It reminds me of the old cigarette ad that said:  Are you smoking more and enjoying it less?

So, back off from it for a while until the urge grabs you.

You might also want to go for something different.  Try some light BDSM for a change of pace, or try Tantra, or try some fantasy stuff.

Mix it up, don't wither on the vine.

I thought you were a young guy. When I was in my twenties and thirties the crack of dawn would not be safe if I ever abstained for an entire month. Now that I am in my fifties, the thought of going more than a couple of days without pussy just doesn't enter my mind,  but that's just me.

That said, if the OP is actually dreading his next couple of appointments, by all means he should cancel them and not reschedule until he actually starts looking forward to getting laid again, and not dreading it.

...from the hobby.  I'm getting the discomforting sense that (pardon my example) once you've eaten one pussy you've eaten them all.  Perhaps my frequency of 1-2 a week is too much and I need to move to 1-2 a month so I'm more hungry when it does come around.  Thoughts?

Slow it down man. Relax, get another hobby for a little while. I'm sure you won't retire. Just do it less. Too much of anything is not good. Even pussy. Of course too much for one person is not the same as too much for someone else. For some people 2x a month might be too much, for some maybe 10x a day might be too much. For you apparently it is 1-2x a week.

Also what mr fisher said. try some other stuff, change it up.

If you insist, you can pay for me to hobby twice a week and watch? ....

Once again, mrfisher tells it like it is. Change it up. Do it less frequently, and try new things when you do see a lady. Call on one that'll give you PSE instead of GFE. See one that'll blindfold you and spank the shit out of you if you haven't done that already. Do a MFM, or a MFF, WTF-ever.

The choices are so vast. You can't just say 'fuck it' and give up.

Be, be the ball.

Nananananana.....

Im gonna fuck myself right into the ground! Anyone got a shovel? Get poised lol

There's such a thing as getting tired of too much pussy if you have 2-3 a week.  
I took a break for 1 month and saw a gal 2 days ago.  Boy, I was really hungry to mount her pussy - had the longest oooo, and pussy felt soooo good.  ABSTINENCE has its rewards.   It's like not eating for 3 days and then feasting on a Prime Rib Steak Buffet.  

I know what you mean. In my old job, I had to travel overseas in some occasions. And after the month when I get back, I am horny as hell. And with the first provider I see, I get the fullest erection that I can possibly get, even if she doesn't look all that great. Even during the session, I feel that I am more hungry.

Now, with this set job, and no more traveling. I do about 3-4 providers a week. Honesty, its not that bad. Sure, my erection may not be full to its potential because it was already satisfied, and I may not feel hungry for pussy. And, I may not always bust the best and fullest nut. But, I am on to something here. With my frequencies, I feel that I am making myself a better person because I meet a variety of ladies. This helps me with my professional life. For example, if I had to work with a chic, and if she was a bitch, I can relate her physical appearance to the provider I have already seen. Sounds kinda strange right? But it works well with me.

Also, a recommendation. If you frequent regularly and get bored, visit the freaks in the sheets. Change up your variety, and visit providers that are very highly reviewed. You can't get bored with the type of service they provide, trust me, its good everytime.

Honesty, my job is stressful at times. So, I see providers regularly. I tried going 2 months with out it, and that didn't turned out too well. As we all know, pussy makes you relax, and ready for the next day. When I went 2 months without it, I was screaming at people, getting angry for all the smallest reasons, yelling at people, I was just too assertive, and I upset with every1 for not doing their jobs correctly.

With regularly pussy, I say, "ahh, forgetttt abooout it". If some1 makes a mistake, I'll say, "shit happens, we all aint perfect". If some1 is challenging me and calling me out, I say, "you wish you had my life you fool", and tell them to get lost and get laid and leave me the fuck alone.

Back to the main point, sure, sometimes waiting a week or two is beneficial for sex. Sex burn can occur. If you wait that long though, don't start yelling and scrutinizing others.

Fucker, I went without for 7 YEARS! My ex was such a demon bitch from hell I didn't want anything to do with women. She turned me off that much.

Funny thing was, co-workers and other ladies that knew me asked why I wasn't married or had a GF. Told them, jokingly cuz I never actually did it, that I was gonna find a hooker, get my dick wet, and that would be that.

Then I took a walk down the Strip in Vegas.....

