God I cringe just thinking of this....
I got out of her shower and grabbed the first towel I saw.Rubbed it all over my face before I realized it was wet..
Who knows who's balls had been there..
I just hope she had used it. But I don't think so.. It smelled... Moldy.
It knocked me back and I knocked some stuff off of a shelf.
She heard it, and came over asking if I was okay.
She must have been wondering what I was doing in there. I just said I'm fine, be right out.
Blah!!! Took another much hotter, much more soapy shower
I had an early morning date this past weekend with my favorite provider. Upon my arrival we Exchanged a passionate hug and a great DFK after which I excused myself to the restroom to wash my hands. In the bathroom I found the towel basket which is usually empty on my visits completely full. Umm okay. Tried not to think of it and told myself this is P4P after all. Still it was a big boner killer. Upon returning to the bedroom we started with fully clothed foreplay. After we were both fully warmed up we got comfortable and there they were, bruising on her thighs.Boner killer number two. I made no mention of it but she saw me staring at them, I couldn't help it since they were very obvious. I've had vigorous sex with civvies and providers before but never left bruises.Do some guys mark providers like hikers leave rock piles while hiking to let others know they were there? This was actually the second time now I've seen her with bruising on her thighs.
We still had a great session but my high afterwards was greatly diminished by the stark reminders that this is P4P. Guys, have you ever experined things with a favorite that was a Buzzkill?Providers,do you have any tricks or techniques you use to conceal or get rid of bruises left by your dates?
SO a few weeks ago I had a civvie date, and I absolutely LOVE it when a guy licks, kisses, sucks on, and practically bites my neck... I have NEVER had any long lasting marks...
TILL this night... I get home that night with AWFUL dark hickies, bruises on my neck. Iised ice to help the swelling and I also used some VERY good theatre makeup.
If they are on legs, I would have worn dark stockings to cover them...
As for the other things.. well #1 I am lower volume, but I STILL get rid of any and ALL evidence that I have or WILL have anyone but him with me.
I empty the trash, make the bed/recover the table, put any glasses in the dishwasher, make sure the bathroom has a fresh set of towels/hand towels (I can put 4 up, so if the client used one before the second arrived, I would immediately take the used, put it in the washer, then REPLACE now vacant spot with a new towel. If they used any cup[s for the mouth wash, etc...
I take that all out the outside garbage.
LASTLY, I have a squeegee that I use to dry/clean out shower... I like it to be dry and un used when they arrive..
I personally think a good provider SHOULD make it look like you are the only one to to have a rendezvous with her that day.
I mean for instance, if you two were REALLY a couple and you came and saw her , lets say for a afternoon delight... and you found evidence that she had another lover there...
Obviously you would be hurt,and angry... I know you cant TRULY be in that situation, but irregardless if we are trying to give every single friend who I see my 100 percent attention, energy, an make him feel like I have been dying for his touch, then TRULY do it... which means getting rid of ANY evidence of other people!
just my two cents!
CK, I really like your style. Very wise & classy of you.
It is an illusion... we both know that... but let's keep it going!
As a personal aside... I bruise very easily. I can bruise from the most minor bump or sometimes I just find unexplained bruises. Mr OP, it's really none of your business & you'll probably not believe her answer anyway... I would have made a joking reference "like hope it does hurt!" and then move on.
TILL this night... I get home that night with AWFUL dark hickies, bruises on my neck. Iised ice to help the swelling and I also used some VERY good theatre makeup.
If they are on legs, I would have worn dark stockings to cover them...
As for the other things.. well #1 I am lower volume, but I STILL get rid of any and ALL evidence that I have or WILL have anyone but him with me.
I empty the trash, make the bed/recover the table, put any glasses in the dishwasher, make sure the bathroom has a fresh set of towels/hand towels (I can put 4 up, so if the client used one before the second arrived, I would immediately take the used, put it in the washer, then REPLACE now vacant spot with a new towel. If they used any cup[s for the mouth wash, etc...
I take that all out the outside garbage.
LASTLY, I have a squeegee that I use to dry/clean out shower... I like it to be dry and un used when they arrive..
I personally think a good provider SHOULD make it look like you are the only one to to have a rendezvous with her that day.
I mean for instance, if you two were REALLY a couple and you came and saw her , lets say for a afternoon delight... and you found evidence that she had another lover there...
