Since I personally do not like to read long posts, I will keep this short. I have been officially separated now for many months. I would not say last night I set out to have a date but while my "wife" and I have been dealing with problems for quite some time, we each had friends that we talked to. One of my neighbors was one on that short list. I invited her over for a casual dinner and relaxation by the fire pit on the patio.  

Sorry.  Couldn't help myself.

Sounds a lot like your ape ATF.

First of all,f course you got aroused passionate kissing and hugging should lead to being aroused.

Does she know your wife? Are you legally separated? Any chance you want to marriage to survive the separation? Dating a neighbor can get really messy right now.

Pull the damn trigger and see a lady in the biz that will stratify your need for intimacy with NO messiness (hopefully).

Steph xoxo

Dinner to the accidental bump was simply center cut pork chops and the sides with a $25 bottle of wine in which she had two glasses. Once the cuddling began the rest of the bottle was consumed so let's go with a rough estimate of $48.12................

No worries Steph,  

But nothing wrong in receiving some unexpected pleasant surprise..

beautiful. Thank you for sharing.  
We are all people here with feelings, unless of course you're one of those who prefers a cyberbot, which I suppose, some do here lol. I think it's just a copout personally from dealing with true human emotion.

It is indeed about the journey, which is why I have not pulled the trigger yet in this world. Well I guess it is not the only reason but a major part.  

Two isn't always better than one.

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan

But nothing wrong in receiving some unexpected pleasant surprise..  
   
 Its not like he kissed her husband for crying out loud......

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Now that you've posted a mini, Are you going to post a TER review?

This post sounds like the opening act, of a Lifetime psycho-drama-mentry

Interesting that you are posting on a forum in a world that you don't technically participate in...yet.  
Why is that if I may ask?  

legally separated, not trying to see if marriage can be fixed, wifey lives out of his area.

It makes less likely for a disaster except for one thing. if he takes it to the next stage with his neighbor it might get complicated if her intentions and his don't match. Then he's living near a woman possibly scorned.

I've found that people going through a divorce are not in their right mind for about a year AFTER the divorce is final (me included). They often look back years later and think, "WHAT was I thinking doing THAT?".

But he can just "party on" anyway he chooses!

Steph

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I have no participated as of yet because I was married and although not happily for the past year or so I was not willing to step out. I am legally separated and we both agree we like it this way and do not want to get back together. Being married for over 20 years we know each other very well so the chance is slim we will get back together. I am not one to say never but is as close to never as it gets. Although I am legally married, I am no longer committed.

Even now almost 12 hours later, we have had no contact. I of course have no idea what she is thinking and I know last night could have been brought on by mutual attraction and perhaps a little wine but....... We shall see but for now, it was a fantastic evening that I will always have no matter what.

The shooting and tingling were amazing. I can't begin to say how stimulated emotionally and physically I was. I am actually very happy it never went further than it did. It was a great evening.

Just be on the level with her, etc.

Thanks for sharing this.

Now that you state that you are separated from your wife, I guess I can't go down that road.

My advice is live your life the way YOU want to, none of our opinions here, including my own, are really that important. Enjoy the moment, I mean WTF, enjoy all the moments that you can, life is too short to have regrets about "what could have been"

BTW P4P is not for everyone, if you find a "special" woman that makes you feel like a kid again, there really isn't any need to fuck hookers just because the rest of us do. BTW Don't read this as me having any second doubts about P4P. I absolutely LOVE fucking hot hookers, but I am a shallow pig who isn't looking for anything deeper in my life. lol

But a word of caution...

What leads you to believe he is looking for a steady traditional relationship?  

Speaking for myself only I did not plan for this to happen at all. Is she beautiful? Yes indeed. Is she intelligent? Yes Sir. ....... To answer your question at this point all I can say is I am finishing this conference call and then going to call her to simply say thank you for a great evening. The flow of the conversation will steer us to see where it goes

he's already put forth the time and the thought process process prior to leaping. I think he's good. And that's if he ever does. He doesn't need schooling from this peanut gallery on what to do or how to live his life. He seems pretty together to me.

Finding someone special, even in extreme and stressful times, gives a new reason to live, to keep going. People still need each other.

That means it's time to RELEASE THE KRAKEN, er, CUDDLER

You are a man right and it's nothing wrong with having sex with this lady!  
The two of you are adults and sometimes in life we all get a second chance at something.  
So it's clear the both of you, like each other.
If you moved on from your wife and like the neighbor, then see if it's worth it long term.  
I hate to tell you, you are not getting any younger and you are getting another shot.

pee my pants almost OMG...hilarious. I could almost hear you saying it. hahaha  

Knew you couldn't stay away!

puller hahahahaha. Yes, I can stay away and if you read my post before having them pulled you would've read my comment LOL. Oh geez, some things (ahem people) never change.

a very sweet 'welcome back'. So thank you lol (I think).

These things take time to sort themselves out.

All I suggest is that he do it in such a manner as to minimize the downsides of affairs.

You have to crack a few eggs to have an omelet.

I tend to forget that the majority come here to have an affair.  

the monkey house hasn't changed much... and the inmates are still running the asylum.

But I'll let it slide.  I mean why in the world would anyone care if your posts stay up?  Oh, I forgot, about the whole Minnie Mendoza thing.  Gosh, as soon as you come back you immediately set to work lowering your batting average.  I wonder if it's possible to have a batting average that's a minus number? LOL!
You are the gift that keeps on giving.
Now play nice!  We've had a surfeit of BSC girls on the boards and who needs a crowd?  Not looking to start any trouble, you know.

But I only popped in to say hello real quick. Primates (in that sense) kinda scare me these days so I'll be leaving before they start cornering me in that cage again lol. That wasn't very nice I'm afraid. But a good and hard lesson learned..i think lol. But on a brighter note, the holidays are coming up, so I do hope everyone remembers to give love, peace and happiness, to their fellow neighbors, loved ones, co-workers and fuck buddies (of course) this beautiful holiday season.

But I was only speaking of the post now silly, not sure what your talking about Willis.  

Isn't that why you wear depends?

Bye Nick.  

Figures you'd give a crap.