There are times when I like doing it everyday and I could cum 2x-3x in 1 hour or 1.5 hours.  Heck I have cum 3X in 36 minutes with my regular, and it's standard that I pop at least 2X in an hour session.  BUT it has to be with the right lady.  I'm a very choosy guy and don't get turned on just by any lady, and would rather not have pussy if I don't experience great chemistry and intensity.  Hence, I would rather cut back if I don't get the ultimate sex experience. I'm not into "so..so" sex 'wham bam .. done'.  I want mind-blowing sex, and sadly, there ain't many ladies that meet my standard for pleasure - probably 1 out of 100 or 200 providers.

I find my dick skin suffering from abrasion if I hobby too much.
Plus some recharge time is required to unload a massive one...  lol


Slow charging is the worst because I gotta abstain.
Quick charging requires too much exercise, supplements, and nutrituous shit.

Can't have both I guess.

I'll do em for you if you pay, since you are dreading it
Actually like Gambler said if you are really dreading it, you should probabaly just cancel those 2 dates. Tell them something came up. Maybe you can reschedule them for a month out, and start your abstinence now and see how you feel in a month

Always saying exactly what we think and feel.

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Naw, I am just fortunate, that's all. Times are good, should I save? Probably, but, I feel no need to. Whats the use with saving if you not gonna spend? Right. Yeah, I may have a bad habit, but I enjoy my life. Actually, about four months or so ago, I was cutting back to probably 2-3 a month. But, I don't know, guess I've been kinda horny lately with all these new recommendations and new ads. This area where I am from is very good and have a wide selection.

I'm not rich, just a fortunate guy, that's all. Hey, if you work hard, why not play hard, correct? Yeah, I just saw 3 providers today, and my reviews for them should be up soon. That's right, 3 in one day today, my all time new record. First provider was at 6:30 AM, from BP, ran me about $200. Booked this upscale chic for 2 hours at 6:30, that ran me $500 full GFE. And now, I just got back from another chic, look at the time of this post. I was lucky I was even able to bust a nut with the third one, that was 2:30 AM for another $250.

Again, I ain't rich, just a fortunate dude. Let me know when you come around my area and I'll hook you up with some full on GFE. I'll tell them "My name" sent you. PM me if you want to. They know me around here. Hell, I might even get you a discount or a very good deal and you still get very good GFE services. Now, I am about to take a week off from hobbying, I have fullfilled my filthy desires, I can't go no more for this week.

thats all I have

need to find your kink

you know what I am talking about...those dirty thoughts in the back of your head...

lol...ok so maybe im just a pervert!!! :p

but it is true...i have quite a few clients that dont just want sex.. although the sex is good of course...but they play on their desires....their needs...fantasys....

I like the spanking comment...lol mp67

and mr fisher has a very good point... you might be surprised at how exhilerating it can be to have a lady tie you down...blindfold you...tease your whole body until u think ur going to explode...that anticipation itself can be more then exciting...

but thats just my 2 cents lol whatever you try...best of luck!!

That is impressive.  I tried busting the 3rd nut for my wife last night and couldn't bring it up.  That after the 1st two were busted more than 16 hours earlier with a provider.

Thanks for the offer but I'm more of a PSE guy and it seems I'm still having probs getting a usable stiffy for them.  I'll PM you.

Re: If you insist, you can pay for me to hobby twice a week and watch? ....

I'm already all about the PSE, I've done the MFM, FMF, and made 2 private porno's, and fucked one of this area's hottest and priciest.  The problem is I'm not sure what's left.  I could try a little more ethnic variety but at this point it's not super alluring.  Cutting back is starting to sound right.

Although yes, indeed you should cut back on things based upon what you have brought forth in your post, as well as the many responses to such.  Howver, this is what you should do!

Take a break from the many Ladies for a bit and then summon a unique and quite something Lady (like me for example - hehe), to have Blessings with, if you will, then STFU, give me that cock for Worshiping and give me that cock for mind, body and soul blowing sex!  Your pelvis will most likely hurt though, among other things - LULZ!  But, all in beyond an erotic Bliss and as a matter of fact, you will exclaim, Ohhhh-Myyyy-Godddd!



(Just ask MP, he knows - hehe)


Seriously though, take that break and then summon me of course (hehe) because there is no one quite like Mary Magdalene - Your Prayers have been answered!

Whatever it is you decide, I am sure it will be what is best for you and that is what matters here, what is best for you.


Love & Light,

Mary Magdalene

If you're in Chicago I will take you up on that.  :P

Have fun this weekend, BTW. Remember to keep that nitro handy, just in case!

Especially to take a break from the completely legit worries. That can eat away at you, alright.