It would never happen, but finding a provider willing to go with me to a dentist appointment would make me get over that phobia pretty quickly - I could tolerate teeth cleanings if they were combined with a blowjob

Just fantasizing as I wait for my twice-yearly appointment...

...holding your hand throughout, then treating you to a nice, long, relaxing BJ afterward?

i have done this for an old friend who has a lot of anxiety about seeing the dentist. it seemed to help.

Holding his hand or the BJ?

Oh yes, that would've helped tremendously! Knowing I had a bj as reward waiting for me (with constant physical reminder of that hand holding) would have taken my mind out of the moment.  I suppose I have six months to set that up for next time!

Find one that does prostate massages. Then you could get drilled in both ends at the same time.

As I always say when I am faced with a difficult task at hand, like meeting with a lawyer, going to court, having to testify at a senate hearing or having a difficult meeting to attend. I always say, "I'd rather have a root cannal"