OK lets talk about the fetishes. You know the things that people do but don't really admit to. I'm talking about the ones that people will say "oooh! That's sick!" But in reality have probably thought about or tried themselves. Let's list a few and discuss them.

1. Watersports. Ok some people like to get peed on or they like to pee on others. Does this turn you one? Does it make you sick?

2. Fisting. Can you wrap your head around this one? Does putting your whole hand in a gal get you going? I have done this a few times and to be quite honest have had some amazing results because of it. What do you think?

3. BDSM Does roughing it make you wet or hard? This seems to be the most common of the edge fetishes. All the Doms or the Subs of the board speak up.

4. Double penetration. Have you ever done a session with another guy and DP'd a provider. Providers have you done this or have a fantasy to let it happen? Does the thought of crossing scare you? lol

There a are a few others but you get the idea. Time to chime in and let us know what you think.

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

Before we get started, I just saw a new pic of yours, and may I be the first to say Wow! Now, on to fetishes. Have you ever heard the term vanilla lover? Well, that's me. All the things you've described make me squeamish. I'm much more into pleasure than pain. My Dad was a giant of a man, and when I got caught playing nasty with the neighborhood girls, he drop kicked me around the living room for awhile. My memories are of the pleasure with the girls, not the feeling of that giant boot crashing into my ribs. Although, an atf once whacked me on my ass with her hand in the throws of passion, and I was surprised by how much I liked it. But she was into doing wild things only once, so it was never repeated. I could never bring myself to hit her on the ass.  

I have a lot of sexy thoughts, but they're more fantasy than fetish. For example, if it's something you enjoyed, I could kiss your pussy for hours on end. But if it was going to make you uncomfortable, I couldn't do it. Pleasure wins over pain. Oh, btw, I'm quite sure one of the reasons I inhabit this hobby world is what I learned from my father. Keep your sexy thoughts and actions a total secret. That must be my fetish.

1.  I do love watersports, mostly receiving, but I'll give as well if the gal is into it.

2.  Not for me thank you.  I'm yet to meet someone who wants to receive, but if they did, I'd consider it.

3.  I do like to receive pain of a certain type.  Lashes and crops are my weapons of choice.  Also certain types of pinching and squeezing of the back.  I have one gal who enjoys being tied up now and then and I am glad to do so, but it's nothing elaborate or dangerous.

4.  Nope.  I guess I'm a bit too homophobic for this.

Food sploshing is my other kinky inclination.  Also any kind of sexual contact with creamy or gooey substances.  I'm very tactile.

Thanks for getting my Monday off on the right foot

1) Nope.  Does nothing for me.

2) Nope.  Does nothing for me.

3) Some sensual bdsm with the right lady is fun, but I'm sure I would be considered very vanilla by most kinksters.  A little restraint, some spanking, paddling, flogging, and some domination play that's about it.  I'm usually dominant but sometimes let the right woman show her femdom skills just to switch things up.  Get it? Switch.  

4) Nope.  I'm all about MFF, but MFM - not so much.  It's not that I am homophobic - just selfish.  LOL.

I absolutely LOVE DP! It's a complete feeling of euphoria to me and loss of control.  Now the loss of control brings the bdsm into play once I get to know someone really good, a good sensual rape ROLE PLAY is awesome!  I love fisting but it has to be someone that's an experienced fister.  I lover fisting a few of my girlfriends too. So hot!!!!! Yeah this stuff is really fun indeed
I'm not into water sports but the other stuff you mentioned are things I really enjoy.
Hugs and kisses
TL

It's just so wonderfully WRONG.

I have a few fetishes. I will admit I am a pervert. I will first talk about the list you shared.

Watersports- I haven't played that way. The thing is Watching a woman pee turns me on. It is on the naughty side but peeing on someone seems too disrespectful and I have zero desire to be pissed on. Watersport porn does something for me. I would say I am "watersport" curious but it isn't a fetish and it does have a  "oooh! That's sick!" factor that keeps me away. But if it is someone else seen I get it.

Fisting- No thanks. It looks painful and if it is big enough to hold my fist it is too large too fuck with my micro dick until ti shrinks back to size. No thanks. Not condemning those that like it but definitely not for me. The porn is even a turn off.

BDSM- Yes please. I am a switch and enjoy being both the top and the bottom. I like impact play, temrature play, bondage, slave role play, electric play and sensory deprivation as long as not with bondage. Those two mixed has brought unpleasant flashbacks that is a hard line. Strangely the porn does nothing but the real stuff hell yes. I only do this kink with the wife. One day I may play with a pro.

Double penetration- I have played that way. My wife enjoys it. We have hired a gigolo to be the other male. I am not into anal so he took that side. Not my scene  but if it makes my woman happy I am game. I have zero interest in doing so with a pro and the porn does nothing. The thought of sword crossing is a non factor. Will not pay a lady to share her.

Now we covered your list here is a few more.

