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PeterPickle 89 reads
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...any particularly kinky fetishes so I've enjoyed just letting the provider surprise me. Usually it's some form of sexy lingerie with garters and thong, and I'll take those off quickly anyway. Maybe I'll ask for a cheerleader's outfit next time and see if the provider obliges. Interested to know what kind of deviant shit you guys are into though lol

I'm curious (and as always, apologies if this has been covered before) what percentage of the time you actually get to experience/see the outfit or wardrobe that you requested from the provider that the provider had agreed to wear?  It's always been a pet peeve for me.  I would guess my personal experience would be set somewhere around the 50% mark. I've had a few apologize that they forgot, etc. but most don't even mention it.

RespectfulRobert143 reads

But that may be because I generally check to see if the lady in question is wardrobe request friendly before I ask. Some are not, which is understandable, and others may not have brought that specific outfit with them on tour.

I always request that they show me their birthday suit. Works every time.

It's funny you say some have used the ole "I forgot" line.  They don't seem to "forget" to ask for the donation.  I guess it's kind of like the bait and switch.  Most do it because they assume the little head will win out and hey you're already there so why not.  

PeterPickle90 reads

...any particularly kinky fetishes so I've enjoyed just letting the provider surprise me. Usually it's some form of sexy lingerie with garters and thong, and I'll take those off quickly anyway. Maybe I'll ask for a cheerleader's outfit next time and see if the provider obliges. Interested to know what kind of deviant shit you guys are into though lol

Posted By: PeterPickle
Re: I don't have any particularly kinky fetishes, so I've enjoyed just letting the provider surprise me. Usually it's some form of sexy lingerie with garters and thong, and I'll take those off quickly anyway. Maybe I'll ask for a cheerleader's outfit next time and see if the provider obliges. Interested to know what kind of deviant shit you guys are into though. lol
I don't see my proclivities as being deviant or very kinky, but one man's opinion of himself is not the same as others taking a look at it, so I'll outline a few of them and let you decide whether or not they are:

Housewife
College professor
Businesswoman
Hotel clerk at front desk
Woman in uniform

There are others top, and they're all pretty much along the same lines as the ones above.

PeterPickle90 reads

...kinky and deviant!

No, I didn't mean to frame those terms in a negative way, in fact the more kinky and deviant the better I say, as long as they're within the constructs of fantasy, of course.

So now seeing examples of wardrobe requests that a provider might receive, I now understand the context of the OP's question much better.

Taking your requests for example, while the first four seem like they could be put together with items commonly found in a woman's wardrobe (with perhaps a prop or two thrown in for authenticity), the final request of a woman in uniform would generally require deliberate acquisition of the "costume" (unless of course the provider happened to have enlisted in the military before).

So I can see a reason why a provider might not accommodate a request being that she simply doesn't have that costume on hand.

Of course that being the case, she shouldn't have previously agreed to it with the client, but perhaps in hoping to not "rock the boat" and risk jeopardizing the booking, she just went along with it thinking she could whip something up or actually source it later, and simply wasn't able to do it.

Then of course, which may be more often the case, she could have simply agreed to it without ever actually intending to deliver, given as common as it seems from the responses on the thread for a provider getting away with just saying, "I forgot" 😅

I'd say I get what I requested about 80% of the time. Of course it probably helps that I tend to keep my requests simple--thong underwear, heels, a short dress or skirt, etc.

For some reason getting a lady to wear stockings seems hard. And it's not infrequent that a lady no longer has an outfit she wore in a photo on her website.

I've been through the disappointment with escorts failing to come through on agreed-upon wardrobe requests over the years.  

I haven't made a whole lot of clothing requests, but of the ones I have made and the woman agreed to it ahead of time, there's been about a 60% or 70% completion rate with their compliance. I believe the reason it's that high is that my requests have nothing to do with weird costumes, outlandish looks, not even ordinary bra and panties or sexy lingerie. It's always the outerwwear thatvi go for. I like the "everyday woman" look, so I might ask for office attire or a housewife in  casual errand-running clothes or the academic woman kind of thing. There was an athletic woman who I knew worked out in the gym all the time, I asked her to meet me in her workout clothes. Once (just once), I asked for a doctor look, but I provided her with the lab coat and stethoscope.

Many of the ones who have disappointed me have given all kinds of reasons or excuses, such as:

*I forgot

*I don't have that outfit in my wardrobe (Even after originally claiming that she did)

*It's too hot/cold outside to wear something like that (Hello, the date is INDOORS)

*I didn't feel like it

*Just 2 minutes before you arrived I tried it on and it doesn't fit me anymore

*I changed my mind

*I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing that (Then why did you tell me that you would?)

*No one has ever asked me to wear that before (Huh?)

*I thought you meant this outfit (Meaning the one she wore instead of what I asked her to wear)

*It's too much trouble

*It seemed kind of weird to me (It was a role-play thing, and she had agreed to it ahead of time but backed out at last minute)

These excuses haven't made me stop making clothing requests, I just ask much less often than I used to.

When booking an hour appointment with a higher end provider it’s about 50/50, but when booking 2 hours or longer, it’s usually always either asked by her or granted upon my request.

In my entire hobby career, I made an outfit request only twice.  One time, it was a tank top she was wearing in one of her website photos.  Another time, I was into a comfortable pajama look for whatever reason, and requested that.  That's it.

By and large, I don't bother with outfit requests.  First and foremost, the outfit will come off within the first 10 minutes of the date, anyway.  Second, she might not own whatever I'm into and/or it might be cumbersome to bring to the incall, and that might create a slightly awkward dynamic if she can't wear what I requested.  So to spare the mutual hassles, I just say "wear whatever" if asked directly, or not do any request at all.

to wear a Jayson Werth T-shirt that I own..  Then I undressed her and fucked her..  

 
Oh I keep the T-shirt.. I don't give that to her.. Not that one.. No way..

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