You don't have to be a "people person" to be a hooker. In fact, many do this because they are NOT comfortable being in groups or performing for a crowd like a porn star or dancer can do with ease. Many of us don't even like people all that much, but being with ONLY one person at a time (2 at most) actually is a lot easier to accomplish than being in a crowded office with catty bitches all day.  

I know many providers who have no social life (I have not had much of one the last 2 years since moving) so this is really the only time they get to go out, travel, and get paid whilst doing it. Many providers are somewhat isolated because we can't exactly broadcast this part of our lives with just anyone.  

 
The way to keep from being burnt out as an escort, is not to do it every damn day/week for years on end. I would get burnt out on any job if I had to do the same thing over and over, day after day, ugh!  

When I first started, I was higher volume (not insane, but about 5 a week) and at a much lower rate. I was NOT offering GFE, so even though I was seeing more clients than I do now, I can tell you, they were nowhere near as exhausting. My average date today takes about 5 hours to plan and prepare for, even if that means only getting paid for 2. That's a lot of time and energy, and I don't know how anyone could possibly do that more than a few times a week.  

I scored as an "Extrovert" on the MB test, but I would still not call myself a people person. Most of them annoy the crap out of me. I hate them in traffic, in my way, standing behind them at the gas station...just go home already!! I love being ALONE at least 4-5 days a week...just the way it is.  

Most of our dates are what...1 hour to 4 hours? I don't buy too many getting nothing but overnights, and endless vacations or they would not be here all the fkin time lol. We really don't have to "communicate" or interact for that long of a time, compared to a real job where you MUST be around the same people 40-60 hours a damn week! I work less than 8 here, and NOT being a people person is actually one of the reasons I love doing this shit lol. Small doses.  

Saying you have to be a people person to stomach someone for only 2-4 hours every other week is a bit of a contradiction lol.  Why not offer them some off the clock time lol. You know...because you LOVE people so damn much. Oh, and sex of course..yes, we all loooooooove that too.

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Alexandra posted this back in April ago asking everyone to take the personality test and post results.

I'm INTJ and it's fairly accruate.

see link below.

you're a self-centered person?

You used the term "in fact" making it sound like you are speaking for all providers who have come into the profession.

Where did you get YOUR facts from? from the back of a condom box?

Galaxy
 

You should read up on your psychology dumb ass. I speak for only myself and the providers I KNOW are not people oriented. No, not ALL hookers apply to the OP's suggestion, and not ALL apply to mine. There are never absolutes, but saying a hooker has to be a people person or has to enjoy sex to actually make money, that's dead wrong lol. I know many women who HATE men, as in they can't stand you guys because they are gay, or have been abused somehow. They still charge over 500 a damn hour, and have awesome reviews lying to your faces. Naivety....

Sure, you could say I am a bit self centered in regards to what I can put up with, but at least I don't lie and lead anyone to believe I am something else. Sage advice, stalker.  

Considering my University makes yours look like a trailer park, I would not go touting "facts" lol. You're a damn IT guy who used your REAL NAME to stalk hookers bwahhahaa. Idiot!  

Want more?

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He's had  at least 6 different handles on TER since I started posting. We just keep blacklisting every new one he comes up with, because he is too much of a sociopath to realize he repeats the same bs over and over, with each new handle lol.  Serpius, Capricornus, Sunroc, oh the list goes on. Why would anyone have to keep changing their handle that much, if they were not ripping off and stalking providers. Head's up, he is in Columbus.

especially offering GFE. How could you not be? Most of what GFE is all about is a woman's socialization skills and how well she carries herself in public, behind closed doors, email/phone communication etc. If it doesn't come natural it will be as transparent as day. That's one thing you cannot fake, it's a skill you either acquire or simply don't.

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You are confusing being "professional" and having good communication skills, with being a people person. The two are not mutually exclusive. There are many men and women who run companies and do all you said, but never have to interact with more than a few in person...just like we do. You don't see 10 guys a week do you? Maybe not even in a month, so that's my point. We are really NOT interacting with all that many people here. Even high volume providers can fk 3 guys a day, and still hate them lol. I've seen it time and again.  

Many of the Top 100 are married, some hate men, and some are just not hetero, but do this for money.  

