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Uh, how does that work?
brownjack 83 reads
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It's a great idea.

 
"I'd like to request a two hour appointment on Saturday for 'when energy, relaxation, and desire are most likely to collide.'"

 
And no, I don't give a shit how the waiter takes his steak.  But, if the chef is happy, chances are I'm getting a better meal out of it.

What is your preferred time to see a provider?
First appointment of the day? Last appointment? Or somewhere in the middle?

Because it's just as likely she came to work after having been cream-pied by her boyfriend, so now you're messing around in his jizz.
Personally, I like mid-to-late afternoon or early evening.

with some providers in the past.  I know exactly what you are talking about.  They are often too tired at the end of the day to do much, but in the morning, when we wake up, they are full of energy. Sometimes, they are running late getting to the incall, so they plan to take their cream-pie-removal shower when they get there, but then they arrive, and the first customers car is already there.  All mongers who think first-appointment-of-the-day is best should reconsider this choice.  

 
However, I did have one provider girlfriend who refused to have orgasms with customers, and she would burst into our apartment after work and say, "Fuck me NOW, I've had four hours of foreplay today."  

she could only orgasm with customers.

...and on weekdays.  

I prefer to go to apartments where there is less chance of running into people as they are all at work.  

And I only book low-volume providers who have other careers (as disclosed on their website, which they also must have...), which is easy when you look at their hourly rate, so generally I can assume she is only seeing 1-2 per day.

RespectfulRobert72 reads

Playing for 2-3 hours first, sets up an appropriately timed dinner reservation perfectly.

It’s funny how this question is usually framed around men’s preference, but I like to think about it from a biology standpoint.

 
For men, testosterone tends to peak in the morning, no surprise there. But women’s rhythms don’t run on the same schedule. We tend to peak later in the day, when stress levels dip and the body can finally relax. Studies point to mid-to-late evening as a sweet spot for arousal for women. However, energy patterns matter too as most people are naturally sharper and more energized in the late mornings (10–noon) and again in the early evenings (5–8 PM). So the “best time” isn’t just about the clock; it’s about aligning with the body’s peaks, when energy, relaxation, and desire are most likely to collide.

 
Then again, I think I may have been a man in another life, because early mornings have me quite amped up in the best way. After that, it’s usually mid-morning after I’ve worked out, an early-afternoon spark, and then that deliciously charged window between 7–10 PM. Or maybe I’m just in my early 30s now, entering my sexual prime… like a fine wine that suddenly wants to climb you.

hehitshewins96 reads

Your initial point, and then your own response tells us what the real fact is "everyone is different." There may be more common themes, and science can tell us that. But in the end, we all need to know our own bodies.

 
That said, despite the science, I have never been a morning sex person. Not too big on nights either. Late mornings or early-to-mid afternoons seem to be best for me. I need a little time to get my energy up. But too much time (nights) and I'm tired. I find it harder to cum if I'm tired. And I'm talking frustrating for both. I've had women just give up at night, and TBH if I'm tired, I just let it be. I'd rather sleep then finish it myself.

 
When I was younger, unless I had a rough night, I would wake up with energy and still have energy at night. So, my response is also more about where I am now as a man in his 50s.

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420Smoka4Eva90 reads

Posted By: paigesavage
Re: I'm going to take this to left field for a moment...
It’s funny how this question is usually framed around men’s preference.
Of course it is framed around men's preferences, we're the ones paying for it. Do you ever ask the waiter how they like their steak cooked?

brownjack84 reads

It's a great idea.

 
"I'd like to request a two hour appointment on Saturday for 'when energy, relaxation, and desire are most likely to collide.'"

 
And no, I don't give a shit how the waiter takes his steak.  But, if the chef is happy, chances are I'm getting a better meal out of it.

Nah..... my fave time to mash it is in the morning upon first waking up. But then again there aren't many stereotypical "women" themes that I seem to follow, and I proudly wear that moniker in my life 😁

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So that's why no one offers appointments before 10am.

I get my lunch time escape then when I’m done, I’ll hit either the local Kings Taco or Tommy’s .for lunch.I do tend to get an appetite after.
But when I travel, it’s always late evening., 11pm or so because it’s my unwinding time after a probably stressful day

Only on tour do I feel like there’s pressure to preform because of the high expectations & need to protect my reputation. lol 😝 Smile for me!

I’m blessed to not have that problem. It’s draining to see lots of people. It’s easier to focus on 1 person and devote all your positive energies into them.

Best time to see a provider is the time that works best for you. Don't over think it.

is that I don't want to have to think about doing anything else after the session except go home and veg out on You Tube.

MarisolMoregan86 reads

Anytime is perfect for me… I like to keep things smooth and low- volume it keeps my energy vibrant and ready for what’s next. My therapy is more than just healing. It’s also good vibes. I move with a soft, low rhythm that keeps me vibrant and ready for what’s in store. When you step into my space for therapy, don’t be surprised if you leave feeling a little more than just healed… you’ll leave glowing.

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It really depends on my work schedule... but what I enjoy the most is an appointment to close the evening.

Generally, the best time to see a provider is when she is NOT on her period.  Trust me on this.  However, I have met a few outliers.  

…. weekdays. I took a very extended lunch at work so all my playtime was on my employer.  What a great benefit. Once I saw someone right around the corner from the office. 😂

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