as a provider, do you tell your date that you have just had one the proceed as usual or reschedule?
As a hobbyist, have you ever experienced with a provider who has just had one before the session? Then what would you do? Do you DATY as usual?
Although I am not sure if it was an excuse that she wasn't that mood with me, I was told by a provider that she had just had one, she just gave me BJ and gave me some discount since it was not FS.
What was your reaction if you have experienced like this?

In my case my provider was kind and professional enough to call before our session and give me the news and the ability to reschedule. That way if I wanted her to still come it would have been my decision (remember your the client).

It's all just professional courtesy and the good ones who want your future business will do this.

Out

  IMHO most woman know exactly when their period will, or should, start. I could set my watch by my last SO.

  That being said, there could be circumstances which may alter nature's course of events. Some woman who are on birth control pills never have a regular period "per se" but they spot here and there. Also, I would assume, that a woman experiencing the onset of menopause would be very irregular. The later would be an educated guess on my part, since I have never been with one.

  Suffice it to say, that woman's physiognomies are wide and varied, and there may well be other aspects that enter into the equation. Perhaps stress, diet, or personal regimens?

  That being said, perhaps some providers may choose to try an accomodate their clients right up to zero hour, but eventually, one of us will get the "Heads Up"! The ladies do us a service by giving us the option, rather than break an appointment that they know we are "So Looking Forward To!"

  I for one, have never had a problem working around the issue. There are many choices. However, "Horses For Courses" and if it's an issue with any hobbyist, he should thank the lady and reschedule.

  Ladies, I would "LUV" seeing your feedback on this!

I would hope most providers know about this product, usually sold right next to the tampex.  It's like a diaphram, you can wear it for 12 hours at a time. You can do everything with it in, and it keeps you totally dry. When I discovered it a few years ago (before I started providing) I was quite entralled.  I'm telling you, it really works.

Im a provider who is very very irregular.  I can not help it and I can not predict it much to my dismay.  Thats actually the hardest thing Ive had to come to terms with being a provider.  When my period comes and I have apts lined up I will call the guy and explain and leave it up to him.  Sometimes though my periods are so bad that Im doubled over in pain and feeling queasy.  In that case I do cancel.  But usually the guy will want to reschedule. Ive only had a couple of guys who wanted to proceed with the apt.  I know some girls will use these cups that sit against the diaphram to collect the blood or use sea sponges thus allowing "clean" sex.  I tried the cup thing and it did not work for me.  I ended up bleeding on the guy and later got a reaction to the cup and ended up with an infection. Not pretty.  Its so hard being a girl sometimes  ;(

I got mine in the middle of a session. It was right before the main event. I immediately told him about it then BBBJTC twice. I then rescheduled the session and added a free hour for pain and suffering.

I had my monthly start last Thursday and end Sunday.  Mine is pretty much regular, so I get the warning when I start getting lower back pain.  I did have to turn clients down.  I gave them the option of what they wanted to do.  Some told me that they would reschedule later in the week.  Some were just fine with one of my sensual body rubs with a different rate of course.

As far as the cup, I have never tried that, but was thinking about that this weekend.  I figured it would be pretty damn messy.  Since the other provider mentioned she got an infection from it, I don't think I'll give that a chance.  The sea sponge, what would that be like?  Does anyone know if it would give a woman an infection or not?  I would be willing to try, but don't want to experience any infections or discomfort.

Ayanna

I bet you have had a session with a provider when Aunt Flo was visiting and never knew it because she was using a cup or diaphragm.

Not all women live in the disposable tampon age.

I love knowing everything about women and love having them know all about me. Of course I never end up knowing EVERYTHING, but the ride is GREAT!

TET

 sweetheart had a condition which I now realize was menorrhagia. I think there is another condition of the same nature called menorreaha. Perhaps incorrect spelling. Basically, they are the same malady. Severe flow, and cramps so bad that they could turn the sweetest woman into a witch! This is a very real problem for some ladies.

