If you really think it was just a bad day, then the reasons for the original decision to see her should still be valid. Give her a chance to show true colors. Unless the two of you didn't click personalities - then the second visit would likely be doomed as well.
Have you mentioned your concerns to the agency? Perhaps they might offer a repeat discount for re-evaluation, and some insight on what happened that day. I've had repeat visits with highly reviewed ladies, and occasionally that visit will coincide with something she's working through and it throws off the date. Everybody is working through many of the same daily struggles as you and I, and providers are no different but will have some distinct different influences just due to the market. Ever met a provider just after someone had scheduled, rescheduled, rescheduled yet again, tried to bargain, and then bailed out without meeting? That's an interesting bit o' time I'd like to have back, but she was still able to put on a brave face and forget about it for most of our time together. If the shoe was on the other foot then I'd have been ticked off for a couple more hours and unable to perform anything useful unless it was demolishing a house! The other times we've met she was fantastic, so I don't hold that day against her.I had an in call with a very highly rated/reviewed provider yesterday. It was not a good "date". I think she just had a bad day.
Now I am contemplating writing a somewhat negative review but thinking why rain on anyone's parade? (plus she's part of a small agency who is really excellent and I don't want to rock that boat).
On the one hand--I feel like I owe it to the community to participate in the reviews but-again--why be negative versus just moving on and not posting this review
thoughts?
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I recently posted a somewhat 'meh' review after posting all good ones. Interesting enough the lady had asked me to post one, and I think that prompted me to post it. Otherwise I might not have.There are ways to post a some what 'meh' review and make it not sound horrible. Search for your inner author. I agree that reviews are really important here, and unless the lady requests not to post one, then you should post it.
"ymmv"
be honest but not demeaning. say what you said here. you think she had an off day. things could be different with other cleints. etc.
Granted it doesn't carry the same credibility if you use your TER handle.
If you really think it was just a bad day, then the reasons for the original decision to see her should still be valid. Give her a chance to show true colors. Unless the two of you didn't click personalities - then the second visit would likely be doomed as well.
Have you mentioned your concerns to the agency? Perhaps they might offer a repeat discount for re-evaluation, and some insight on what happened that day.
I've had repeat visits with highly reviewed ladies, and occasionally that visit will coincide with something she's working through and it throws off the date. Everybody is working through many of the same daily struggles as you and I, and providers are no different but will have some distinct different influences just due to the market.
Ever met a provider just after someone had scheduled, rescheduled, rescheduled yet again, tried to bargain, and then bailed out without meeting? That's an interesting bit o' time I'd like to have back, but she was still able to put on a brave face and forget about it for most of our time together. If the shoe was on the other foot then I'd have been ticked off for a couple more hours and unable to perform anything useful unless it was demolishing a house! The other times we've met she was fantastic, so I don't hold that day against her.
The good news is that there are several excellent girls to visit. For whatever reason/s--we didn't click. The overall experience was not close to the many reviews I read on her. So, that either means a lot of negative reviews have not been written --or this was truly a one off--bad day for her--or we just didn't click.
At any rate---plenty of fish in the sea--and I won't repeat with her--would rather test other women.
I did post a review which I tried to cut a fine line between out right negative and forgiving. Overall--it wasn't a terrible experience and I got what I paid for--so I'm not upset at all
thanks for the feedback!
Write the review, for Pete sake
That's the entire idea of this site.
You can put a disclaimer in there that she might have been having an off day...everybody has those.
But to not review a bad date is a disservice to everyone who depends on reviews for factual information.
That's the entire idea of this site.
You can put a disclaimer in there that she might have been having an off day...everybody has those.
But to not review a bad date is a disservice to everyone who depends on reviews for factual information.
I have a really negative review on my profile, and it goes to show we didn't get a long.
I tell my clients or prospective the reason for that negative review, and then they understand better.
If she was having an off day she was having an off day. SAY THAT! but don't bash on the poor girl.
When I read that review, I nearly lost my right mind, because not only was it negative many parts were either incorrect, or left out. But its HIS/YOUR interpretation not MINE/THE PROVIDERS, so ter will not remove or ask for edit.