Food play- My main kink. I love it. I love watching it. I love playing. I love everything about it. I have mixed it with BDSM. I have done sensual wrestling is kiddie pools filled with pudding. Nude pie fights. Ate meals my partners skin. Been covered head to foot in food and have been licked clean and have done so with more than one partner. Yes I pay this way with the pros. Great fun and my favorite kink.

Role Play- Yes please. It is fun. It is flirty. I like it. I have done: superheros, master/slave, street walker, medical role play and more.

...I'm just a boring vanilla romantic type.

Hello there Ms. Leila Lovely (and all),
I am submissive (a slave, really, because there is a difference) in my life outside of this profession. I have a necklace I wear as a "collar" outside of the bedroom, as well as a bracelet and ankle bracelet, which are all trinkets of ownership. They're all actually quite lovely. Anyway, being a submissive has actually afforded me some of the most exciting and illuminating sexual experiences of my life! There's something almost...primal about it all. I'm actually not submissively inclined in my daily life at all...I have a bit of a disobedient streak and I have a problem with authority. But with the right person, it's easy to take orders, and it actually pleases me to obey him just as much as it does him.  

Concerning "roughing it" (I love it lol!) it is most certainly...arousing to put it nicely. Of course, it's never so rough that it's unsafe, but as a submissive, finding and pushing one's limits for pleasure and discomfort is definitely a turn on.  

And with DP...my Master and I have agreed that it would probably be insanely hot to try during a session...all blindfolded bound...that's good stuff lol.

Kisses,
Marley

From the time I was about 12 years old, women who smoked cigarettes turned me on for many years but as an adult not so much. I hate the smell of tobacco smoke and the taste of a kiss from a woman who smokes.
None of any of the other fetishes do anything for me.

I enjoy receiving a golden shower. There is nothing like a long, leggy woman standing tall over you. Showing off her long, muscular, powerful legs. It starts with a dribble and turns into a torrent as the warmth of her golden nectar washes  across your skin.

It's even better if she gets the kink as well. Holds it well past the point of being uncomfortable and then unleashes it on you.

I have only given once. The lady suggest a return. We chugged a couple of diet cokes and had a pee party in the tub. Good fun and we both took it in the face. Yum yum.

I do have a very healthy appetite, but kissing, fucking, giving and receiving oral, and the occasional trip, very occasional trip to the Greek Isles pretty much round out what gives me pleasure. I do enjoy the occasional threesome, or even a foursome, but I have a rule, only one dick in the bed. I too am too selfish to share, and when doing threesomes I don't really need or even want the girls to be into each other, I want them to have to share me. I don't want to have to be sharing them. Yes, I am a selfish pig, a vanilla selfish pig, but a selfish pig nonetheless

1. No, not my cup of tea, but I'm not grossed out by it.

2. No, not my cup of tea, but I'm not grossed out by it.

3. Yes, I'm exploring my Dom side a little, but more of the Phsycological aspect and not as much of the punishment/physical.

4. Yes, I've done this with a provider and another Hobbyist. I crossed it off my bucket list, but I'm not all that into Greek so it was more of a novelty.

I grew up in Amsterdam and Germany and therefore experienced wild kinky fetishes that most Americans would be shocked existed...Kinky play and fetishes is what I enjoy the most...I believe you'll never know until you experience it...Some are extremely arousing, some just fun...its who you play with that makes the experience fun, and memorable, someone who is really into it ...Its another dimension to pleasure, sensations of pleasure and feelings of joy you never knew existed and then before you know it.... you want more...And sometimes as some of my guys will tell you, its just fun to try!

1.  Haven't done the watersports thing yet... but there's a local provider who apparently has some real expertise in the matter that I have thought about engaging for that purpose.  However, the scenario has to be right..... Two words - Jacuzzi Suite...

2. Fisting - lots of fun with a girl who's a size queen - and can physically handle it.  You want to see a serious screaming orgasm - eyes rolling back into her head....  

Haven't received and have no interest in it.  Turns out after some experimentation with providers that I am really not into direct prostate stimulation - so that's sort of out for me too.  

3.  Dom side for me so far.  Nothing like face fucking a girl who's up for it.   Or restraining her, using a hitachi on her clit to make her come while being sodomized...  Rough to a point - but controlled.

The sub thing might work - but it would have to be the right scenario.

4.  DP - tried it but was not successful.  The mechanics of it are tougher than it looks in the movies.  In this specific case, when one went in, the other was squoze out... so I am guessing that both guys have to be "men of steel"... DPP is actually a little easier - BUT you have to be over the whole sword crossing thing for it to work... obviously.   If you have homo-panic issues (and many guys on this board seem to) then MFM is probably not for you.  I am secure in my relentlessly heterosexual orientation - but giving a woman (especially a professional...) a serious workout sometimes requires help.....  

One of these days, I really want to try a four girl party with a wingman.  Another interesting variation of the MFM is to do a standard double with one of the girls using a strap on or an MFL.   The two of you dom the girl - requires girls who are really into girls

Water sports give and receive, I'd rather give.

