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BFENiceGuy 1801 reads
posted
1 / 16

Posting under an alias to maintain confidentiality - I got references before seeing this lady.

Last Wednesday I had a dinner date with a lady that I met for the first time.  We had a great time in and out of the bedroom.  As our date ended, I invited her to come back to my hotel room in the morning before I checked out at noon.  She enthusiastically agreed and she said she would text me when she left her home after dropping her 10 year-old at the father's house.  The promised text arrived promptly saying she was on her way and would text me on arrival in 30 minutes.

I never got another text.  I waited and texted her 3 times over the next 90 minutes.  Since then all kinds of scenarios are running through my head as to what might have happened to her, most of them unpleasant.  I texted her again Saturday asking her to let me know if she was OK.  It's been radio silence and the only way to communicate with her is by text as she is locked out of her email account.
 
Some years ago I experienced a NCNS by a lady I had seen several times.  I finally heard from her two weeks later.  She has been involved in a very bad traffic accident that required removal of her spleen and a week in the hospital.  I hope this is not a repeat situation.

 I know there's nothing that can be done beyond what I have attempted to do other than to pray for her and hope she is safe.  I'm just expressing the frustration and feeling of helpless that I am experiencing.

icyblu 100 reads
posted
2 / 16

She's probably fine. Most likely had a change-of-heart after the dinner date. Maybe things were getting too intimate.  

If you're really concerned, you could put in an anonymous tip with the local PD.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 110 reads
posted
3 / 16

The best outcome is that she lost or somehow her phone broke, and her only way of contacting you got lost.

 
I've experienced this only once in 30+ years of hobbying had a similar experience.   The gal did have a car accident on her way to see me and her phone got wrecked in the process.   She was in the hospital for better part of a week, and when she got home she got to her computer and emailed me saying what happened.   Fortunately, there was no lasting damage.

 
I hope things work out OK.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 93 reads
posted
4 / 16

You texted her 3 times over the next 90 minutes from your appointed time....If she wanted you to know anything she would have reached out to you by now. You prayed for her safety, nice touch...but now it's time to Skidaddle
In this lifestyle things tend to take a weird turn, for whatever reason.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 105 reads
posted
5 / 16

I never would have done what she had did.

Mister_Pelican 49 Reviews 107 reads
posted
6 / 16

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Normally I would agree that she was clearly blowing him off.  But in this case, I'm not so sure.  If she wanted to blow him off, she'd wouldn't have texted him at all the next morning.  I mean, what was the point of sending him the first text saying she'd dropped her kid off and would be there in 30 minutes?  That's what makes this odd.
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wmassexec 3 Reviews 91 reads
posted
7 / 16

I heard from the lady today. She was involved in a bad accident. She’s OK and got a new work phone today. She apologized to which I said none needed. She would love to see me again and said “you really know how to treat a lady.”☺️

CurlyW-NatsFan 87 reads
posted
8 / 16

...and if the website has listed any providers she does doubles with, you can contact those providers and have them do a wellness check... But beyond that, you can't do much.. Just hope she is OK..

CurlyW-NatsFan 96 reads
posted
9 / 16

You are seriously the dumbest person to brace this board..  Not one of the dumbest, but THE dumbest.

wmassexec 3 Reviews 92 reads
posted
10 / 16

I just heard from her. She was in a bad accident and needed to get a new work phone. She’s OK and would love to see me again.  

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 100 reads
posted
11 / 16

Life happens. I hate to worry, but be optimistic & hope for the best. Have faith. Live & love. Smile for me. Xoxo

I love a man with empathy!

DeClemente 48 Reviews 116 reads
posted
12 / 16

Posted By: wmassexec
Re: UPDATE
I heard from the lady today. She was involved in a bad accident. She’s OK and got a new work phone today. She apologized to which I said none needed. She would love to see me again and said “you really know how to treat a lady.”☺️

DeClemente 48 Reviews 110 reads
posted
14 / 16

Posted By: wmassexec
Re: In your original post, how did you know she was locked out of her email?
She told me when we met
Thank you.

Montero1510 See my TER Reviews 85 reads
posted
15 / 16

I bet she had so much fun she passed out when she got home and slept. I don’t think you did anything wrong. If she doesn’t reply just let it go and remember the great time y’all had ..😘

BigBoyPants 5 Reviews 84 reads
posted
16 / 16

Translation:

She did not mind the appointment with you, and hopes to score some more cash from you for a good time (nothing wrong with that) but she got busy with other shit in her life, you really aren’t that important, and she blew you off.

That’s the nature of this lifestyle.

If you enjoyed your time with her, the time she actually spent with you, then that’s good and remember it.

She probably got a message from a regular who offered her good money for her time and she went with him instead.

Don’t be offended, it’s this lifestyle.

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