I know it's under an alias but help me out anyway.  Im thinking about flying a provider to the town that I live for a few days instead of traveling to her town.  It's a provider I've seen several times before so we are pretty comfortable around each other.  I know I pay all the travel expenses and ect..  

Im wondering what most providers charge to travel to a gent?  Like per day cost?  Some providers put the donation amount for something like that on their website but most do not.  And I know they will travel to a guy but just don't mention anything about it in their website.

Also for you out there who have had experience with this, either had a lady come visit you or a lady that visited a guy somewhere, what did you guys do with the time you spent together?  I know we wont be having sex the whole time but just wondering what else you do?  Like go to dinner, site see, get drinks im sure will all go down.
Thanks for any help

1) YOUR interests.  This is YOUR dime and YOUR time, so you should be able to do what is appealing to you first and foremost.

2) Social aptitude of the young lady in question. Lets face it .. some ladies are more socially adept than others. Not everyone is comfortable at certain types of venues/events.

3) City you live in. If you live in major metropolitan city you have virtually endless possibilities for social part of your program.  

For example, in NYC I offer extended packages which would be impossible to enjoy in Toledo Ohio or Bumfuck Alabama

Lina

Dear TravelwithMe:
First thing is the price. Although all providers would have a variance with this subject, be prepared to pay a considerable amount since the time you are requesting is considerable. Then also how sure are you that she would be compatible socially and comfortable in a myriad of situations? I was wondering have you been on any NON-BCD dates with the provider in question. Also what types of things does she enjoy doing and would you live in a place that would offer that? Also what type of plans would you have with her when she arrives so that she would enjoy herself? Also has she done this before and would she consider it with you? Also what type of personality would she be and why do you think that she would be compatible with you for a long term basis? Also what are her feelings on the subject and would she feel comfortable with you in social situations?

Re: I know

Counting trees is one of my fav activities there


Lina

Knowing Johh and GaGambler, they probably killed Bambi's Dad, fucked Mother and took Bambi to Puerto Rico.


Lina

Lina is right not all ladies are comfortable in all settings and may or may not be as socially skilled as others. Do discuss with the lady in question what you expect during that time to avoid all misunderstandings. As for rates nobody charges the same so there is not set answer. If it is not posted it means that she doesn't have a set rate for those types of engagements and that she will consider it according to the proposal you offer her.

Hey, Bum fuck New England has a lot to offer!

... while waiting in the tree stand for that Monster Buck during deer season!!

Hunting in NYC is a totally different experience than hunting in the mountains!

Had 2 ladies come visit me in my home town. Matter of fact, was talking about this very subject with a certain guy right about... now!

I can't get into the particulars cuz, well, I'm Mikey!

and on pains of perjury that an ex of mine killed Bambi's mom. she was lethal with firearms. (think international competition.) my kids are willing to sign affidavits to that effect. so in this instance johngatlng is utterly blameless.

addition, what expenses will she have back home?  Child care or pet care come to mind.  Also, she will be missing out on other income.  For example, if she is with you for 3 days, that is possibly 6 or more  appointments she has lost the income.

The cost may be lower if you are located in a city she has always wanted to visit.  Boston in the summer or fall, New York City or Chicago during the holidays and Miami (or other warm climate) in the winter are several examples of great destinations.  Now, if you are in Cleveland and want her to visit in February, good luck

Having traveled to see only 1 client the donation became something comparable to having to fly in a consultant. Any time spent with the client was compensated. Travel as well. Some ladies make discounts relative to play time versus casual time. All you have to do is ask since you state you have history with each other.

Then you should be able to come up with agreement on what rate to pay, if any, for her travel time.

You are also right to plan on social fun stuff to do outside the bedroom.  Since you are the customer, and know the lay of the land, why don't you decide what is fun for you, be that a trip to a museum, movies, the rodeo, shopping, a scenic drive....it's your dime!

The very words Gucci, Chanel, Louis Vutton, make me shiver in fear. lol

but cmon guys, this isn't rocket science. It seems like many of the guys here have never been on a multi day date before. Just remember, she is a woman first and a sex provider second, take her where you would take any other woman you were involved with, well involved for a day or two at least. lol

Just like all the rest of the "flat landers" who used to come to MY woods to go hunting. This, back in another lifetime of course. lol

I have been called a "mother fucker", but I think the term is MILF, and come to think of it I have also killed a buck or two in my life as well.

Damn Lina, you really nailed me this time. lol

but I never took a Bambi to Puerto Rico, are there any hotties going by the name Bambi with an itch to go to the Carribean?

this one looks like my type,

http://classic.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=155175

I've bought enough handbags in my lifetime now to have nightmares with.

I have traveled several times for clients, i have even gone out of town with some, and others i have gone out of country with. Depends on how well you know the young lady, or she you. I have had one very bad experience where the client did a 180 on me because he was more than emotionally attached and misappropriated his feelings onto me. That is a longer story.
Most part i have had nothing but a great time traveling to and with clients. Dependent on where we are going, and for how long I give a break because of airfare and hotel. Some ladies are not willing to a give a break on that.

If Mikey has a problem with what I have to say, he's a big boy and can speak for himself.

I don't know you from Adam, and wasn't talking to you.

and you apparently don't have a fucking clue as to what a "flatlander" is. Do yourself a favor and buy a clue before you make yourself look stupid again.

Yeah, I can see you with a drink inhand watching old Disney movies! Probably waiting for another chica to show up to your suite.

understood and while they carry guns

i don't.

although i have never murdered anyone. it has been said that i am so ugly that my looks kill.

Re: I know

Wow. Lots of Urban hating of the other half here. I guess none of you like waking up to the song of a mountain stream or smelling clean air or the total lack of extraneous headache inducing noise.

And what does living in the country have to do with killing Bambi? Of course, that means you are all vegans, right?

For an allegedly "open minded" group, you all sure do have your bigotries all lined up.

I love the rural lifestyle and have traveled all over the world comparing where I live to those places. I would much rather live here and visit there than vice versa.

I guess some of you open minded folk aren't.

Really. And you would know me how? I would happily compare my life experiences with yours, even though I live in a rural area. Your bigoted rant reveals your lack of insight.

Hmmm.. you're use of the phrase "flat landers" gives up much information.

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Pull your fucking head out!

I'm a drunk, what's your excuse? You starting shit with a mod? With no basis of WTF you're talking about?

Good look with that, pal!

Where the fuck did you come from? You came out of nowhere, starting shit with a MOD, no less!

Gambler and I were talking to each other. We're boys, though, if you think about it, he's my boss and can stifle my ass whenever he sees fit and I respect that cuz I respect him. And I'll throw Little Phil in the mix also.

So here you come, starting shit. Sticking your nose in where you don't belong.

Not even throwing a good humored jab, like most people. You fucking flat out go after Gambler. Fucking stupid! You're gonna make a lot of friends fast....lmmfao!!!

If 'I' was you? I'd apologize to Gambler and hope to God he doesn't hold it against you.

Me? I don't give a fuck. I probably won't remember this shit tomorrow anyway.

But the mods, they know. And if I remember correctly, one of them told me they have the memory of an elephant. Think about that, motherfucker....

Son, I've been a paying member for a fairly long time. "Out of nowhere"? Not.

As for starting shit with a mod, I don't give a fuck who a person is if I think they are starting shit with me, I'll give it back with change to spare and they better have packed extra underwear because it's going to be a long stay.

As it turns out, I was under the impression that the "Mod" was giving me shit so I gave it back, like men with a pair do. I may have been mistaken. No harm, no foul "mod".

You? I don't need to give you shit. You are doing a wonderful job all by yourself.