From what we know, this provider didn’t advertise that DATY was included in her base fee, and the OP went into the session not knowing for sure what services were included in her base fee. He’d made some assumptions, though, and was surprised and disappointed with what he found out.
Thus I don’t understand how walking out can be justified based only on the upcharge for DATY… unless you meant you’d leave the donation, then walk out.
I’m guessing this provider doesn’t like her clients going down on her, thus she dissuades them with an astronomical fee for it.
Hello Gents,
This happened to me when I was n00b:
1) Answer an ad stating 1H is $600.
2) At incall, give provider $600.
3) We sit down, and start doing things when she announces that DATY is "$1,000." She states $600 was the "base" fee, just to get in the door. Everything else is an "extra."
She did not have a published "No" list describing what was off-limits.
I have a lot of ideas about what I should have done to prevent this, but would like to hear from the "experts"!
Suggestions?
Only see well reviewed gals.
reported it on all the escort websites, hopefully she gets blackballed by everyone.
I will get up and leave, but not before I educated her on this whole upsell thing and if she wants repeat business don’t upsell!
I'd go with what Mr. Fisher stated, with the prices of poon at an all-time high you just cannot afford to be wrong, especially 600 dollars wrong. These days I only see TER reviewed providers, no matter how hot they are. And in fact I'd rather see a 6 or 7 in the looks department that provides GFE than a 9/10 that charges sky high and up-sells. As I have stated in the past, the client is at a clear disadvantage as is, and the disadvantage steepens when you neither have an inkling of the services she provides and hand over the money as soon as you get into the room. I would suggest getting a hug and attempting a kiss as soon as you walk in to gauge the level of service from the jump. If she declines a kiss (LFK or DFK) at the door then chances are they are on her "No list", and you can simply choose to walk away at that point if it doesn't look like the session will be up to your standards.
As per your explanation I can see why said provider operates the way she does, she is clearly intentionally bamboozling then up-selling people and knows what she is doing and with the lack of guys willing to research it seems to be working. Clients have been conditioned over the years to expect certain basic menu options for certain price ranges, and some providers take advantage of that. At that moment there is not much that can be done on your part. You can point out her misleading ads vs the expectations and ask for the donation back, but clearly she knows that she is misleading people, so good luck with that. Option two is to simply take the L but mentally go through with the non-GFE session and make the best of things, this is assuming the provider does what most do and takes the money and puts it away for "safe keeping." Either way a review is definitely needed.
Did she upcharge for fucking?
A grand to eat her pussy? I'd be walking out.
From what we know, this provider didn’t advertise that DATY was included in her base fee, and the OP went into the session not knowing for sure what services were included in her base fee. He’d made some assumptions, though, and was surprised and disappointed with what he found out.
Thus I don’t understand how walking out can be justified based only on the upcharge for DATY… unless you meant you’d leave the donation, then walk out.
I’m guessing this provider doesn’t like her clients going down on her, thus she dissuades them with an astronomical fee for it.
One thing you can do, unfortunately after the fact, is to post a negative review to warn the rest of us off. I don't see that review posted here unless you couldn't get it past the review requirements. It sucks to take one for the team but you certainly didn't help the team.
Say goodbye.
what representations were in her ad, I assume for purposes of discussion that she did NOT advertise a GFE session. You also don't mention whether she had her own website with any listing of services, nor do you say you looked for any reviews she might have on this or other review sites. Failure to do your research beforehand is why these kinds of things happen. This is why, when I'm seeing independent providers, I will only see ladies that have reviews somewhere and have their own website or a listing on a legit agency website. A proprietary website is different than an advertisement or an ad listing. Girls that have their own website demonstrate that they are trying to build a brand, and will USUALLY not engage in sharp business practices like you describe. There are always exceptions, but I have found the majority of professionals that have their own website and reviews on a separate review site are honest in their dealings with me.
Although when I was a newbie, a few things similar to this happened to me, but not this egregious, I would never consider walking out unless there is some kind of intentional misrepresentation regarding her looks or services. Absent misrepresentation, the onus is on me to do my research and look out for my own interests, so in essence, if this happens, you have no one to blame but yourself and your own lack of diligence.
Although when I was a newbie, a few things similar to this happened to me, but not this egregious, I would never consider walking out unless there is some kind of intentional misrepresentation regarding her looks or services. Absent misrepresentation, the onus is on me to do my research and look out for my own interests, so in essence, if this happens, you have no one to blame but yourself and your own lack of diligence.
Totally agree. I wrote a couple of reviews that were less than stellar. I got pm'd by both providers. One accused me of trying to damage her business and the other accused me of a false review, saying that wasn't how she operated. The 2nd provider actually got pretty good reviews but that wasn't what I experienced.
reality is 1)nothing you can do in the room 2) blacklisting is useless because a girl that does that frequently changes her name and number i got hit for $300 once and same situation i walked out and wrote a 3/1 review but she took down her profile within a week .. i figured she was going tfrom city to city .. a girl like that can make bank .. because the guy worst will walk out quickly and she can quickly book another sucker plus some guys will pay extra for very little.