I'm about to go eat lunch. When I'm done, I'm going to ask the restaurant owner to write a review on me.  
After lunch, I'm going to get a hair cut. Afterwards, I'm going to get the stylist to write another review of me.
Makes about as much sense as yesterday's thread.

It's not like it's a new idea, it's one of the most beat to death topics we have here, almost as bad as Dick size threads and "I've fallen for a provider" threads.

and every time one of these tired old subjects gets rehashed the person that brings it up thinks he/she is the first to think of it.

So maybe your analagy doesn't quite hold up. I think the ladies having a forum to provide honest feedback about guys is important to their safety.  Perhaps to some extent it already exists on the provider boards and blacklist sites. I don't understand why guys are getting so worked up about this concept.  

If you didn't give the provider a second envelope during an extended date because you ended the date early… you'd get a review, underground… for sure. Those reviews are to tell other ladies to get the money up front just in case the guy decides to have you set aside three nights (and reject potential dates) and decides to have you leave early, so thinks he doesn't need to front the rest.

We also have to be careful who we communicate with via email because guys have 'white knights'.

I wonder if I can use Natane Marie or College Bad Girl for a reference

But then again, all the ladies I've seen have genuinely enjoyed my company. And it's not because I'm an especially great lay, just clean and easygoing. What's up with the thin-skinned dudes on here? Haven't you ever received a performance review at work? It's not a big deal if you can take a little constructive criticism. Besides, you might actually learn some game if you could get an idea of what a lady's preferences are.  

If you screen and find out that your potential client a)pays the full amount, b)has good hygiene, and c) will not abuse or disrespect you....then please tell me what more you could possibly want?

If you are getting a job performance review at your job as you mentioned, then I assume that your company is paying YOU to perform.  Most bosses I have encountered do not give two fucks what your review of their running the business is.   Yes, there are exceptions to the rule, but usually the bosses write the reviews, not you the employee.  This hobby is slightly different than the every day job, but the same holds true.  I, the hobbyist / boss, compensate the provider for her performance, and yes, on occasion will post a review of her performance.  

It's not performance, it's experience, character traits, expectations… more a guide to help other providers know what to expect, and if they want to follow through.

Sounds like you have come across some losers in this line of work.  I am sorry if that has happened. However, it still makes no sense to me to post reviews of clients. I have to agree to disagree with you on this.  I guess I just don't get it this time.

enjoyed your company ? They enjoyed your money. I'm constantly amazed the men that think these young 20-something hard bodies really enjoyed going to bed with us old farts.

"how to get the most out of your provider"

By writing my experiences down on my blog. Though I don't disclose any personal information so I guess it's more of a private review. But what I have done anytime someone asks me for a reference is tried to be as descriptive as possible. Not the "he's great, go for it", but more like "he likes to kiss a lot so make sure you're up for that", or "he takes a very long time to cum, make sure you've got some energy."

Sure, this is a business and the providers should approach it with some business-sense, but it kills a lot of the fun to have such a business/transactional mindset. I feel like I'm just paying to skip over the tedious stuff, and she's free to take it or leave it.  

I agree with what you are saying.  But you can accomplish all that in emails, pm and the provider only board.  Providers that are bringing it up here have not come up with a valid reason that makes any sense to me.  But you have come closer than most, I will give you that.

Yes, you have made your point.  When you create this site, drop me a line and I will make sure to check it out.

This hobby to me is different than the usual business world, but part of this scene is being friendly and personable.  Fulfilling the fantasy is part of the providers performance isn't it?  I also know that with no pay, there is no play.  Put whatever spin on it you want.  I can see that you are having a good time, as am I and all the other hobbyists here.

Yes, as long as it's nothing vicious I don't think there's anything wrong in women being able to say, hey this was my experience.

Maybe for you but I'm not an old fart. I'm actually in my 30s and can pass for 10 years younger both in appearance and spirit - "spirit" being the operative word here. So yeah, the 20-something hard bodies truly do enjoy my company because I can relate to them without condescension and they appreciate the experience and maturity I bring. I have a 55 year old friend who works at a University and the co-eds love to party with him all the time because he is such a fun person to be around. People who act like old fogies are depressing

You should write it up and ask for it to be added to the Newbie Instruction Manual. Seriously.

why do you have to pay for it then ?

Discretion seems to be a top reason...the gal shows up and more importantly leaves with no issues.

OP made no sense, so I didn't read any replies.....C'mon guys, post something that means something.

why are you? you can't really think all escort clients are old fat and stupid, unless you are Fido's new persona? many guys from all ages, races, professions and caliber seek out escorts. we don't pay for sex.. we pay them to go away when we are done. dumbass.

Is it a silly thread? Yes. But is it any worse than the usual drivel that get's posted here? I think it's better than the standard dick size, where should I come, shaved or natural, implants or not, and why no black men threads.

We have damsels in distress aka hobby wives, lol.

The short answer is the obvious one: I'm married. P4P offers less potential for complications. Also, the providers who excel at this are a rare breed, indeed - totally worth every penny.

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I mean, most providers ask for references before agreeing to a first appointment.  When I've asked some of my favorite providers what happens when they get an email looking to get the "juicy details" on me, I'm always told more or less the same thing:  "I always say, 'Yes, he's nice/ok/clean, the right amount of money was in the envelope, he's fun, have a good time'".

How much more does any provider need in the way of info on potential clients than that?  Clients don't really need to "work" to push themselves from an "8" to a "9" or "10".  I mean, that's what the money's for, isn't it?

If I worked on my appearance (or even my "technique"), how does that help me?  Is a provider going to give me a break on her rates?  I'd kinda doubt it.

Yeah, there should be a shitlist so that providers can avoid the guys who are deadbeats, time-wasters, etc.  Besides that, who cares about this stuff?

But the experience could be enhanced by knowing stuff about you. Do you kiss a lot? Do you talk dirty or stay silent the entire time? Are you an ass man? There's many things that you do that you may not necessarily disclose before a meeting.  

a)pays the full amount, b)has good hygiene, and c) will not abuse or disrespect you.  

Is he rough?