I have been in the hobby since the late 1970’s.  Yes, I am older.  I have seen girls of all ages and all races.  Maybe I am getting old but what would be a normal session with a very mature 19 year old earlier this week made me think the age difference was too much.  While I immensely enjoyed myself multiple times,  I am realizing that I should probably not see 20 some year old providers and stick to girl at least 30 years old.  Not only is it odd for a young girl to hook up with a man 40+ years older and feel comfortable but it feels weird to me too.  At what age are newbie providers off limits in your opinions?  I am starting to think anything less than. 40 year age difference is okay but over that is suspect.

Because you could get those 18-20 in troubles.
The dumbest questions are asked here.
Good thing I'm here to answer them.

In P4P, behind closed doors? I don't see many girls in that age range, but haven't had an issue with it and don't anticipate one. If she's willing to take my money, I'm going to be fine with it. Look forward to being 80 and telling a 19 year old "I love this young stuff" before going down on her.
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If it was civie dating or even SB out in public I might be uncomfortable with how others react, but that's a different issue.

I often see girls who's parents hadn't been born yet back then.

In fact, if anything, it is kind of exciting.   If that makes me a pedophile, so be it.  In any case, it is kind of rare for me because I like to stick with gals I know well, so the average age of the gals I see is probably around 45 these days.

Age doesn't bother me.  Other than in my opinion you get bad service from young ladies.  So I look for ladies at least 40 years old.  Younger ones just don't know the business side of the hobby as well or how to treat a guy.   Always exceptions to every rule.

That's not a question for us.  It's all and only about what's in your head, your desires and discomforts.  You are in private with the ladies in question, yes?  So it's nobody's business but  yours and hers.  If an 18-year-old hooker pleases you, pay up and enjoy.  If the age makes you nervous, avoid.  Simple as that.  

Until then I'm happy to see any woman who is a willing adult. I think the youngest provider I've seen was in her early 20s and she was smoking hot. And yes, young can mean inexperienced and entitled, but it also means firm and wet.

To have sex with 18 to 20 year old consenting women.  
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The place is anywhere you agree to meet, and the time is anytime after you both turn 18.  
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As long as you stay within those constraints (no pun intended), and she makes you hard, it's all ok.  
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If you are just no longer interested, then move on. No judgement here about whom you fuck or why, as long as it's legal and consensual.  
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I am in my late 50's and I have been with providers who age from 18 to 55 (according to her, but probably 60-ish) and I prefer younger (over 18) women, preferably under 25.  I'm not selecting a provider for an hour or two of deep, philosophical discussion on the human condition. That's what strippers are for. :p  
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I just want to have sex.  
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The Cat

Yes, I agree that SHE needs to be at least 18, but speaking for myself personally I had been with many 18-20 year old, consenting women well before I turned 18 myself. lol

a jury of fellow mongers, you might even get acquitted.  At worst, it would be "justifiable" homicide. Lol

I’m not an old man but I know what I like and I’ll like it for as long as I damn well please. All that really matters is that she’s legal and your interactions are consensual, after that the sky’s the limit. If I’m in my 90s or something, and can still get it up and lay some pipe, I’ll totally book an 18 year old who’s willing to service someone who could be their great-grandpa, no doubt.

Fair enough, GaGa.
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My 1st sexual experience was with my  then 16 year old GF when I was 18. Her parents knew and liked me,  and they were aware (and so tacitly approved) that we were having sex. But that was long ago (1982 or so) and frankly, I'm not making any posts here or elsewhere that may be interpreted by anyone as "advocating" for sex with a minor - male or female.  
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And as you know, I play rather deep in the sugar bowl and have had (and still do have) many relationships with 18+ to late 20's women. Add interracial mixes to that, and I've seen it all from people out in public giving us the "stank eye".  Never bothers me a bit. In fact, I just love it!  
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i don't care how physically hot a girl (not woman) under 26 is, i have found nearly all are either sexually boring or at best lacking in sexual knowledge.     i realize that for many guys all they need for a 10 experience is a hot body and open legs and thats what makes them happy then great to each their own.    but .. give me a mid 30s woman rated 9 in looks anytime over a 24 year old 10  .    