 I know women with 10 pages of nothing but 9s and 10s, who truly HATE this job and are scared of people in the real world, so they come here where it is more comfortable.  It is a lot easier to only be judged by one person at a time, than be judged by hundreds every day.

person, I would not be in this business. Period. It would be too much work.

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more of your lies?

like I said, majority of the threads are absurd including yours.

Galax

Lies? Really? Yea, all those print copies sure do look like lies, especially when they are in your real name lol. Yes, I still have your stalking emails, the copies of what you sent to a former mod here about PAYING him to find out my info. to have me busted,  and your TRAIL of blacklists handy. I would not want the Ohio ladies to fall for your bs again.  

Later crab trap.

We each come full of our own personal experiences, so here's just my opinion...
 
When I was younger and working for an agency, I couldn't see enough people and forgot everyone.  
It was purely a routine.  Yes, of course there were exceptions, but they were rare.
I was friendly and made my clients happy, but very little of my true personality was shared.

It was difficult to endure in that scenerio.
For a number of reasons...
1) Someone else booking clients that one phone call would've easily made clear (for both of us) that we should not have a date
2) Sheer volume
3) Stress of needing to make the money so taking dates I should've turned down
4) Shame
Returning now more mature, independent and low volume, I enjoy my clients and am interested in connecting in a meaningful way.  I tend to see the same people, over and over again .  We share more of ourselves over time and enjoy a connection that has no commitments.  And it's exciting!

I should add that being able to screen for compatability is so important to me in terms of sustaining in this industry now.  Doing what I do on my terms allows me to take responsibility as well as more control over my likely outcomes.  
My end result is pleasurable, not to mention profitable and conscionable.
I love meeting gentlemen and take each experience as an opportunity to learn and share and grow.

Now I have a much better, unconflicted sense of who I am as a sexual being and embrace my choices instead of feeling guilty them.
Being fully engaged and connected in my experiences, is what allows me to enjoy this hobby.
So while I'm neither a true extrovert or introvert, I am a people person for certain.  
And for those of you that are not nice people...well you should be

Thanks for the thoughtful question and for putting my Louboutins on

I've been an extrovert my entire life.  Interacting with others has been a staple in my life...but then I also worked at that as well.

You have made conscious decisions in your life, based on your summary to become a true GFE.  I have seen that happen with others here as well.  I honestly believe we've discussed a few of them  

But many others are really still quite conflicted here as well.  And all the Louboutin's in the world can't hide that problem.  I don't really see those that aren't people oriented having too many problems with the biz....yet when they talk about their insecurities it becomes painfully obvious that those gals wouldn't do too well working 9-5 and having to interact all that time.  In that regard I agree 110% with London's synopsis.

I also don't see it as an age issue...as most don't grow out of being introverted.

My guess is that SirPenis has been away so long he figures there are enough new people on the boards that he can tell the same old lies and they'll somehow fly.  Too bad for him there are a few of us here who recall how he was busted for stalking and serial lying.
As galaxy he is as credibility free as ever.

I try to stay UTR

so I scan the boards for months sometimes looking for that special
someone with that fun and amazing personality for that special date.

Dating these types of providers has really help me a great deal to come out of my shell a bit

And you are really just a big softy.  
I know, I know...no one believes that BUT I've seen it first hand...not in my hand
Lol
Now, I will not be checking back in until tomorrow or after, so don't expect a piffy or swift reply.  
Some people have other things to do...not you or London, but some people
Oh, and I agreed with London's post too.  
Everyone has their own story, why not share it?
Xo's

That was priceless lol. "I realize some people have other things to do...not you or London, but some people." Bwahhahaha, funny cuz that shit is true!

...... and I like people (most of the time and i'm genuinely friendly and sociable) and I don't "get" how someone anti-social or not good at all with people can last.

I feel I have enough skills to deal with a perfect stranger for a limited amount of time. I am rarely attracted to my clients (not why I do this), so enjoying the sex is not a factor for me. If someone is lucky enough to hit the right buttons, well great but more often than not, meh!  

Longevity in my case has been making good choices in who I see. If I had to see just anyone I would not be here typing this. I would be incarcerated. This is not like dating where I can choose exactly who I see and who I have relations with. It is a job, that I do quite well.

there hasn't been any mods since early 2012 when the change of hands happened.  
   
Looks like your Pinocchio nose is getting longer.  

I'm a newbie here.

Galaxy