Either way, write the damn review- she earned it after all 
then you'll never have to worry about being out by an escort if you post a not-so-flattering review of her.
When i meet a provider, and if they ask me "do you write reviews?" i say to them, "no, but i do look at TER from time to time. Thats how i got your information and thats why you and i are now meeting."
If you're going to give out your TER user name, then you've just limited ALL the rest of us guys who need to know who the crazies are and who are the cool one's.
I see the logic in this, I really do. But, honest question: if you NEVER give your handle, what good are whitelists?
When i meet a provider, and if they ask me "do you write reviews?" i say to them, "no, but i do look at TER from time to time. Thats how i got your information and thats why you and i are now meeting."
If you're going to give out your TER user name, then you've just limited ALL the rest of us guys who need to know who the crazies are and who are the cool one's.
They want references or your P411/D-C account info.
Spot on, Brittney. Too many people are nasty & vindictive.
I appreciate an honest review stating why the chemistry wasn't there. Maybe what didn't do it for you is just what I needed.
I tell my clients or prospective the reason for that negative review, and then they understand better.
If she was having an off day she was having an off day. SAY THAT! but don't bash on the poor girl.
When I read that review, I nearly lost my right mind, because not only was it negative many parts were either incorrect, or left out. But its HIS/YOUR interpretation not MINE/THE PROVIDERS, so ter will not remove or ask for edit.
Either way, write the damn review- she earned it after all
For me, the client/reviewer in question had poor hygiene- I felt uncomfortable but I went with it anyway
Now, whenever someone smells, I just say no and leave
Now, whenever someone smells, I just say no and leave
The tricky thing about this hobby is that you can't know chemistry ahead of time. Furthermore, we all have bad days. Providers are human beings and things happen. Would it be preferable to you if she had canceled the appointment or forged ahead and did her best? Probably if she would have canceled, you'd have thought "oh, what a flake". But she didn't cancel and now you are saying "well, that was a disappointment". So it's kind of a no win situation.
If she didn't do anything and just laid there or was outwardly rude to you, then I think writing a negative review is appropriate. But if you just feel like something was off and it wasn't the best, chalk it up to bad chemistry between the two of you and move on.
If she didn't do anything and just laid there or was outwardly rude to you, then I think writing a negative review is appropriate. But if you just feel like something was off and it wasn't the best, chalk it up to bad chemistry between the two of you and move on.
Hard to know since this was our first "date". However, the experience was not what I had read in her reviews. So my thought a the time was that she just wasn't into it. In retrospect--I think she should have explained her physical difficulty from the get go to explain herself---and taking it a step forward--maybe should have taken the day off.
Naturally--one gets an impression of what to expect from reading the reviews---and this time mine was not met. Maybe she just didn't dig me--or whatever--Not concerned about it at all
Again--I basically got what I came for and wouldn't call the "date" a disaster--but I knew as I got back in the car that I wouldn't schedule her again
Just one of those things
A recent review I have says something to the effect of "I called her and she said you better come today because I'm not taking an apt for after today. It seemed shady but she had ple ty of good reviews"..
Anyways I would have never said that and I do not communicate via voice calls, only text/ email.
I pmed him asking if he got me mixed up and he confirmed that it was a mix up and apologised.
So I contacted admin hoping to get it changed, send the chat log and they told me to ask him to contact admin and request to edit it.
I did that and still no response (only been 36 hours), but I'm thinking he doesn't want to take the time to do it.
It's not a big deal but on the other hand it's really not the first thing I want someone reading about me. It's bitchy and I don't act that way.
I'm really hoping if he blows it off then admin will edit and omit the sentence, based on the communication we have had.. But also have a feeling it isn't that simple.
Well, I had a bad date. We did not click at all. She tried though, so I did not post a review
if she did not rip you off, didnt hustle you, didn't mislead you by HER site (remember WE have no inout on our own reviews), didnt steal from you, didnt come in drunk high or dirty.. then nope.
There is no point in posting a review.