I have noticed there fairly good amount of 10 "Once in a Lifetime" ratings in reviews. I consider 10 ratings to indicate perfect and indeed should be "Once in a Lifetime" experience!

For example, if a lady get a 10 rating in looks she should be one of most physically attractive women on this planet. You shouldn't be able find any women MORE attractive than her, at most another women could be "as" beautiful as the 10 rated lady.

And if 10 looks, is followed by a 10 experience it definitely better be out of this world. One of those rare moments of heavenly bliss that can't be ever beaten!

Honestly, I have noticed some reviewers give a lot of 10/10 ratings. Could all of those 10/10 truly be oh so perfect? I know people have different ways they judge sessions, so reviews can't be taken for granted.

I am starting view review with skeptically, especially when I see 10/10 rating. My expectations for those once in lifetime experience is very high and I have feeling some of 10/10 rated provider would end up disappointing me.

Here's the link......

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=545697&boardID=12&page=2#545697

in appearance, but wtf...get a dude drunk, and shit happens lol. I will say I will NOT ever do bbfs, privates to privates massage, or lick your ass for a 10 in performance, so it is what it is. Read the content vs. the scores.

There are women who seek out only clients known for giving high scores, so do the math. I really don't have that much freaking patience...just show me the money!



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As London said, there is another post below talking about the same thing.

when you use your TER handle as a reference and the provider knows who you are. Generally, people don’t give bad anything when they know the other party knows who you are.

Self promotion is abundant in reviews so can pretty much deduct 30% to 40% easily. I have spent time with some 9 and 10 rated providers they are not even close. Then there is classic excuse, it is the chemistry stupid and if that doesn’t work, use your mileage may vary.

Okey Dokey, amateur psycho analysts and WH are welcome to blast away.

By your definition, there should be only one 10/10 in your life, and the only way you can truly give that 10/10 is if you wait until you see the last provider you're ever going to see and then you'll know which one was your 'once in a lifetime'.  Of course by then, she's long retired and the rating does no one any good.

A second option, which nobody has the time for is to re-review every lady based upon your latest experience.  So let's say I see Provider X in May and she's 'once in a lifetime' up to that point in my fife, and then I see Provider Y in June and she's equally as good or even better, what I would need to do to conform to your review standard is re review Provider X so I only have one 10/10 in my portfolio.  That might be easy if I only saw two providers a year, but if you see 20, it could be a part time job and highly impractical.

So Option A is never give a 10/10 unless you're certain you will never give one again.  Option B is give 10/10s when appropriate, but constantly re-rate the rest of the ladies you've seen OR there's Option C, which is the existing review standard.  Give a 10/10 when it's once in a lifetime at that point in your life. It's not like you can't PM me or any other guy and ask for additional details to help you make your choices

As for your lofty expectations, be prepared to be disappointed.  My 10/10 and your 10/10 will always be two separate things because as I mentioned in the subject line...People are unique and each experience with a lady is unique.  With that said, I have yet to be with a lady that is consistently rated 10/10 and not walked away having had one of the best experiences of my life.  Might I give her a 9?, possibly, but I have yet to find one that I would rate lower than 9 combined, and if you are taking the reviewing scores literally (which you seem to like to do), then you'd know that 9 is still pretty damn good.

This is all subjective, so it's impossible to analyze this like you would a financial report or statistics of any other objective data.  Your 10/10 may be based upon the fact that this week you like three breasted midgets with green hair* who can speak Klingon and next week you'll like red heads--and that's your 'once in a lifetime'  Next month you may be totally into Greek and the three breasted thing is the farthest thing from your mind.  All three of those would be 'once in a lifetime' at that point in time, and would likely disappoint several of your fellow hobbyists.

Read the 10s with a grain of salt and do a little research to dig past the numbers.  Then you'll soon find you have the same problem as I have in discerning which experience was truly 'once in a lifetime'. Of late, I have enjoyed several oh so perfect moments that have been better than anything I've ever experienced before this year, so yes in some respects these are all once in a lifetime.


* If you are reading this, you know who you are... quit stalking me

Rest you can figure out.

This topic has been discussed many times, as have the reasons for it, but it seems to be a trend shared elsewhere in society. As always, let the buyer beware and do his homework. If a 7 is now the new 5, which should be average, just adjust all other scores accordingly, find an 8 or above, and have fun.

i have a very different but similar approach to this subject..i purposely book some of these 10/10 girls to see what the hype is all about..i have found out through research it is deserved almost every time..i have a session booked in 2 weeks with another hottie..i just want to see if 55 out of 60 guys are wrong..odds are i wont...

I agree and that's what make the scores flawed.  And also makes things like this happen:  you walk up waiting to meet a 9 or 10 and she is chubby/fat and looks nothing like her pictures.   I always consider this when I wrote reviews.  I have had women ask me to tove the reviews.  They know I only speak the truth and the facts.  Beauty is in the mind of the beholder.  I get that....  But over weight is over weight.  Looking like a model is looking like a model. If it smells like a fish....,  its a fish!!  You know what I mean ???

That's what I do and I take it one step further.  I PM the reviewer and ask them questions on the side where they can be open and honest.   That's what works for me.  After being surprised too many times by a chubby 6

We know it happens, but I wonder just how often.

Momma always said, "Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder"

A note on self promotion...I do have to chuckle when I read my reviews...the guys are nice enough but there is almost always something about how big their penis is or how well their performance was...little details are amplified to make themselves look good.  No worries, it just cracks me up.

Newbs tend to see reviews when getting started in a much different light than they do once they have been playing a while.

But you still have those "veteran" guys who just will give anyone breathing 10's...and you're now seeing that those types of reviewers are simply not taken seriously.

I still find that seeing a pic of a gal that I find interesting....contacting some recent reviewers, or just putting it out there for others who may have seen her is the best way to gain the info I need to make a decision.

Too many fuglys get 10's...and if you write that review on her..you will get attacked by her and her WK's.

Stick to the back channel and you'll find that your sessions will generally be with who you thought it was going to be with.  Not some 10-15 year older version and 25-50 pounds heavier of what some reviewers claimed she is...or her pics and website.

would not be welcomed back for giving a less than "high" score?

 This insanely corruptible numeric scoring system has been gamed by the surreptitious savvy, and inflated by the amorously infatuated since TER began.

For eons men have tried to avoid the "Do I look ****** in this dress?" or "do you think 'she' is pretty?" question. Now we must assume that $$$ is going to moot and assuage all traces of female ego, self confidence, or homicidal tendencies?..................

Not on your fuck'n life!

I am not talking about the scores, but overall. If a guy dogged me out, why would he worry about whether or not I would "welcome him back?" I have plenty of guys who only gave me 7s, whom I still see lol. I will take your damn money!

Momma was right, it brings out your natural beauty....lol.

I add bonus points for a pretty kitty.....lol.
As far as performance, i give em a 9 for getting my wiener hard and a 10 if i pop.....lol.

And I have met many who share your cogent, balanced, pragmatic sentiment on the appearance score. But just as there are those who pressure out of venal profit motive; there are also the self image diluted who take great indignation at an 8 in appearance; let alone a "7".