Every finger is unique. Every tongue is unique. Every penis is unique. Every vagina is unique. . Every woman is unique. Every man is unique. Every person is unique. . If you don't care to use your fingers, don't. . Your personal preferences are not the gold standard for best sexual practices with ALL women. . Life is good. . The Cat
Without naming names, a political finger supposedly stuck his digit in some lady’s pussy. I’ve read some reviews where it’s mentioned as well, though in a different context, and consensual. What is the thrill with this? I can understand getting a lady off using your mouth or your dick. However, unless you are performing a stinky pinky to see if you should DATY, I don’t know why performing a gynecological exam is part of a session. Am I missing something?
Hand jobs feel great. Works for both men and women. You can definitely get a lady to O with your fingers. I had a woman claim I got her seven O's in an hour with my fingers. (She was a sugar babe, so she might have just been saying that cuz money.) But I have gotten O's from civie women as well. . Now whether you think pleasing the lady is a waste of your time or not is another question. I'm just saying it is not only possible, but easy.
To your mouth or dick? Not criticizing. If you can type 60 words a minute, maybe I should acquire that skill. However, I can’t see how my small hands are a substitute. I guess this is a tool to put in the toolkit. Pull it out if necessary?
My general understanding is that a dick doesn't really get it done, or at least not as effectively. Tongue action has satisfying psychological aspects as well as mechanical stimulation. So yeah, that's pretty effective. But your fingers can be active for a lot longer than a tongue before tiring. . I should say that I haven't had much success with finger insertion/g-spot. I'm mostly a clit stimulator. That's the way a lot of chicks masturbate.
It is so true that the psychological aspect of a BJ can stimulate the mind (the ultimate sex organ) and therefore be more satisfying and erotic, but a HJ from a skillful practitioner (often a MP gal) can be the ultimate thrill, especially if she adds some tantalizing verbal or other erogenous aspects to her performance. I can think of one who got me off like a rocket by leaning over and brushing her huge erect nipples against the tip of my cock as she stroked me.
But to each their own, and as always, variety is the spice of life, so I go for all.
If you know where her G-spot is, FIV is the surest way to stimulate it. Most women can have an O from either clit stimulation or G-Spot stim. Others may only be able to get off with one or the other. It pays to be adept at both. Many times, a woman who cums during penile penetration its because the head of your dick is rubbing her G-spot on each stroke. This can be achieved in missionary if she rolls her hips upward to facilitate contact. In doggy she needs to sway her back a little for max contact. In flat doggy, she just raises her butt a little off the bed. However, all of these can be physically taxing and are not guaranteed to get her there. My usual is to use my tongue on her clit and a finger on her G-spot at the same time during DATY. This can result in an explosive O with a total release of fluids. Some higher volume providers don't allow FIV and its not because they don't like it, its because it makes them cum, and if they have several appointments booked for the day, they don't want to be tired out before they see everyone.
Always helpful to have another opinion. Reminds me of what my grandfather said. A man who knows how to use his hands will never go hungry. I don’t think he meant pussy, but I never asked him directly.
It's another tool in the tool box. For those of us who want the provider to have a great time (thus initiating a positive feedback loop so that she's truly into it and we both have a greater time), it' s fun when done as part of the overall plan for play. Yes, consent is needed, like all aspects of p4p, so make sure before hand (ha!) that y'all are on the same page.
Thus, I like using it as an adjunct to oral play, which helps get her to her first O. She's warmed up and having fun, I'm revved up and things just get better from there.
All of this assumes that I know something about the female anatomy, how to find and stimulate the G Spot (yes, it DOES exist!) and I've booked enough time for us to be relaxed and breaking out all the fun toys and tools.
....and I've had to stop many a well meaning provider from doing it. Funny but most sex workers that I have been with say that they don't enjoy it much either, often saying that guys are too rough, their fingers are generally filthy, and they just don't seem to know what they are doing down there. lol. To each her own but I'll do a hard pass on it every time.
you just haven't met the right finger yet. Lol I have had many providers tell me they like my fingers. You are right about the general aversion to dirty, unkept fingers. Many Kgirls check out your hands when you first arrive, and if they aren't satisfied with your cleanliness or your nails are not clipped close, they will take FIV off their menu. I get a professional manicure weekly, so I'm seldom turned down. Even when a girl's profile says she is "touch outside only", when I flash my manicure, they will usual allow finger play.
As always everyone is responsible for their own orgasm. I rely on the ladies telling me if they like something or don't like something. I understand pros are less likely to say anything because it is just punching the clock for them. But if they do speak up I am usually more than happy to oblige.
Some clients of tgirls enjoy fingering our backsides not so much because how it feels for us, but because it excites them for various reasons (taboo, porn fantasy, et al). I've had several sessions with new client (also new to tgirls) and he's been exploring various aspects of this new experience. Last sesh he fingered me for 1st time and he thought it was the coolest thing the way it felt for him. Long way of wondering if some hobbyists like fingering pussy not as a means to an end, but for the act itself. xoxo Kacy TGirl
I love feeling a lady’s wetness. It is a major turn-on for me. And unless you’re having BBFS, this is the only activity for that. And it’s very intimate when a lady allows this, as some don’t. But yeah, gently fingering as I use my tongue on her clit... makes me rock hard. And when a lady truly enjoys this... wow, some of my best hobby memories...
I read is some magazine in the grocery line about finger play, and tried it out with amazing success.
Make sure you are trimmed and very clean. I use a nail file or sanding block to get a very smooth finger. You can touch both spots at the same time. Middle finger inside touching the g-spot. Flatten the hand, and the knuckle rubbing on the clit. I have also used my thumb on the clit. Gently in and out. A leg between hers will allow you to continue as she locks her legs together.
Works great with my GF. Usually with providers, I am too busy getting, rather that giving.
together, its usually a sign that you're not doing it right and they want you to stop. Its like the guys doing DATY that say she had an O in 30 seconds. She FAKED an O in 30 seconds because he's terrible at it and she wants him to stop. Its interesting that you want her to "endure" you whether she's enjoying it or not buy forcing her legs open with your leg. When I use my digits, they usually open up wider, not clamp shut. You need to be a little more in tune to what's really going on.
What was this magazine, anyway, Popular Mechanics?
Every finger is unique. Every tongue is unique. Every penis is unique. Every vagina is unique. . Every woman is unique. Every man is unique. Every person is unique. . If you don't care to use your fingers, don't. . Your personal preferences are not the gold standard for best sexual practices with ALL women. . Life is good. . The Cat
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