Fisting dosen't excite me.

BDSM I like spanking bottoms, and face slapping.

DP not interested, but I'm open to it.

I've never participated in scat play but I wouldn't mind seeing two hotties go at it live. Although I might be sickened by the experience.

I often laugh at BP ads that say "fetish friendly" all of the above are fetishes

My own preferences are for pleasure rather than pain.  That being said, I have done one MFF three way in my life and enjoy finger fucking vaginas, both as a prep for sex and as a auxiliary to a nice long DATY session.  I've never done a whole fist, but have been in with 4 fingers while massaging the clit with a well lubed thumb.  It was hot as the gal came and spasmed over my hand.  She returned the favor with a wonderful bbbj.
I've never been too into analingus. Had it performed on me a few times (without me asking) and found it OK, but not thrilling.  While I love to DATY I don't really go in for licking a gals asshole.
I would probably go in for a MMF as long as me an the other guy were both at opposite ends of the gal, or at least in different lower openings.  Not interested in double vaginal, rubbing cocks with another guy doesn't turn me on.

And calling it "squirt" doesnt make it any less disturbing.

Its still pee. I am 100% certain.

Not soooo much 1 & 2....  

Mistress Gemma in DA House!!! Woo whoo

That's my idea of a good time.

I am on the same page as you!

Pleasue
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Pain

xoxo,
Ms. Leila Lovely

I have a friend who actually ENJOYS it!

XOXO,
Ms Leila Lovely

A lot of the crazy sexual things we do come from EUROPE! lol

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

When females "Squirt" majority of what is coming out is PEE!!!

XOXO,
Ms. Leila Lovely

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it your "Fetish"!

It's considered gay!

Is this even a fantasy...

and I like two women at once, so of course I would return the favor and do a mmf...as long as the swords don't cross, of course.

I would never do a mmf, but I will do two women, and it's not that I am homophobic, I am simply too selfish to share, so sue me.  

Actually I don't even want the women to "be into each other" so much as I want them into me, so can you imagine me sharing a woman with another man? lol

Years ago I had a GF that, one fine night, kept telling me to put another finger in, until I was in her up to my wrist.  Yes, she came, forever it seemed.  And yes, it was a huge turn on.  We tried it a few more times but it never worked out as well as that first night.

Another memorable afternoon was with a close friend and his wife, she took us both and I don't know who enjoyed it more.  I'd happily do it again.

A recent date with a provider ended up with her standing over me, masturbating and squirting, and that was the most exciting thing I've had done to me in a long time.  Now, if someone wants to tie me up...  

Then consider me "gay" because it is fucking fantastic!  Especially when she sucks on my balls and strokes my cock with her other hand while she gently massages and plays with my prostate. Feels like I done died and went to heaven.....

I suggest you try this "gay" activity, JD, because you have no idea what you are missing out on! And if you are too big of a homophobe, I am LMAO at you for living an unfulfilled life. (And by that I mean for you never having a lovely lady slide a finger up your tightly puckered ass.)

Been really interesting reading what kinky freaks everyone is, or isn't LOL. Ok, here goes.

1. Something about watersports seems completely disrespectful and degrading to me. So I find it a turn off. On the other hand, I love watching cam girls masturbating and squirting all over the place. Was once with a provider, and while doing it doggy, she squirted all over me, and I have to admit, it was a huge turn on! So having a chick stand over me and take a whiz, no. But squirting while busting a nut, very hot . I know, everyone says squirt is pee. The scenarios just seem very different to me. And I would get nothing from taking a piss on someone, and though I may oblige a lady if she really wanted it, I would feel pretty stupid doing it! Scat play? Forget about it. Gross. Yuck.

2. Was never with a lady into fisting, but have to admit to a curiosity watching fisting porn. Have NO interest in someone trying to shove their hand up my ass, thank you very much LOL!

3. I'm into sex for pleasure, so I'm guess I'm a wuss when it comes to BDSM. Just not my thing. I was with one provider who was into aspects of this. She liked to lay on the bed on her side and have me fuck her mouth while she masturbated, occasionally throating her and choking off her air. Was a huge turn on for her. She also liked to choke and be choked. Nothing too hardcore, just putting our hands around each other's throats and squeezing a little. Spanking to. Me personally, I'm not into any of these things, but with her, they all seemed to occur naturally, with no awkwardness. So I guess you could say she expanded my horizons sexually speaking, which I think is pretty cool!

4. Have not participated in a DP, although I think the porn vids are hot. Was approached once about a MMF with my ATF. The gentleman sent me a PM asking about it. Said it was a fantasy of his. My ATF wasn't interested with this particular gentleman, but I told her if she was approached by another client in which this scenario interested her, and she needed a male counterpart, I would be down with it, so long as the gentleman understood I'm not bi-sexual. Have thought many times about doing a DP with a provider using a dildo as the other "male". Have yet to fulfill this fantasy, though.

Thanks for the great post, Leila! And you certainly are lovely, btw! ~~~~Rob