I've been through the disappointment with escorts failing to come through on agreed-upon wardrobe requests over the years.
I haven't made a whole lot of clothing requests, but of the ones I have made and the woman agreed to it ahead of time, there's been about a 60% or 70% completion rate with their compliance. I believe the reason it's that high is that my requests have nothing to do with weird costumes, outlandish looks, not even ordinary bra and panties or sexy lingerie. It's always the outerwwear thatvi go for. I like the "everyday woman" look, so I might ask for office attire or a housewife in casual errand-running clothes or the academic woman kind of thing. There was an athletic woman who I knew worked out in the gym all the time, I asked her to meet me in her workout clothes. Once (just once), I asked for a doctor look, but I provided her with the lab coat and stethoscope.
Many of the ones who have disappointed me have given all kinds of reasons or excuses, such as:
*I forgot
*I don't have that outfit in my wardrobe (Even after originally claiming that she did)
*It's too hot/cold outside to wear something like that (Hello, the date is INDOORS)
*I didn't feel like it
*Just 2 minutes before you arrived I tried it on and it doesn't fit me anymore
*I changed my mind
*I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing that (Then why did you tell me that you would?)
*No one has ever asked me to wear that before (Huh?)
*I thought you meant this outfit (Meaning the one she wore instead of what I asked her to wear)
*It's too much trouble
*It seemed kind of weird to me (It was a role-play thing, and she had agreed to it ahead of time but backed out at last minute)
These excuses haven't made me stop making clothing requests, I just ask much less often than I used to.