Other people should never be forced to bear the brunt of someone else bad choices. If Gag were to go on such a date (seems unlikely but he posed it so....) then being seen would be on him, not the friend.

The modern man ... should stop for red lights, but not wait for green lights.
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Carpe Diem.

If she doesn’t mind it doesn’t matter.  Lately the sweet spot for me are ladies around the age of 24.  I have had several trysts with 2 different ladies who are both 24.  Had a 3 year relationship with a lady when she was 21.  I think I saw her 60 times in 3 years......unfortunately she entered Medical School out of state.  She claimed I was the only client she was seeing,  whether it is true or not, it doesn’t really matter at this stage.  I still prefer p4p vs SB.  Dabbled in it, but it just was not for me.

For me, being an old dinosaur, I find my "sweet spot" to be mid-30s to mid-40s (as long as I find them otherwise attractive). Having been in p4p since '92 (off and on), I've played the age and ethnicity range. I wanted to "taste the rainbow" (royalties to Skittles) -- but having done that, I've found that as I get older, a 45 year age difference doesn't do it for me.

But the minute I let you go free you'd be right here on TER posting "You'll never guess what kind of pig I just caught GaG with" lol

Play ball!

I've been doing this for 25 years, and  we all know  that most pro gals probably don't care, as long as they get paid.  I don't have a daughter or grand-daughter, but it's just starting to feel "wrong"  to be with someone very young somehow.   But that's just my issue.  Fortunately, I know plenty of MILFs and 30+ ladies, and they usually offer the advantage of skills and maturity.  And they might have heard of the Beatles.

Already been answered a bit on here but as long as they are of legal age, it’s up to you. At the end of the day, it’s your cash. It’s not like the hobby is your mortgage or car payment where you have to make it or you lose it. This is part of your discretionary spending. Do what makes you happy and say F’it to everything else. Only you can answer whether or not you want to see them. The one advice I would give would be to worry less about the age and more about whether you connect with the provider. There are no rules to the hobby around who you should or shouldn’t see. We all have our own types so go with what makes you happy.   Even if people did judge you one way or the other, do you really give a shit about what a bunch of strangers on the internet think...

I ran across a semi gfe girl on BP. She was 19....I saw her twice, but it just felt too creepy for me given my own age. Being with 30 something women isn't even natural at my age, but, I can self justify that at least.  
Very hard for most 20 something girls to give a realistic gfe performance when the age gap becomes too great....my opinion.

If you're trying to get with a "Kid".....Not my cup of tea but fuck it, to each his own.

Have at it.  As long as she's a legal adult.

Short answer: Until cognitive dissonance sets in.

30.  I have a daughter a little older than that and lower than 30 just seems a little creepy to me.  Too much of a difference in our cultural perspectives.  Nothing really to talk about that we BOTH know something about.  I usually book two hours when I'm repeating, which is 75%+ of my hobby hours, so in between pops, there is usually about 30 minutes of down time" (no pun intended), during which I like to little conversation.  So with this in mind, even though my cut-off is 30, I prefer women in the 35-45 age group if Asian, and 30-40 if not, not just for the conversation, but for the ability to find some chemistry to go with the physics of sex.  I know 30-45 is a sacrilege to guys like my friend, GaGa, but we all gotta go where we feel the most comfortable, and at 61, this is it for me.

I'm 79 and nothing better than going down on a nice pink 19 year old.

I see MILFs and GILFs over 40, but sometimes will get an itch for someone in their 30s.

I will not see anyone younger than 21. I follow this rule in strip clubs too. I will spend time with an 18, 19, or 20 yr old in a strip club but I have a hands off policy until they turn 21. I won't go to a VIP room with them. Escorts again no one under 21. I know some say, she could be my daughter or in my case granddaughter But she isn't so I'm fine with it. It happens that I have never seen an escort younger than 23 but that's simply a matter of happenstance.

