Sure, when you are talking about extreme situations (bed bound people) it it will become an issue.

In my personal experience, gentlemen with extra weight tend to be very very particular about state of their hygiene.

But then I may be one of those lucky ladies who is yet to post "ewwwwwwwwwwww it was so nasty" posts :_)

Lina

A thread on the Newbie board on showering brings me to a related question: Can excessively overweight providers (BBW's) AND hobbyists really get clean?  Some (men and women alike) are simply so obese that their hands will not reach all the places they should reach.

I dated a BBW several months ago, and, while it was a good session--and I'd like to repeat--it was clear that she was not all the way clean.  So, I stayed away from DATY, etc.

Is there a diplomatic way to handle this, once in session, or must one simply ignore it?

Gross! I would never ignore it! I don't care who it is, guy, girl, fat, skinny, if you stink, you are going into the shower! And yes, the bigger the body the harder it is to reach some parts and wash them, but there are ways around it and there is no excuse for showing up dirty,

Lots of soap and a long shower will allow just about everyone to be squeaky clean.  Any who not were negligent.  I'm not obese or overweight, but your question seems denigrating to those that are.  Not surprising that you posted under an alias...that seems to be norm these days...

just kidding. lmao

I haven't had the pleasure of 'dating' a bbw but how about booking a little bit longer and ask to take a hot bath with her then?  

Totally dipping oneself in the tub and rinsing sould get to all those cracks and stuff,
at least in theory. lol

There were a couple of slender ones I had some concern with, however.

I think if anything a BBW might go the extra step and be sure she is squeaky clean.

It's really an attitude issue, not a weigh issue.

I have found in my experience that gents that are overweight are very conscious about being clean.
But,if you encounter someone who is not suggest a shower and jump in with her/him
I do not equal being overweight to they will have a hard time cleaning themselves.
In fact,the few times I did encounter someone who was not fresh they were not overweight at all.
So,I really don't think weight is an factor on how a person washes their ass.

my friend wears a size 11. the comparison factor is probably in his favor

calm down sweety n have another cold one.

Let me qualify myself. I weigh more then two MP67's. last I weighed in I weighed close to the 385lbs. Trust me when I say yes it is harder to get clean, but there is no excuse not to be so. Being extremely large means I have to wash between more folds and more surface area. We also sweet more. Some areas are harder to wash, yet they can still be washed.

It takes me a bit more then an an half hour just to shower but I have never had a woman complain about my cleanliness when I am expecting an intimate encounter. In fact several ladies had made it a point to complement me on how clean I am. Washing to the point of cleanliness is possible at almost any size, if the person is willing to put the time into it.

Ball shaving is anther matter. I have to go get waxed as reach and difficulty seeing it make shaving just to difficult.

And no I never put my weight on a lady. Most women couldn't handle it. My goal is for both the lady(ies) and myself to enjoy the session as much as possible. Being crushed is not most people idea of enjoyment.

I can reach my ball. How do you think I wash them? Shaving requires more then just being able to reach it. Easier and safer for me to pay to have them waxed.

Yes I know, your questions was meant more than an insult then real questions, but I thought I would play along. Being a fat tub of lard I learned to not be bothered by those that are so insecure as to need to put me down based on weight. My value lies elsewhere.

Must be a real douche bag to make fun of someone who puts themself out there and answers honestly, like Scoed did.  
Bet the ladies LOVE you and your kindness....

This board is filled with so many personal attacks and foul language (both supposedely against the rules), that all I have to say is that was very well handled!

Can we all get in a collective whine about attacks that don't concern us?  Scoed knows the drill, which is that if HE is bothered by the post, all he needs to do is tell me and it gets yanked.  He knows how to reach me here, by email, and if he put 2&2 together, he could probably get my phone number.  I'm comfortable saying that HE doesn't have a huge problem with the post, given that he used none of those methods.  Instead, he fought juvenile posting with responsible behavior.  Novel fucking concept, huh?  If more people followed that approach, maybe the boards would be like Disneyland...the happiest place on earth.  Will that happen?  Not likely.  People would rather bitch than grow up.

Ooh. Did I say that outloud? lol!

Dammit. Swear to God I'm gonna kick your ass. You just, grrrrr. You fucking piss me off.

Little Phil. I'll hold him down, somewhat, and would you PLEASE put your size 10 upside his head? Fuck!

Sorry Phil. Didn't mean to hit a nerve

Basically I am in agreement with you that he handled a juvenile post with responsible behavior. I was just trying to compliment him because I don't see that much here, and I do wish more people followed that approach. (Not that it would ever turn to Disneyland haha) Maybe I should have left out my little sentence in parenthesis. Didn't mean to hit a nerve with mods. I generally think you guys do a decent job and realize you guys have to balance keeping things civil and at the same time trying to keep the boards exciting, esp with all the complants that the boards are dead. (yes, I'm asskissing now) I don't normally post in a thread that doesn't concern me or that I have nothing to add to. Hell you are a moderator, you know I don't normally post at all. But I have been hobbying since before the providers I currently see were even born, and I have been a TER member since TER was in diapers. I was just trying to give Scoed an "attaboy", and maybe I said too much. I will go back in my lurking cave now. Peace.

Thanks, Mr.F.,

I'm somewhat overweight, and always make double sure I'm clean.  I just had a session with a provider--whom I liked, otherwise--who seemed like may not have gotten to that 100% clean.  That's why I raised the question.  Seems like asking for a joint shower is the best policy, if it becomes apparent in session.

Any post about the issues of being fat is always a set up when you are fat. MP is a good guy as you likely know, if you are who I think you are. He and I are cool. And if we are comparing shoe sizes I am a 12w.

People have been asking for older chicks then I normally post. Here is a nice MILF for you. It is from allover30.com. Don't know the models name but she is hot.

"washing between the fold" - I think that's a very accurate description if yo u weigh 385 lbs.

...for many years as that is my personal preference or type so to speak.  I can say from extensive experience with large gentlemen that they are just as concerned with cleanliness as anyone. I'd go further to say they generally spend more attention on their hygiene and appearance than the thinner types.

The funkiest moments Ive personally experienced with a gentleman were both with athletic/thin guys but that is my experience and cannot speak for anyone else.

As for a providers cleanliness, she shouldn't be a provider if she isn't taking a full "inventory" of herself before every single session.

just my .02

I'm sorry if this has been covered.  Just where does one get their balls waxed?  And doesn't it hurt like a SOB?

"Just where does one get their balls waxed?"

There is plenty of places that offer this. Spas, salons, that offer waxing often do. I go to a place that specializes in waxing. Please make sure who ever is doing it has plenty of experience waxing male genitalia. Not all place that offer waxing will do male genitalia. It will cost about $50 to $75 dollars and takes about an hour. I get it done every two weeks.

"And doesn't it hurt like a SOB?"

It does hurt. It is a lot like removing a Band-Aid from a hairy area. There are solutions to reduce the sensitivity. I hear tattoos hurt more. Over time the hair grows back thinner, sparser and slower making it hurt less and reducing how often it needs to get done.