I set up a date with a provider (excellent reviews) but something got me thinking: she hasn't updated her post (as visiting) in a couple weeks. Her website is updated with schedule, and communication through email seems normal. The last email stated that she was moving between hotels (smart move, just in case) in the area that she is supposed to be providing. Your thoughts are appreciated.

If you see black helicopters overhead or if there's a bunch of street vendors in Santa Claus outfits - Abort the mission and pop smoke immediately. Head to the extraction zone while maintaining cover and concealment.

Otherwise, proceed with the mission and we'll be waiting for your AAR.

Carry on

but this is not Match dot com.  It's not unusual to have the conversation wane IF the meeting is not immediate.   Many gals are busy with their civie lives AND their providing...  she might get dozens of emails a day!  If it's weeks away, a bit of chat is nice, if she has the time.  Your appointment should be confirmed about 24 hours in advance (varies)...  either of you can initiate the confirmation.   Upon confirmation, she should goive you a location and time to call her.  (Like Hotel H).  Call from outside, if possible...  she'll give you final approach instructions (like room number).  Ask where the elevators are, so you can breeze through the lobby like you belong.

email her to make sure you are still on...

I would only be worried if you had paid in advance

Thank you all! I value my privacy as much as I value yours and I thank each for your valuable input. Things worked out great despite inconvenients. @Back_in_black: Nice rant. I'm sorry about your cancellation.