 I'm familiar with sea sponges, but have never heard about the "cups" you mentioned, so I find that very interesting. You mentioned that they sit against the diaphragm, which begs another question. Do some providers use a diaphragm as a back-up measure against unwanted pregnancy in the event of condom failure? You're the first woman who has mentioned this on the board if memory serves me.

 Some guys freak out over menstral blood. It's only dead tissue, but in this day and age, (Aids, Hepititis, Herpes,) it's better to err on the side of caution.

 That being said, I remember one time with a certain lady, back in the early seventies when we didn't have those concerns. We got into a marathon session! She started her period, but since we were SO's, and in the heat of the moment, she decided not to mention it. The room was dimly candle lit. We had ingested copious amounts of controlled substances, and we fucked in every conceivable position imaginable. We were literally bouncing off the walls. By dawn's early light, as we awoke horrified,the room looked like an abattoir. There was blood everywhere! After we got over our initial shock, we started laughing out asses off and proceded to have sex again. We spent an hour cleaning the room. It was one of those "You had to be there" things. To this day, I have no problem with DATY and menstration. An inch is as good as a mile! LOL.

Holy pointy thing, Batman!  Forget the keeper--Use Instead--it's disposable and a box of 18 is under $5.

You can keep the Keeper, looks terribly uncomfortable if one needs to move around a lot.  Yikes, ouch ouch.
NS

I have used that cup before in my civvy life. The cups are very big! You fold them in half and insert them to cover the cervix.  I have done this when my boyfriend and I were to have sex and nature intervened. He never knew. There is also a method I used involving douching but you gotta know how to do it. I think the cup was called Instead of something of that sort. You can buy it from Walmart, Target or any general store like that. It comes in a purple envelope. It looks like sanitation napkins because they are big. If you don't know your body when the cup won't work for you. You have to be sure that it covers the cervix and that it won't slip. If you can't wear tampons them you can't wear these. If I am having cramps or some kind of menstral related symptoms I don't book. I don't book when I am menstrating usually because I like to give my body a rest.

Have, since my start at 16, been unpredictable, skipping often, then coming early.... docs said my long skipping was due to too much exercise, very true, but then it comes out of the blue.  Have had to cancel a few appts.... disappointing for both parties, but that's nature, and not into playing on those days.

It's got this rubber stalk thing on the end, and there is nothing in the FAQ about shagging with it in.  Given that the tail of an IUD (which is thinner than a fishing line) can cause grief, how does 'head butting' a rubber stalk feel?  Like having a chopstick shoved down your urethra I imagine.

Oh, I get it.  This appeals to the same guys who get off on having their scrotum trampled with 4" of Blahnik.  Actually, not as 'icky' as it sounds, because, with practice, you just squash the skin in between and not the testes themselves.  Still, probably doesn't appeal to everyone.

OK, you can uncross your legs now

I've got no problem if a provider shows up with this "condition", Providing.........
If the lady wants to work she should be willing to give a BBBJCIM, as well as taking it in the ass.  If not, she should expect the customer to be an unhappy camper.  We show up expecting to put it into 2 orifices right?  That's generally what it takes to satisfy the modern guy.  This is not Highschool!

I have always used it! It is awesome!


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The Keeper is definitely not for having vaginal penetration.  But you should get it anyway for your period!  It is fantasitic!  I highly recommend

and passing it on.  Can't wait to try it!

Most health food stores carry Sea Sponges. Wet the sponge, dip it into Fat-Free (or vanilla) Yogurt and insert. The yogurt has acidophilus which is the good bacteria. It also takes away the taste & smell of the monthly and you taste yummy!  I do this every month and take 2 Advils. Men never know the difference!

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Sponges can be inserted against the cervix to hold the flow back for a short period of time. (Cosmetic sponge, sea sponge, etc.) Just make sure that you have a clean glove on for insertion and removal and never leave one in for more than a 2-3 hrs so that bacteria don't breed.