Exactly what do you mean by grass on the field?

That's what I thought. I wanted to be sure. I was at first concerned about that statement but when I reread the OP I realized it was not an issue.

Should never be more than 100

That could be problematic. lol

among the other inmates.  

I have never given a second thought to the age of a provider when booking. I chose from photos and reviews.  I assume my regular bookers are not booking under age girls.   I usually do one hour sessions, and I can make small talk with just about anyone for 10-15 minutes if time is left over. A few times after a session I will note that a provider was a bit on the old side. However, when a provider is inexperienced (young), it does not turn me off. Either I have fun teaching, or I decide to wait for her to pick up some experience before returning. I will admit I have gotten a good laugh a few times when a provider says something like, “Give it to me harder daddy!”

I told him, if she dies, she dies.

OMG  LOL  You're my hero!

That joke was old in Shakespeare's time.

There was an old billionaire who agreed to marry a young, hot gold digger. She figured that she'd fuck him to death soon enough and inherit lots of money. On their honeymoon night, she is in bed and her geriatric hubby joins her. He puts on a condom, puts ear plugs in his ears, and affixes a nose clip to his nose. She asks, "What are those for?" He said, "There are two things I can't stand. The sound of screaming women and the smell of burning rubber."

A 93 year old guy goes into a bar and as he grabs a stool to sit he says "Bartender! Round of shots for everyone! I'm getting married tomorrow to a 19 year old woman!"  
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Everyone cheers and rushes up to congratulate the man on his amazing announcement... except the bartender. He had worked at this locals' hang out for decades and had seen too many of these types of things go horribly wrong.
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After the drinks are served and the crowds return to their seats, the bartender wanders over the groom, shaking his head. He says "Hey old timer, how old are you, anyway?"  The groom replies "I'm 93 and loving life!. The bartender shakes his head again: "Wow, 93...you realize that can be fatal?"  The old man smiles and says "Fuck it! If she dies, she dies!"  
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[Rimshot]
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The Cat

Don't worry mrfisher. I didn't ignore your post.

...every reply before I can add a useless joke that doesn't advance the OP's topic?  
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Really?  
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Well, shit.  :P  
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Rimming seems to be his specialty of late.

And my average is 30s -late 40s.  Though an occassional 23-30 yr old is a treat.  Its behind closed doors, if they are good to go I don't see a problem for the acts themselves 18 or older.  Now I would NEVER go out in the town with anyone under 25, but thats me.  I'd fuck em or get a bj or daty behind closed doors tho.

I'm also 79 and totally agree.  If she agrees with the request, takes the money, then I am quite happy taking care of her while she does the same for me.

Totally agree, and, the firm and wet is very much inviting...

I'm 66 next month and have been in the hobby since the early 90s.  My tastes have definitely changed as I have gotten older.  When I was younger, the 18-20's were great.  I was closer to their age and the fantasy was that you were doing adult things with the hot girls in high school or college who you could never seem to successfully ask out.  As I got older, generational differences emerged (both ways) and I realized that part of the foreplay and anticipation was to be carry on a conversation.  Then, the "creep factor" enters into the picture.   Somewhere along the way, we get weirded out by girls younger than your daughter (nieces in my case) and some younger girls get weirded out by having sex with someone old enough to be her father.  This adds tension and distractions that can't be overcome by the physical sensation of being consumed inside a 19-year old vagina.   Then, as we get older, we all eventually realize that experience counts and that there really are bad blow jobs.  These days, I'm happy with hot & fit women from 35 on up.  For a guy my age, that's sort of in the "trophy wife" age range.

EOM

Spot on, amigo. I'm just a bit ahead of you on the timeline and we reflect the same sentiments.

that my favorite age is 30-40 for all ethnicities except Asians.  For Asians, my top limit goes up to 45 because most look five-ten years younger than their physical age, as evidenced by most reviewers who set up a profile for an Asian provider are too low on the age range by ten to fifteen years.  