Obviously you would be hurt,and angry... I know you cant TRULY be in that situation, but irregardless if we are trying to give every single friend who I see my 100 percent attention, energy, an make him feel like I have been dying for his touch, then TRULY do it... which means getting rid of ANY evidence of other people!
just my two cents!
very nice of you to eliminate evidence of other clients. i too know this is all p4p but i dont like to have my face shoved in it. i'd rather have my face shoved somewhere else.
more than a few ladies i have seen didnt even bother to clean their incall between gigs. very disgusting.
on another site mainly, and I went to visit her one night at a VERY upscale hotel. As I walked in.. I was like WOW
Th place was a MESS! lol
ok it looked VERY lived in. had a living room/bedroom BUT in one corner was a huge pile of "used" towels YUCK!!!!
She gets great reviews, lol
so I guess SOME guys dong care if you are a slob, just fuck their brains senseless so they dont remembeR?? lol
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Okay most of the topics here have been BEAT TO DEATH. So I'm just gonna touch on a few...
I think the drawer full of in used condoms shouldn't be a problem. - I stock up, and since I don't have a perm incall, I carry them in my purse. And there have been many times that I am in public digging in my purse and a HANDFUL of condoms falls out. So embarrassing!
I get my condoms at the clinic where I get tested. One day I didn't see any, so I asked the nurse. I'm sitting in the reception area and she comes out like "here ya go girl" hands be a BUNCH of condoms, it was a waiting room FULL of people!
I think the one thing that I was really like WOW about when I read this thread, was the girl who brought the 1st client out in front of the 2nd client! DUH, at least have the second guy wait in car for five min while the first one leaves!
I do my best, when I am at Incalls, to clean up between each client. But I have hours in between each one, so it isn't a problem. And at outcall I don't have to worry.
So is there any other buzzkills you guys have had? Aside with being reminded that your not the only one she sees, is there a tying else that just turns you completely off?
Okay most of the topics here have been BEAT TO DEATH. So I'm just gonna touch on a few...
I think the drawer full of in used condoms shouldn't be a problem. - I stock up, and since I don't have a perm incall, I carry them in my purse. And there have been many times that I am in public digging in my purse and a HANDFUL of condoms falls out. So embarrassing!
I get my condoms at the clinic where I get tested. One day I didn't see any, so I asked the nurse. I'm sitting in the reception area and she comes out like "here ya go girl" hands be a BUNCH of condoms, it was a waiting room FULL of people!
I think the one thing that I was really like WOW about when I read this thread, was the girl who brought the 1st client out in front of the 2nd client! DUH, at least have the second guy wait in car for five min while the first one leaves!
I do my best, when I am at Incalls, to clean up between each client. But I have hours in between each one, so it isn't a problem. And at outcall I don't have to worry.
So is there any other buzzkills you guys have had? Aside with being reminded that your not the only one she sees, is there a tying else that just turns you completely off?
She might have taken a tumble or likes to play some kind of contact sport.
Why not just ask her what happened?
She should have ditched the dirty towels.
I don't know how many times I wacked my leg against a bedpost or dresser trying to walk around a dark hotel room.
As for all the towels, well you could just pretend she's really really clean from all those showers she took before you got there.
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God I cringe just thinking of this....
I got out of her shower and grabbed the first towel I saw.
Rubbed it all over my face before I realized it was wet..
Who knows who's balls had been there..
I just hope she had used it. But I don't think so.. It smelled... Moldy.
It knocked me back and I knocked some stuff off of a shelf.
She heard it, and came over asking if I was okay.
She must have been wondering what I was doing in there. I just said I'm fine, be right out.
Blah!!! Took another much hotter, much more soapy shower
Aren't you supposed to be more adventurous than this...
This this an attempt to re-brand yourself.. 
And some guys, even after a shower, still smell la little musty.
and sometimes even stretching can cause bruises if I'm stretching on a hard floor. I get plenty of bruises on my thighs from dancing. If she's fit you should just chock the bruises up to exercise. If she has low iron bruises will just happen for what sometimes feels like no reason.
n fact, there was a provider in your area no less, on the Newbie Board asking about how to cover bruises because she was on a Roller Derby Team. She could just be clumsy. I busted my ass twice last week, and it was not during sex lol.
