.

Hooray for the internet and email.

(Maybe we should change the name from hobby to Goreby to honor the internet's creator? And I don't mean that Russia guy with the big spot on his forehead.)

Scheduled a couple days ago. Always puts me in a good mood for the work-week and day. Does anyone else like the extended anticipation or prefer to do last minute "I need it now" visits?

will schedule something.  Usually done about a week or so in advance.  Yes, it is great as the anticipation builds to "game day".

The anticipation can be pretty cool, especially with ladies that don't mind a little e-flirting beforehand.  That usually happens with ladies I've met before....

But I found two things wrong with that. First, the canceled appointments really bugged the hell out of me. Second, a lot of things pop up at the last minute (and no, I am not talking about anything in my pants) and I was always missing certain providers that I wanted to see who were working on a very different schedule.

So now, I have this mix of appointments scheduled out a week or two, and last minute stuff. Right now I am on a little break before a trip with a number of what I expect to be spectacular providers scheduled  for a week or so in the future, and I am letting my mind wander. You can tell when that is happening by my shit-eating grin.

Zig

I see my ATF almost weekly.  The glow from the time spent together gets me through 2 or 3 days following the visit and the rest of time is spent anticipating the next visit.  She also engages in e-flirting about a wide variety of subjects.  This whole set up just puts a spring in my step.

Ironically my ATF couldn't make the appointment at the last minute so I'm going with a new girl. Ah, the best laid plans of mice and hobbyist aft gang aglay! Still, I'm up for whatever and have a totally new kind of anticipation now! Gotta love this hobby.

The anticipation is great, I like emailing back and forth a bit, flirting and getting to know each other. It's a great feeling to meet someone and feel a connection rather than being nervous about who might be on the other side of the door.

Mr.Fisher - Goreby made me laugh!

I don’t know that far enough in advance. To schedule a week out is impossible for me unless I ignore my work.  But Anticipation still is there when I start planning who to see.

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Never having hobbied in my home town, I always book a date at least a week to month ahead of when I will be in a particular city.

Which brings up another question - how do you feel when a provider cancels a couple of days ahead of time and gives you a list of ladies who would be glad to fill in for her? I think that adds an uncertainty factor, which can really get the juices flowing (if you appreciate rolling the dice.)

To answer your question, the anticipation is a great feeling, and stretching it out over days or weeks builds it to a fever pitch. Anticpating a date with my ATF is even more special, because I have seen her enough times that my visualization is very, very good.

good luck

Nah, had a good time. ATF next week. It's all good.