I'm a newbie -- first time ever, got together with a provider last weekend in London.  Saw her four nights in a row and then on the morning I had to leave, the provider came over on her own and gave me a freebie, anal no less, as a goodbye.

Does this happen much??

I doubt this happens terribly often...but I think it's common enough for a lady to reward a particularly good client.

~ N

send me checks to "stay away!"  

You the man!

Yes, seeing a provider 4 nights in a row is unusual, but not unheard of. She must have assumed that you were on the Buy 4, Get 1 Free plan.

Dmerkin, in the early 1970's I had my first plane ride.  I had recently graduated from college and was flying to Dallas to see my best friend who was in the army.

For some of you young guys, stewardesses back then were all movie star beautiful and this trip was no exception.  There was one very tall incredibly attractive brunette that I found was just stunning.

Being tall myself, I had been lucky to get the first seat behind the bulkhead in coach which allowed extra leg room.

During the three hour flight, this attendant came by often to make sure I was OK.  As the plane began its descent into Dallas, she sat down in the vacant center seat next to me and introduced herself.  She asked if I was going to stay in Dallas or was I getting a connecting flight.  When I told her I was going to be in the Dallas area, she asked how long I would be there.  She then told me she was based in Dallas and did not have another flight for four days.

Now here I am, a 20 something guy on my first flight.  All I could think of was "Wow, these airline stewardesses are sure friendly."

It was not until I met up with my buddy and told him what happen did I realize the opportunity that I had allowed to slip through my fingers.

With now 37 years, hundreds of flights, and thousands of air miles behind me, I have never had that happen to me since that first time.

The only down side you may have of this experience is to assume it might ever happen again to you.

This my young friend, was a once in a life time experience for you so cherish it.

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I have been privaledged to have "things happen"  - the one hour session that became an 8 hour marathon... the real date with a provider that was just that... a real date.  The infatuation with a provider that drove me to fly hundreds of miles to see her... and on and on...

sometimes it is me with her... and sometimes it is her with me....

enjoy... the nice thing about this hobby is that if you do it right... these things happen more than in civie life... Enjoy

But not unheard off.  What I have found is that if you are kind, respectful,and generous with the women you see, some, not all but some, will reward you in a variety of ways.  

Yes it does happen often in foreign countries. Has happened to me several times in Brazil, Argentina, Germany, Japan and England and in some cases, I did not even see them more than once. Somehow, we connected after the first encounter and went to dinner, club, movies and such.

Everyone is not always for the greenback all the time, there are exceptions. It is wonderful experience and as gentleman, one must compensate in other ways.

yours ranks right up there with the best/worst.

I have Gentlemen whom I have been seeing for almost 4yrs off and on some on a weekly or monthly basis, some on their business trips to Boston. Being an Indie allows the "rules" to change more than an agency lady. I have basic rates as stated on my site but the more I see a Gent the more it seems to be contoured to what suites the situation. After all I Enjoy my time a great deal with many of my friends and it will bend to what we are both comfortable with.
It is more common than you think, and it makes some companionships seem more bonded.

In fact, my buddy told me this classic (the first time I ever heard it but I have used it often since then):

"There is a whole village somewhere in the world looking for their lost idiot and I am sitting here talking with him!"

Makes the sex, as well as all the time spent together, even better!

Yes.  Don't count on this happening with each lady you see.  This is pay for play.

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