London, your ass in not busted, it just has a crack in it...
I feel your disappointment.
Simple tips I wish some providers could heed:
1)Order fresh towels; it is nice to see that you don't get the "last towel"
Removing used ones is included.
2) remove clutter from around the bed, room, bathroom...just nice to see a provider make an effort
3) bruising: sex or otherwise ... happens & we gotta deal.
I may be the 3rd guy today, but nice not to feel like it.
After all tips are optional...
What's the matter, no one can believe that some girls have pimps who beat them? And they beat them in the body so as to not mess up the face?
The OP said this girl has had bruises more than once. Just a coincidence?
You guys' self worth is so wrapped up in assuming that these girls don't have pimps? And when they tell you they don't you assume that none of these girls lie? Wow...
Seems like you're in the wrong hobby if you think 100% of the girls you see are pimp-free. No way that's gonna be true.
the reverse is also true. Guys who go around thinking all providers must have pimps, are clearly seeing cheaper girls and project that mentality onto women who could not be anything other than Independent. Rarely, is someone over 400 an hour being pimped. Most pimped women are forced into being high volume, or they would get clipped. A provider only seeing 1 guy a day ( or even less) is highly unlikely to have a pimp. Even agencies don't like dealing with low volume providers because they view us as lazy. They want women willing to see 3-6 guys a day, on short notice, and not bitch about what the guy looks like or what color he is.
Did you not hear of the high end Vegas pimp bust earlier this year? The ladies were all "very well reviewed" on TER, and even posted regularly on the boards. Rates were 600 per hour and up. Everyone thought they were independant. Sure, nobody should assume that all providers are pimped but also don't assume that all "high end" indies are not pimped! Just goes to show, that you never know, and it is not always obvious.
That's why I said "Rarely." 'Most' pimped women are from backapage...that's just a fact.
Years ago when I was hobbying in DC, there was a young lady I would see whenever I was in town. On the day of our scheduled visit I called her (before texting and email) and told her I was just a block away. She said "great" and told me to come on in and make myself comfortable and she would be with me in a moment. So I enter her apartment and settle in. The door to her bedroom opens up and she walks a guy (staring sheepishly at the floor) right past me and out the door. I am in shock! She then says " ok, I am ready for you" . . . I got up and left without saying a word.
Now I am clear about the P4P part of this, but this was so blatantly a fantasy killer, you got wonder what she was thinking. Good thing DC had no shortage of good, beautiful and sexy providers.
Sheesh. The only thing I've seen or read so far worse than that is the scene from "Brooklyn's Finest" when Richard Gere (cop and john) is sitting on the steps outside the apartment of the hooker he loves, listening to another guy banging her.
No class on your provider's part.
doing the lady K-9 like watching it slide in and out oh oh what's that few more strokes yup it that time of the month BUZZ KILL
I was seeing a young latina years ago, as we getting ready, she asks me to reach over to the night stand and get a condom out of the drawer, well, the drawer was loaded with condoms, not just a few, I mean loaded with condoms. I got over the shock quickly and proceeded with my business.
Now a couple a weeks ago I was with a hot spinner milf, we getting ready to play with some of her toys, she told me to get one out of her nightstand drawer, so I open the drawer, and it was loaded with all sorts of toys. laid out just like a kitchen drawer full of knives. No shock this time, I reached in and grabbed a bunch of them and proceeded on with our play time.
Yep the drawer full of condoms is indeed a buzz killer.
I always fear stepping in something wet on the floor. Could be spilled water, could be condensation from the air conditioning vent, or it could be the last guys load...Blehk
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If the drawer is still full, it's obvious they are not getting used all that much lol. I buy mine in 100 count tins, and that could take a year to go through.
I used all the towels I wanted, because I could! So towels in the bathroom don't necessarily indicate a woman has seen multiple men. I mean I may be different, I don't know, but I haven't had an incall with more than one guy in years. And because I know I don't have to reserve those towels for more than one guy any more, I use them as I see fit! Back to the bruises, I've had a client fuck up my legs, but I also wake up with bruises regularly. As a kid I walked in my sleep, so I believe I might be doing the same thing at 30 yrs old, because I haven't had a client who leaves bruises in years, but I still wake up with them.
maybe she plays sports or has an abusive boyfriend....or like me, does things in her sleep. who knows, it's best to not assume.