I had an in call with a very highly rated/reviewed provider yesterday.  It was not a good "date".  I think she just had a bad day.
Now I am contemplating writing a somewhat negative review but thinking why rain on anyone's parade?  (plus she's part of a small agency who is really excellent and I don't want to rock that boat).  
On the one hand--I feel like I owe it to the community to participate in the reviews but-again--why be negative versus just moving on and not posting this review
thoughts?

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I recently posted a somewhat 'meh' review after posting all good ones. Interesting enough the lady had asked me to post one, and I think that prompted me to post it. Otherwise I might not have.There are ways to post a some what 'meh' review and make it not sound horrible. Search for your inner author.  I agree that reviews are really important here, and unless the lady requests not to post one, then you should post it.

"ymmv"

Granted it doesn't carry the same credibility if you use your TER handle.

If you really think it was just a bad day, then the reasons for the original decision to see her should still be valid.  Give her a chance to show true colors.  Unless the two of you didn't click personalities - then the second visit would likely be doomed as well.

Write the review, for Pete sake
That's the entire idea of this site.
You can put a disclaimer in there that she might have been having an off day...everybody has those.
But to not review a bad date is a disservice to everyone who depends on reviews for factual information.

The good news is that there are several excellent girls to visit.  For whatever reason/s--we didn't click. The overall experience was not close to the many reviews I read on her.  So, that either means a lot of negative reviews have not been written --or this was truly a one off--bad day for her--or we just didn't click.  
At any rate---plenty of fish in the sea--and I won't repeat with her--would rather test other women.  
I did post a review which I tried to cut a fine line between out right negative and forgiving.  Overall--it wasn't a terrible experience and I got what I paid for--so I'm not upset at all
thanks for the feedback!

I have a really negative review on my profile, and it goes to show we didn't get a long.

The tricky thing about this hobby is that you can't know chemistry ahead of time. Furthermore, we all have bad days. Providers are human beings and things happen. Would it be preferable to you if she had canceled the appointment or forged ahead and did her best? Probably if she would have canceled, you'd have thought "oh, what a flake". But she didn't cancel and now you are saying "well, that was a disappointment". So it's kind of a no win situation.  

then you'll never have to worry about being out by an escort if you post a not-so-flattering review of her.
When i meet a provider, and if they ask me "do you write reviews?" i say to them, "no, but i do look at TER from time to time. Thats how i got your information and thats why you and i are now meeting."
If you're going to give out your TER user name, then you've just limited ALL the rest of us guys who need to know who the crazies are and who are the cool one's.

A recent review I have says something to the effect of "I called her and she said you better come today because I'm not taking an apt for after today. It seemed shady but she had ple ty of good reviews"..

Spot on, Brittney. Too many people are nasty & vindictive.
I appreciate an honest review stating why the chemistry wasn't there. Maybe what didn't do it for you is just what I needed.

Posted By: BrittneyStarGirl

I have a really negative review on my profile, and it goes to show we didn't get a long.  
   
 I tell my clients or prospective the reason for that negative review, and then they understand better.  
   
 If she was having an off day she was having an off day. SAY THAT! but don't bash on the poor girl.  
   
 When I read that review, I nearly lost my right mind, because not only was it negative many parts were either incorrect, or left out. But its HIS/YOUR interpretation not MINE/THE PROVIDERS, so ter will not remove or ask for edit.  
   
 Either way, write the damn review- she earned it after all

For me, the client/reviewer in question had poor hygiene- I felt uncomfortable but I went with it anyway

I see the logic in this, I really do. But, honest question: if you NEVER give your handle, what good are whitelists?

Well, I had a bad date. We did not click at all. She tried though, so I did not post a review

if she did not rip you off, didnt hustle you, didn't mislead you by HER site (remember WE have no inout on our own reviews), didnt steal from you, didnt come in drunk high or dirty.. then nope.

There is no point in posting a review.

They want references or your P411/D-C account info.