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If she has website..
...and if the website has listed any providers she does doubles with, you can contact those providers and have them do a wellness check... But beyond that, you can't do much.. Just hope she is OK..
Posting under an alias to maintain confidentiality - I got references before seeing this lady.
Last Wednesday I had a dinner date with a lady that I met for the first time. We had a great time in and out of the bedroom. As our date ended, I invited her to come back to my hotel room in the morning before I checked out at noon. She enthusiastically agreed and she said she would text me when she left her home after dropping her 10 year-old at the father's house. The promised text arrived promptly saying she was on her way and would text me on arrival in 30 minutes.
I never got another text. I waited and texted her 3 times over the next 90 minutes. Since then all kinds of scenarios are running through my head as to what might have happened to her, most of them unpleasant. I texted her again Saturday asking her to let me know if she was OK. It's been radio silence and the only way to communicate with her is by text as she is locked out of her email account.
Some years ago I experienced a NCNS by a lady I had seen several times. I finally heard from her two weeks later. She has been involved in a very bad traffic accident that required removal of her spleen and a week in the hospital. I hope this is not a repeat situation.
I know there's nothing that can be done beyond what I have attempted to do other than to pray for her and hope she is safe. I'm just expressing the frustration and feeling of helpless that I am experiencing.
She's probably fine. Most likely had a change-of-heart after the dinner date. Maybe things were getting too intimate.
If you're really concerned, you could put in an anonymous tip with the local PD.
The best outcome is that she lost or somehow her phone broke, and her only way of contacting you got lost.
I've experienced this only once in 30+ years of hobbying had a similar experience. The gal did have a car accident on her way to see me and her phone got wrecked in the process. She was in the hospital for better part of a week, and when she got home she got to her computer and emailed me saying what happened. Fortunately, there was no lasting damage.
I hope things work out OK.
You texted her 3 times over the next 90 minutes from your appointed time....If she wanted you to know anything she would have reached out to you by now. You prayed for her safety, nice touch...but now it's time to Skidaddle
In this lifestyle things tend to take a weird turn, for whatever reason.
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Normally I would agree that she was clearly blowing him off. But in this case, I'm not so sure. If she wanted to blow him off, she'd wouldn't have texted him at all the next morning. I mean, what was the point of sending him the first text saying she'd dropped her kid off and would be there in 30 minutes? That's what makes this odd.
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I never would have done what she had did.
You are seriously the dumbest person to brace this board.. Not one of the dumbest, but THE dumbest.
I heard from the lady today. She was involved in a bad accident. She’s OK and got a new work phone today. She apologized to which I said none needed. She would love to see me again and said “you really know how to treat a lady.”☺️
She told me when we met
Translation:
She did not mind the appointment with you, and hopes to score some more cash from you for a good time (nothing wrong with that) but she got busy with other shit in her life, you really aren’t that important, and she blew you off.
That’s the nature of this lifestyle.
If you enjoyed your time with her, the time she actually spent with you, then that’s good and remember it.
She probably got a message from a regular who offered her good money for her time and she went with him instead.
Don’t be offended, it’s this lifestyle.
...and if the website has listed any providers she does doubles with, you can contact those providers and have them do a wellness check... But beyond that, you can't do much.. Just hope she is OK..
I just heard from her. She was in a bad accident and needed to get a new work phone. She’s OK and would love to see me again.
Life happens. I hate to worry, but be optimistic & hope for the best. Have faith. Live & love. Smile for me. Xoxo
I love a man with empathy!
I bet she had so much fun she passed out when she got home and slept. I don’t think you did anything wrong. If she doesn’t reply just let it go and remember the great time y’all had ..😘
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