Age has not been a factor for most of my hobby career.  I simply like slender women with oral skills.   Early on I met with a girl who said she was 18 and may have been less.  She was one of the best ever for me.  Saw her again 7 years later and it was not the same.  She still did a good job, but I missed the "sweet 16" personality.  I was mid 50s then.  

A person is ether old enough for sex or a person is not. The age that is is highly depends on the individual and that person's life experience. The law sets that age on most states at 18. 18 is also the legal age of majority in the US. Legally and morally there is zero difference between bedding an 18 year old or bedding an 118 year old.

I am 45. Had my oldest when I was in my 20s.  

Traci Lords was a superstar from 1984-1986 during the Golden Age of Porn but there was a problem: she used falsified documents to support her age claims and then the shit hit the fan.  During her time, porn movies had very high cinematic values, scripted scenes, professional sets and costuming, non-porn plots, etc.. (Gonzo and other porn genres came later.)  Traci portrayed sexually "mature" characters in their 20s or older and, it was said, she did so very convincingly. No one thought that this was an under-18 teen in those scenes. It was a mature, experienced young woman.  
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Then, around the same time, there were also movies with adult woman playing young teens and even baby dolls.  
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Some writers have asked, What is worse? Having a 17-yo, mature beyond her years, convincingly portray 20-30 yo women or having a 22 yo dress up and act as a sub-18 yo to cater to the interests of pedophiles? I am pretty sure that porn stopped with the deliberate presentation of 18+ models as young (sub-18) teens years ago. Today, the "teen" label means 18 and 19 and is also sometimes used for 20-40 yos.  
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I think we all know children, teens, and adults whose maturity does not match their chronological age. Some can dazzle you with maturity beyond their years on many topics that leaves you shaking your head in amazement. On the flip side, I can think of a well known 74 yo celebrity in the news every day who has the maturity and intellect of an 8 yo.  

I agree that any age limit is going to be arbitrary compared to the actual mental maturity of a specific individual.  However, absent a definitive age limit, you know pedos would be pushing the boundaries to the extreme.

You could tap Tracy Lords now and not feel bad about it...

Personally I like 20-40 years difference for me, that feels natural. Anyone younger or older than that feels like work. Lol.

and some of us are more different that others. lol

I am assuming that you are saying that your range is 18-41 and that everyone is only look at the difference as being subtracted.

although I was just kind of following Maddy's lead when she said she preferred a 20-40 year "age difference"  in truth there are very few 41 year old's that I am actually interested in so I guess my preferred age difference is more like a 25-43 year difference which would translate to an age range of 18-36.

I could swear there was a time when your cutoff was 25, occasionally up to a 30yo, but only if she still LOOKED 25.

Some very hot and skilled 40 year-olds.  Ifs okay, more for me!!  Lol

Otherwise why would there be any issue for two consenting adults?  The real answer I guess is the age that you feel uncomfortable with it.

is not going to let becoming a corpse slow him down much.  TER will just have to start a new discussion board that starts where the over-60 board ends.  It would be called "The Living Dead."

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I think that yes it's really creepy seeing your daughter age girl being force to do prostitution that is a human nature,

And most ladies aren't forced. So what is creepy is you being on this board if you assume the ladies are forced. And if they are not forced and of age of consent what is the issue?

I started when I was in that age group.   Nobody coerced or forced me into it.  

Started when I just turned 18. Good family. Needed extra cash. Did it on and off. Loving it since.

If she’s legitimately 18 I don’t have a problem with it. But I would be worried that she might have lied about her age and she’s really 17 in which case it would be statutory rape. And my daughter is 16 so if she looks like my daughter it would freak me out and I wouldn’t be able to get it up. I’m not taking that chance. I’ll stick with older women, 30 +.

I sugar babed a few 18 year olds.  They had to produce legal ID upon meeting.